Indeed Martin....i must have touched a few raw nerve's to be "locked out" of my own thread that is far from finished:)....still i leave my door open to fiance.com and their administrative power's for a couple of more days.
What is with you guys.
There are over 15000 women on this site. If one wont give you her phone number, she probably doesnt like you, so just find one that will. ( some do give out their numbers).
As you said Martin 95% of the guys writing will never go to find an FSU women and are only here to write letters. If some of the women are doing the same then they are providing a perfectly good service for 95% of the men here. (Pretty good customer satisfaction)
Well Adman....there might be 15000 women on this site but i am only interested in "one"....doe's that seem unusual to you?
You might guess by this that i am interested only in a monogamous relationship....not just one based on whether or not she has a phone or home address...talk about shallow!!!
The "one" being unusual for me?
Yes I am afraid I am far too cynical to believe in the, "There is only "one" soulmate in the universe," fairytale.
I believe we love, whom we choose to love. That decision normally takes time to take hold. You can not love, whom you do not know.
I also only look for just one. The sex tourist is really the prerogative of those in Europe. If I wanted to be one, it would be far cheaper and less bother, to do it here in NZ.
If you re-read your previous posts you might understand my reason for posting.
Your whining seemed to be endless.
Further more, was it not you saying you were chucking the towel in, because you couldn’t get a phone number?....
Are you now saying you are shallow??????
(The sex tourist is really the prerogative of those in Europe)
Get a life Adman, the Europeans are not the ones who introduced the term WMVM (Write Many Visit Many), the USA invented that and check out RWG if you don't believe me, it's common language on that American website.
A European can more easily travel a few times each year to meet one lady at a time, it's the intercontinentals that will try to squeeze as many ladies into as short a time as possible.
OK, perhaps fiance.com are providing a service for 95% of the men, obviously Delta and myself, if I were interested, do not fall within that 95%.
Adman,
I'm not preoccupied with womens profiles, recently I've merely provided feedback regarding my previous experience with fiance.com and provided my opinion regarding their business practices, I don't know where you got the idea from that I'm preoccupying myself with womens profiles.
Delta,
You are comedy......
At least Adman has a realistic view of the situation......you are the one "whinning" that you can't find the ONE out of 15,000. Grow up, get real, I have been doing this for over a year and the number of beautiful women available in Eastern Europe and the FSU is boggling. I have been involved with 4 different sites......and I am just amazed at how many new women become available each week. Stop pouting that the most beautiful girl at the dance won't dance with you and go get another partner........there are thousands of fish in the sea......
I think I got into the middle of this thread. I just wanted to mention that I've done both, the 7000 mile trip to see the girl whom I was madly in love with and asking was only a formality, and the individual "Romance Tour". Honestly, if you're lucky in the one-to-one trip, then everything is great. But, when I flew across the world to see that special lady, I proposed on the third day. She said she couldn't decide, and I wined and dined her for 2 weeks, treating her like a queen, and she decides the day before I leave that I'm not right for her. It happens. But, I swore I'd never do that again--just travel to see one girl. It takes me at least a year to save up the funds for such a trip, and it was a big failure for me. Note that I had literally exchanged over 400 letters with this girl, and got her to commit to me and no one else.
On my last trip I met an American in my agency office in Nikolaev. He had latched onto the best looking late twenties girl at the entire agency before I could date her. :( Anyway, he actually lived in Germany, and basically came to Ukraine whenever he wanted. :) Anyone who lives in Europe has a great advantage in finding a Ukrainian or Russian wife. They can indeed go it the "one at a time" method. I greatly envy them!
Brandy&Seven,
I wouldn't describe Delta as a comedy, sure a guy needs to broaden his search to more than one lady in the initial search, begin to write to a few, and perhaps thereafter narrow it down to one to visit.
I think Delta's point is that he subscribed to a particular website, I wouldn't dare mention it's identity, whereas he has paid something like USD30.00 per month based on the promises of the homepage of that website whereas he can send and receive UNLIMITED and UNEDITED e-mails, chat with the ladies online and a website that claims to verify every lady registered.
What did he receive, no online chat facility, an empty e-mail inbox because that particular website actively discourage the exchanging of e-mail addresses and a scammer, one that had supposedly been verified.
Now who would you describe as a comedy, a website that utters total bullshit and effectively robs people of money based on false promises or a guy who couldn't care less about the USD30.00 but would like to make others aware of such robbery and bullshit?
Martin,
If that is the case, then I stand corrected. What I was responding to was the following and Delta's "Psychologist" jab :
.."Well Adman....there might be 15000 women on this site but i am only interested in "one"....doe's that seem unusual to you?
You might guess by this that i am interested only in a monogamous relationship....not just one based on whether or not she has a phone or home address..."
As you can see, there is no reference to Fiance.com, only his affinity for "one" woman. We're all on the same team, I am sorry if I offended anyone.
brandy....you arrived late on this thread and threw in your 5 cent's worth....perhap's you need to go back to the beginning to understand the end....but then i guess you must only have one eye and it is looking at the fairies...
delta,
If you had read the previous post, you would have noted my apology. I have read previous posts in this thread and Martin helped me understand it better. If you were offended, I apologize.
I have had my own issues with Fiance.com .....However, I contacted them privately with my inquiries, didn't call them out in a public forum......and when I grew tired of the game, I moved on to other agencies.
Brandy...thank you and apology accepted...please accept mine for shooting too quickly from the hip...my experience's here have been somewhat frustrating and it was wrong of me to direct them at you and your opinion's...i too have grown tired and am moving on to greener pasture's...for now at least.