what i mean is it a creditable company does it really excist? or is it jus another scam??is there away to check to if if the woman on this site are real too??and are looking for the same reason men are looking? thanks
Yes, our company does exist and has been working successfully since 1996. We screen the profiles of ladies who register on www.fiance.com and on a regular basis call them to make sure their intentions match the purposes of registering here and if they are still available. If you have any doubts or suspicions regarding the identity of some lady/ladies - please email your concerns to admin@fiance.com and we will deal with it right away and report to you the results of our investigation. Plus we have a toll-free number that you can call and speak to the manager or an administrator (24/7 customer service line).
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I have been doing this for about a year and it seems to me that this site is probably better than the rest. Stay away from the per letter charge sites. They seem to want to generate letters. With this site you pay for the time you want to subscibe. Post a decent photos and say something intelligent on your profile and be realistic. If you do these things you will have a good chance. Also, when you write to the ladies, treat them as ladies not as objects. You have a better chance that way.
I read some of the posts in here that some so called intelligent men write and I wonder. I started corresponding with about a dozen ladies and through the months have narrowed it down to one. I will be going to Novosibirsk, Russia to see her. We e-mail each other at least once per day and speak on the phone once per week. We have exchanged about 50 photos each. We both have digital cameras so it make this easier.
This is my second time around. Last year I met another woman from Ukraine. It did not work out but I learned several important things:
1. Do not try to buy her love with money. BIG MISTAKE. Do not send money until you have met her. Also when you spend time with her do not shower her with gifts!! They will come to expect it. Unless you want to be her suggar daddy.
2. Find someone that has her own computer or e-mail if possible. You don't know how much easier this makes everything. I know that this is not always possible but if you can.
3. It is easier to communicate with her if she know some English. This means that you do not have to pay for translators. My lady can communicate okay. She is a 7 on the Fiance scale.
4. Find someone around you own age. My lady is 43 and I am 45. We actually communicate about things that are important to both of us. You might want to get a girl who is eye candy but searching in FSU for that is expensive.
5. Do go visit her. If you do not have the means to fly there and possibly bring her back then what the f**k are you doing here? This means getting on an airplane boys and quit just talking about it.
6. I read a lot of posts from guys that are playing games and this only adds to the scam problem. You play games, they play games.
7 I say again, DO NOT SEND MONEY, if you have not meet her. If she starts talking about her families medical problems, beware.
Okay, this thread might not have been the subject but I had to get this of my chest.