"You are a man efter my heart"
a female said to Groucho Marx.
To which he responded
"That is not the only thing I'm after."
(quoted from memory)
As it turns out from the communication in this forum, the heart is not the central issue, despite what people say.
The women are after the men's wallet.
And the men are after a body-part that is a bit away from the heart.
Geri
Why dont you marry Bagira. She hates sex and money.
You two will be perfect.
Maybe its only sex she hates?
Anyway you will have plenty of time for that second job. You wont be doing anything else at night.
And the rest of us can get some peace
There is a noticeable pattern in this forum. The bunch of losers finally come out of the box one after the other. At first, you can guess about their true intentions, but you can't be sure, then it becomes apparent (see 1-2-3-4, the australians, etc. etc.). Now geriatrix joined the long lineup of those who didn't get any luck and came back to post and accuse all women for owing their existence to their cunning abilities of going after men's wallets. How pathetic.
I think some guys may find that her personality might be a very attractive quality, along with her sincerity, sense of humour, someone who you truly enjoy to be with etc. etc. etc.
OK, physical appearance might be an initial attraction but what sensible guy can spend his life with a looker who has a boring personality, is no fun to be with, no sense of humour and no personality?