I'm a Swedish woman, that for the moment lives in Russia. I would like to find a russian man, have children, to get married with, and live with, in Sweden or in Russia. How can I find him? There are only Russian women wherever I look!
Dianehka
Rather than state the more obvious places to look.
If you want a Russian man, you could come to New Zealand. There are many Russian men here looking for a woman.
If you really want to stay in Russia or Sweden, then Sweden is the best place to look for a Russian man. I looked on a large Russian dating site to check the numbers. There is twice as many Russian men compared to women, on the site, living in Sweden. Much better odds than in Russia.
You want a Russian man? I'm one! I sit home each day getting drunk while you work to support me, then on your way home you do the shopping and cook dinner. When dinner is done, clean the house while I pass out in front of the TV. Don't worry though, I don't want sex tonight, I'm so thoughtful I sent my mistress home an hour before you arrived home from the grocery store.
Ivan
Ps we can get married tomorrow morning once my girl friend leaves and my hangover is mostly gone.
You are honest man.You now wrote the reason why most of you are looking for FSU woman.Women in your countries don't want to make relationships with you and desperate men like you desided to find a poor woman in FSU which will put up with your disgusting character.
And/or you are the looser ones.
Here is another desperate man, looking for a wife since 1998!Unable to make good relationships with woman from his country. Good r women run away from him having met him, scammer maybe want to use him like ticket to better life, but he doesn't want them.(i imagine- 25 years later i deside to have a look at here, and- Lon is still here!!!!! describing his another attempt...........)^_^
Why he and most of you don't know russian?(brains are poor?) If one want to have happy family he/she WILL learn the language.Oh, i understand- to use a servant english is enough.And 2-3-4 years later he writes here....aaa.....she used meeee.....she run away from home.......(now home is dirty, i'm hungry,i'm out of the habit to clean home,cooking, i get used to use her, but she's gone!!!!!It will be too expensive to find a new R wife-servant!!!!! DONT MARRY THEM,USE THEM......aaaa)
Perhaps we dont learn Russian because English is the language of success on earth. The woman can't come to the US if she can't learn English. Ooh yes I was married to a selfish bitch who just cared for my money for nearly 20 years. You think I will replace that bimbo with you? No I treat my women like a treasure. If I wanted to pay for sex I'd do as you suggest in Ukraine and buy a woman as you want. Or perhaps I would go to independence square in kiev, speak to Ivan and have him send over a beautiful woman who wished for my "care"
You aren't even smart enough to see sarcasm when you read it? That was the version of a life I heard about from a Ukraine woman who was telling me what a wonderful husband she had! Perhaps if you were brighter you could meet more men.
Ves,,, I think you are embarrassing yourself again??!!!
Do you think Giss is being honest???? I think he is being sarcastic!! He is answering an absurd question/request, with absurdity!! I don’t know this,,, only giss knows for sure,,, but it seems obvious to me!!
Why do you have such hostility towards foreign men?? You called us; losers, desperate, with a disgusting character?? Please share your personal experience(s) with us??!! Don’t waste our time with rumor or gossip,,, just share facts with us!
Am I the person, you are referring to as “Lon”??? I’ve been called many names on here,,, but never “Lon”
I did look for a wife back in 1998, and got married in 1999. I thought we had a good marriage and a good life, but I am still discovering lies that she told,,, after all of this time. Is it my fault,,, that she told me lies????
Oh,,, I have not been looking constantly since 1998!! In fact, I took off almost a whole decade!!
I won’t be here in 25 years,,, not on the forum and not in any search!!! I already ended my search!! It was my plan to be off of the websites, regardless of whether my trip to Ukraine was successful or not!! If it was successful,,, we would not need the websites! If it was not,,, I would not want to be on the websites!! Either way,,, it was coming to an end!!!
Women running away from me??? First,, they must be near me to run away!! This is the last letter that I received from my girl. I received it while on my trip to see her,,, I read it in Chicago!!
“Dear xxxx, I very hope that you will be able to read my letter before the
beginning of the trip. I wish an easy journey to you, good âïå÷àòåëíèé and
rapid way! I very wait, xxxx”
I arrived in her town less than 36 hours later,,,, she did not show up????!!! The very first words out of the interpreter’s mouth was;,,, Your girl can not meet you today,,,,,, do you want to meet with other women??? I knew the answer to that question months before my trip,,, and it was; NO!! I was not about to reward an agency’s deception with more business!!!!
It is always a good idea to learn a second language, if you have the time and patience! I have neither! Where are most couples going to live,,,, not in Russia!? They will live in his country. She needs to learn his language, in order to survive on her own. He can not hold her hand 24 hours a day, 7 days a week!! Instead of having thousand dollar photo shoots,, women and or agencies should spend some of that money on a second language!
Servants?? Cooking and cleaning?? You know,,, I’ve never asked about such things!! Women will ask me about my job,,,, how much money do I make,,,, what do I like to do during my free time,,,,, vacations,,, do I like to eat out,,,,, will I help with the house work,,, etc! Do you have things reversed????
The “Don’t marry them,,, use them” is not my thread!! I did not write it,, that is before my time on this forum!!
I have a total dislike for propaganda!! I do not believe what agencies or websites tell me.
I do not believe the stories about the “Slavic Super Woman“! I do not believe she is more family oriented or old fashioned! I do not believe the reasons why she is searching for a foreign man. I also don’t believe that your men are so bad! I do not believe that we are so much better!
Whenever there is a dollar to be made,,, there is a lie to be told!! And I am not making a penny with this post!!
