I do not know about more realistic and I hope after 6 months they do not change. The one thing that absolutely floors me is their gratitude when you consider their opinion or look at something from their perspective. For me, something that is just natural behavior toward a woman is always acknowledged and appreciated.
-to which I can only say:
#1 The English have certain "rumours" about them, however, I do not believe that all of them (the rumours) are true.
#2 It has been said that "buggers can't be choosers" (by an Englishman who tried to keep a respectable facade [about his preferences] by marrying a rather plain-looking woman).
#3 The whole topic seems to be a little unusual in this context (this forum) as the main thrust here seems to be western men trying to find women from the former sovjet union.