Monada, You are entitled to your opinion but not when it is unwarranted blatant verbal abuse, by law that is a crime.
I'm a muslima and coming across this forum I have found your posts insulting and offensive to me and my fellow muslim sisters.
Muslims the religion of "peace" ............
Fight the unbelievers totally. Know that Allah is with those who fear him. Oh believers,fight the unbelievers who are near you and let them find you in a harshness; and know that Allah is with those who fear him and do his will"
(Surah 9;42-47 The KORAN book )
The Koran is open to many interpretations just like the bible and other works of religious fiction. Stick with Budhism, nice fat bloke, proven to have lived, didn't believe in God but thought being nice to all things animal vegetable and mineral was a pretty good way to live your life.
Oh and if you want an obedient wife marry a Collie dog, they are a piece of P*&& to train and never answer back.
Don't forget that many women in Kyrgyzstan, Kazakhstan and Uzbekistan are muslim by birth, and also in Tatarstan in Russia. Many of these muslim women are not religious, and a man's religion is not so important to them. These women so often get overlooked, in spite of being from FSU countries. If you want the values and good qualities of a Russian woman but the gentle nature of an Asian woman, these are the places to look. But as has already been stressed repeatedly on here, don't mistake gentle for submissive or obedient. None of these woman want to be treated like slaves, servants, or 2nd-rate citizens - that's the whole reason why they're looking outside their countries for a man (I'm referrring of course to those who actually ARE looking seriously for a Western man).
I wouldnt so causally accept a muslim wife Balvennie. Certainly there could be many wonderful women among them but the way the Muslim religion is going, a few years down the track she could quite easily turn to a fundamenalist form of the religion. Even more likely any children you have could be lured into the extreme versions. This is very prevalent. Many of the suicide bombers in Britain and elsewhere are second generation migrants.
I do not see the common interest, when you have different religions.
Gentlemen, it is not the religion that makes a man a man and a woman, a woman. It is the inner spirituality, customs, values, morals, ethics and what so ever that really matters.
I condemn on people talking about muslims or christianity even though they have not yet read a sentence from the Koran or the Bible. Furthermore, family values, customs and all other things that I previously mentioned are some more factors that makes a wife obedient other than her religion.
I find it humiliating to say something like "do muslim women make more obedient wives than others".
So gentlemen, I ask you to pull yourselves together and try not to be mean about fragile issues.
P.S: I have come across with some postings which heavily insult on muslim women and muslim people in this topic. It is too wrong to stereo-type 2 billion people by just looking at the few. I have been to several countries and lived in several places for quite a reasonable amount of time but one thing you should not ignore is that islam is practiced differently in every country. It would be a very big mistake to compare islam in Saudi Arabia and islam in Turkey, for instance. It is all about vision, customs, morals and so on.
Some of my words are for "ETERNITY"; you have written quite a lot about muslims and muslim women and even went too far to predict what muslim women take into consideration when they are choosing their partners and such. Then you say you have studied these at the university and you had some friends there.
I have been living in a muslim country for quite a lot of time and NOTHING you have mentioned in your postings are true for the country I live in. Experiencing and studying and building up an idea according to what "others" say are very different things.
A few words for MONADA, too. You said;
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Guy, muslim woman are not beautiful, fat and becomes old early
they are not educated, smart and NOT SEXY.
they are like wood in ben, what all they can do is to open their legs, all the rest is sin
If you want a female animal by your side - GOOD LUCK : )) )
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< br>MONADA, not everybody in any country has to be as educated, smart and even SEXY enough to get your attention. This is not something to do with "their religion"!
If any lady from any religion anywhere in the world have read this posting of yours, I bet they wouldnt dare to hang around with such a wood like you.