Hey guys. It's been a year since I have posted anything. I just felt I should let some of the guys on here that feel it's hopeless know it's not like that at all. I first started using this site a year and a half ago. Had tons of replies but most turned out to be women not worth wasting my time on. They were the ones I know you all run into. They write these long letters that are full of nothing but comments about the weather and other nonsense. I expect that from the 1st email but after the 2nd or 3rd I expect a bit more. Specially when I take the time to write a thoughtful email with no small talk at all. I fell into the WOW girl trap too. Found a girl that seemd to write me just for the sake of writing. Almost seemed like she was getting paid to keep men writing to her. I even ran into a couple scammers. I was disheartened. Then quite unexpected I met a wonderful girl from the FSU here in the US of all places. LOL!!! She was on vacation in San Diego where I lived. She was there for 2 months we had a blast. Courted here for about a year then made the choice to propose. :-) She was here on a student visa that expired. I gave up sunny southern california and moved to Indiana where she was living and tied there by her then employer. We got married this past September. In October we found out she was pregnant with our chaild. Filed for her change of status a month later and just 6 months later we was approved gor a green card. Just a week ago our daughter was born. Here's a link to the pictures of her. http://www.cgfoundry.com/Photos/Baby%20Pictures/index.htm
Her family in Chelyabinks Russia are dieing to see us and the new baby. I've been learning Russian but I'm nowhere near where I need to be to hold a conversation. Anyways all turned out perfect. You guys may find a bunch of lumps of coal but don't let that make you give up. If you are serious about finding someone special then you WILL find her.
Well done Martin....you have given me a much needed lift and laugh...lol.
Well done to you too Groon....alway's pleasing to hear a good and positive story like your's....though it didn't inspire any hope about my wasted time here on fiance.com.....maybe i need to travel to the US to meet a woman from FSU..lol
Well lads just reading Groon's letter i had to have a laugh ! but in sympathy i feel for him as i know exactly what he went through.
Been there been ''had '' time goes buy you get shafted for several thousand dollars, wonder what the hell you are doing there?
Yes groon isn't it grand when your trying to organise a trip ask her the best hotel closest to her and you recieve the next 3 emails telling you all about mum, brother and they went to the flicks !!!!
Meanwhile down at the travel agents your trying your best with ( standard moron brand ! travel agent to get him to organise you a hotel ).
Ohh for joy ! meanwhile back at the computor she has told you about 2 birds landing near her work window and are they not lovely .
Honestly in view to organisation they could not organise a stiptease at a nudist beach lol lol .
By this time you are so frustrated to thier ''non '' compliance of anything simple that will help you, that you email in a fury ( listen girl you want me thier of not ! if so do your bit !) reply goes like this you to be angry at me ??? why for ?
After you have caved in your head several times against the fridge you calmly pick up the phone cost yourself $45 on a call and yes hoooray !! your 45$ actually gets the message across ------that god for $45 miracles !
She is about to say bye bye on phone then asks you again ------ohh where to do you stay when hear ? you then head for the drinks cabinet you really need one!
I have personally gone through this for 2 years and 8 months .
She is lovely and blond ahh this could explain a lot -- blond & brains --thats rare !lol lol.
WHO ELSE GOES THROUGH THIS ON HEAR ???
ohh just quietly ive worked out whom the original scammers are - they are the ones that ok they are with you love you thick and thin AHHH but are still registered on the site they found you at -like 4 months after you are both ready - to move heaven and earth for each other?
Now i reackon any couple once a couple that does not hit the de-register button at once on site they found each other on well to me thats total deception after all if they are all for you why are they still registered .
Three years ago i used to put them to the test want me ok here iam now deregister at once if they do!!!!! you have a genuine girl ------if not you have a lemmon .
am i right ? i believe totally right .
MY one i have now ive seen 9 times over 2 years upon meeting i put her to acid test saying de-register iam yours she did so at once.
Result ive never had grief with this particular one .
Real good girl says i don't care if you have 1 ruble or 1 million ---no dont give a hoot for money iam just there for you.
I think iam lucky folks as i believe i have found 1 in 10,000 or maybe more the odds, they can test the brain and i mean to organise them you really do have to hold thier hands .
mike
Good call Mike...and oh so true.
it is not much different than dealing with women in the west....they want and "expect" the man to do everything in the game of courtship...then they so easily turn around at a wim or the drop of a hat and change their mind's....i say be very careful of the one's who are dreaming of a "knight in shinning armour coming to their emotional rescue...to ride of into the sunset to live happily ever after"...too many children's stories bred a false illusion of romance and love on this one....where are the realist's?
Love is not a given....and be careful of "chemistry"...it too has a very high rating and expectation...often not lived up to be normal guy's...just those knight's straight out of fairytale's....so much for the time's we call "equality"....like you say Mike....watch out for those who answer your question's with stories of their walk in the park and the family and friend's...there are those with air in their head's because they are outright ego tripper's or scammer's....enjoying your time and effort for ulterior motive's and not giving an ounce of concern or consideration for all that a man doe's to make acquaintance and meet in real life....i wonder how many women (given the finance's) would travel to a foreign land fraught with challenge and dishonesty on the premise the person in the email or on the phone is a real person...then if she is lucky he will tell her "he feels no chemistry...bye"...doe's she have a plan B?....doe's she have "other's" to meet while she is there?....all supposition.
I find it easy to view all the hardship's they face from the comfort's of their own home's,cities and live's...waiting patiently for a foreign man to arrive before they know if "chemistry" exist's....oh if only they could put the shoe on the other foot for a moment and imagine what it is like for a man....there would be even less success than there is now.....personally i would like to stay at home,make contact with many,then wait patiently for them all to arrive before i said yay or nay...based on the outcome of a novel called cinderella....
Delta all this reminds me of your standard aussie woman - be with her give her $1000 at 10 oclock and at 10.15 you are abused for not putting the garbage out .
memories like sive!
Aussie girl ---you have zero sack life ! you may get a ''RINSE ' on your birthday but only if she remembers .
They wonder why you go to the land of 'class' !
Its a wonerfull life you spend 9 months of your life getting out of'it' and the rest of your life trying to get back into it !!!!!!
Still whilst australia continues to sport these horrid water buffalo's they call women ! man will have to - get a feed eleswhere !!! after all its to high off the ground to eat grass.
Its meat or the monastary ---yes ??
The russians if we can finally find our way through the deception tunnels - are a lovely choice! I could put mine a chaff bag she'd still win a beauty contest ! i hope she never grows old --be very inconsiderate of her lol lol.
Recipe for russia !
Suitcase full of viagra !
Shaving bag full of rubbers !
Bankbook with lots of zero's !
be prepared to get thoughly wroughted for half the zero's -
I still get caught at times --nowhere near as much as used to but you know -its their chess board and they are very good at it too . they always seem to get you for something.
They can survive in 2006 on 250/ 300 usd a month --look like world class models and dress like em too --they are as sharp as a razor!
Be very good just once in life to be able to say -----------HEY we just filled the 8 carriage train from moscow to cheboksary with lovely honest girls - a train load ay i wonder how much of the country they would have to cover to fill a train with total honesty type birds .
make a good movie - be a bigger task that the underground train tunnel france to england .
Be interesting yes !!!