you can't search the men's catalog at www.fiance.com - we do not have such an option.
As far as the age - men of all ages from 21 to 65 register with us. So your chances will only depend on your time you devote to this and effort that you're willing to make while searching for a good and true relationship.
In order to make ladies write to you first you also have to post your personal ad (with several good quality photos preferrably). If you need help with it, please write to admin@fiance.com