Oh,, by the way,,, I did not come back from the Ukraine completely empty handed!! I met with someone from last year, who I had spent a few hours with. With my leaving the website,, we would not be able to communicate with each other,,, so,,, I bought her a computer! I didn’t expect to hear from her after I returned home,,, but to my surprise,, she writes to me everyday!!! I ask her something,,, and she responds??? That’s new for me!! The day I stopped looking,, was the day I found someone??!!
She asks me when I will return?? She wants me to come back so we can get married??!! Not quite yet!! lol
My life dictates my schedule more than I do,,, so the same rules apply. Most likely next fall,,, but I will try for a little sooner!!!
Ves,,, would it make you feel better, if I asked her; how well she can cook and clean??? I cook well enough,,, T-bone steak tonight!! Hmm mm good!!!!
Dianehka, you can try to apply to mathmaker - ñâàõà.As usual it is a woman of advanced ages,"agensy in one person".Åhey usually give advertisements in the newspapers, or the best way is to ask friends , may be somebody knows good ñâàõà.I don't know the principles of their work, but i think she can immediately acquaint you with men, which (she considers) are appropriate to you.The best thing- mostly ñâàõà work in one town, and ther is no need to go somewhere else.
You can use Ìîé Ìèð(@mail.ru)look there Çíàêîìñòâà, choose your town or whole Russia or Sweden. There are millions people all over the world, most russians. I personally know 6 good families in Almaty, who met there.It is absolutely free
Or you can use international language sites to find a r man.
Giss, bravo, you have written almost all possible stereotypes agency girls spreading about Ukrainian men. If there is a man who's been to Ukraine and met people here and still raves that bullshit I'll dare to call such a person an ignorant and stupid one.
Armin,,,, if anyone here is ignorant and stupid, it’s this Ves!!! She whole heartily believes what giss wrote. I think he is just being silly?! I have every reason in the world to dislike fsu countries,,, but I still don’t believe all of the propaganda,,, from either side!
Sorry bond but one lady I met in a bar told me that exact thing about her husband, so not an agency girl, but nice try. She said he was an ok husband because " at least he doesn't embarrass me with his affairs". They are gone when she gets home. It would appear since she was married she wasn't an agency girl plus stereotypes nearly always have some facts behind them. It seems only everything you wrote was incorrect.
Giss- you are really selfish.You are depriving your wife to speak in their native language Who not want to learn, looking for excuse.Never foreign language will become native.Your wife will talk to you only whithin her vocabulary. You have a different mentality, you grew up in different countries, different parents have raised you, you have different customs, habits, sense of humor, you grew up on a different literature, you have different friends, you were watching different movies, relationships within families in your countries completely different, parent-child relationship quite different, history, music, all different,what do you hope to? The basic of relations are createing in the first year of marriage.How your knowledge of Russian language will prevent her learn English?
About your post if R husband- I understood it well
Dont YOU all see the sarcasm in my words? but most of you espessialy Lon unable to understand it. How he would live with foreign language speaking wife?
Lon- about embarrasing.....there is nothing with "what say in my(your) country".About eggs- i wrote it not with the meaning you are talking about.Remember- what did one journalist to Bush.In our country "throw eggs" means the same.Or in your country it never happens?
Do you see the difficulties of understanding? How you will live with r wife?
I don't have any hostility to f men.I use the same words which your perfect FSU liars saying to you about FSU men.Russian(all FSU) men are drinking a lot? Yes yes yes.I studied tourism.I worked in this area.I saw a lot of foreigners from many countries.I can compare who how drinks....
Which other reason can say this girls to you? That it is the easiest way to go to your country?Who will say this? How, R men are very bad bla bla bla.! Ask you perfect girl- how it is possible: we have the same mothers, the same culture,the same everything, but... oops... men are bad, women good?Then.. WHY r men crying "where can i find good woman??? aaa uuuu!!"
If a woman in FSU don't have good work, cries that she is very poor,etc- she will use you.We don't live in Africa, here is a lot of opportunities to have a higher education free, what do they want? That rich man from other country comes and save her? Of course she will say you what you want to hear. WHY ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A FSU WOMAN??????Write here the reasons.Why don't you want to marry in your country?
Lon-was it a gift(1) or that girl unable to buy computer herself(2)?If the second- how old is she?
Should I name all the stereotypes about Americans here? If I will, all Americans will be pictured as fat, dull, narrow-minded, poorly educated George Bushes, having no chance to find a wife and even free sex in their own country. Giss is that true? I have met lots of Americans, thousands, though I've never been to the US, I can judge which is true and which is a stereotype. I can say that SOME of them really are of those stereotypes. And what about you? You are judging about Ukrainians having a life experience of one woman you met in a bar. I bet I can find an American woman, who is drunk an desperate, with exactly the same story in any American bar. Don't you think so?
Hahaha Bonddd. You can say asylum wish. After all you have no worries about looking stupid. Yes many Americans are fat and poorly educated. Also 90 % of every great idea for the last 100 years was invented in america. So you can claim that and be right for some as I can claim what I wrote and be right for a big percent of CIS men. Apparently you think you have a point to make but it is poorly made. I'll gladly compare my education that has provided me a position doing chemistry research to yours any day I you wish. So what was your point? And yes you are wrong. Nearly all Americans find wives here. I was married for 20 years. So you are wrong yet again. Also no, the woman I was talking to about her husband was satisfied with her husband. She thought that behavior was ok. So apparently her idea of CIS men was the same as mine. She has met thousands of them compared to my mere dozens. I'm not qualified to make the claims she did, I'm just bringing them to you.
No there is a big difference between Ukraine bars and American bars. The women in The CIS are the kindest women on earth. They are educated, charming, soft. And caring. You won't find that in American bars. You may find some drunk women looking to get laid but they will not cook you breakfast before work in the mornings or worry if you have dinner when you get home. You guys over there have the greatest treasure on earth but aren't sharp enough to notice.