hello to everybody, I'm an Italian guy, I knew a girl in Kiev, Victoria, she is 24 and she is in this internet site.
Now, after a period that we met 3 times, we call by phone everyday and we talk a lot, go out together and also kiss each other, I really don't understand if she is really interested in a serious relationship or not. I've done all my best, we are not to much different in age, we have similar interests and I propose her also to come to live with me and try to see if things are good for us like a couple. I didn't was in Kiev only to find a young girl to take to bed or with whom to have sex. I was searching for a serious relationship, but if she is serious why she doesn't want to delete from an intenet site like this and also from another, where people are searching for new relatioship?
Am I too much jelous? But the sites like this should be helpful to meet someone important, than I think that if each other are interested in a serios relationship they have to stop searching for other meeting, or not? I really don't understand, if anyone can help me to understand I will be really thanks to he/her.
Spasiba
Marco
why she doesnt delete herself from this site? You need to ask her that question, Ukraine/Russian girls are use to guys being straight forward, you need to ask her these questions, be up front about it, it's a serious matter, she'll understand and she will appreciate you more as a result.
Dear Marco, the explanation can be very simple- she could forget to remove her profile. or reason can be more complicated. maybe she is serious about your relationship but has some doubts. did you discuss it with her? i think that nobody can answer this question better than your lady.
Marco, you're absolutely right she should have done it on her own. Maybe she's waiting for you to propose to her formally? You have to talk to her.
My wife of two and a half years was featured on this site. I sent a message to this site and they removed her profile. I am not sure what the process is, whether they ask the girl first or they just remove the profile upon the man's request. They removed her profile, that's all I care. However, her profile ended up at fiance from somewhere else and I believe her profile was on a few other sites also. These profiles float around the system, so the girl doesn't always know on how many sites she is featured. Heck, I had seen my profile and pictures on some galleries and I never personally posted my information anywhere .. I was even the man of the month on a site for several months-:) (something like mr. wow-:)
Ask her if she is ok with you asking directly fiance.com to remove her profile. If she says no, then there is something not very good going on. If I were engage and offered to request the removal of my fiancee's profile and she said no, I would dump her and search for someone else.
Talk to her about all things, not just the profile thing. Communication is the key to success in relationships. Don't be afraid to ask her anything, and let her know she may do the same.