I figure there's A good chance, especially with my luck. If they're with the same agency, they could meet there, or they could've signed up together. It's not in my tolerable range of risk, so I didn't even think about it. I have no complaints or what ifs.
I've been in the same case, too, and been thinking a lot about it. At first, I fell quite embarrased when I realized that I was writting to two girls that certainly know each other. But think also; Everybody here wirte to several different correspondants. We all know that and accept it. They do too.
They probably would talk to each other and discover that you are writting to both of then. How would they take it? it is impossible to know. They can react in any way. If you are interested on them, keep writting (that's what I do). Just don't tell them different stories about yourself. If you are true to both, then you are not doing anything wrong.
What would you do, if I tell you that the same girl is writting to you and me? Would you stop writting to her? Why? you know she's writting to other men, and you are writting to other women.
Maybe all those girls go to the agency at the time that it opens. maybe their computer (or internet connection) wasn't working and they were all waiting for it to work to read your letter. Maybe they are all the same person? what do you think?
Your letters are translated into russian by the agency. Do the girl open the letter and then the translator translate it? or first it is translated and then they tell the girl to go get it?
Its the joy of writing through agencies.
You dont ever really know what is going on.
The only one out of the five I still correspond with, had aready given me her email and phone number.
She chided me for continuing to write to her through the agency, "because they read what we write to each other."
I dont think the agency was too happy about giving out the email and phone number. She blasted them for deleting it out of previous letters she had sent to me.
In defence for writing to five women in the same city. 3 of the other 4 wrote to me first and the 4th had done one of those disappearing acts and I was trying to coax from her why she disappeared.
Six weeks of fabulous letters and then she suddenly disappears. I hate that.
I've written to several girls from the same agencies. How do I know they are from the same agencies? Their ads got posted together in one afternoon. Their questions and themes match. So, at the agency is already aware that you are writing to several at a time.
I used to write to a woman in Ukraine. She had the agency translate my e-mails and call her on her cell.
I am sure that the agencies are translating the letters then giving the translations to the ladies.
Most girls are members of "One" agnecy, & then all the letters, from even untold numbers of various Websites, all got to Her through that one single agency, it is a fact... Check it out, & You see that it is almost always true...
Adman ------- YOU SEEM TO BE FAIRLY LEARNED ON HEAR ! I NEED SOME HELP ! and i dont recall ive ever asked help on hear -- i know most of whats what the FSU from A to z but ive 1 problem with my blond ( must be tad of the bimbo in it or is it in all of them )
what iam about to say has no relation to scamming / girls turning up absolutely none of the normals we speak off .
Here is my ''hair extracting problem '' iam hoping you can advise .
I spend much time trying to both err secure my invested $$ in russia as well as trying to learn my girl financial trading on line " hey ive been doing it over 14 years " i still make blues --iam trying to educate IT on line to all aspects financial tradings you know charts / graphs etc some is quiet complexed .
The dear understands zero of it ---------try as i may ! all i get is darlink my internet time be up --i go movies with girlfriend !!!! after ive just done 5 hours trying to set airhead up on line with financial tradings codes ( this brings me to a realisation i never seen before -----they aint got any idea how to make a $$ on line this worlds hi tech way !!! .
I have ploughed so much $$ into russia bux in bank etc investies etc -the bird looks at the forms as if written in chinese --no undergustumble !! is this a common trait with em all ??? or are just the blonds absolutely totally dumb .
So much for thier bloody cornflakes grade education it really is showing through , she a great girl good / loyal as a shepard ! but put it in charge of your financial packages it has to escape to the movies its all to hard for em .
do you find this ?? -----as a general rule --is the world of pc financials just absolutely to hard for them ???? if so its really making me wonder how some do manage to scam $50 out of a bloke .
\maybe that is thier top level of understanding financials of the world eg ; top of the monty being a stroll to the westy office to pick up the latest $45 from some poor sucker -
hell from what i see iam going to have to hold her hand all through life anything bigger than a library card ------- hey mine dosen't even have a bank account.
ive never asked all this in our like 2.5 years maybe i should have! ( i only found out tonight !)
Even herman munster had a bank account !! how can anybody in 2006 not have a bank account??? ( are they living in bedrock ? is mr slate the boss ? does the car have stone wheels ? ) i think we lads with our long termers there should indeed pool our resources into creating a business centre over there where the ones whom want to learn ! can go and findout there is a share market in the world there is the Share codes ! the world is not flat ---you wont fall off the edge .
here is mine in job now as general dogsbody / come legals secretary yet no account / zero knowledge of $$$$ how to make / how to do ???? looks like ive not missed the boat hear -- hell ive got the wrong river ??( IAM IN TOTAL SHOCK )
do you see such well 1950's we dunno !!! with em ADMAN !!
What are you thinking
I have to agree with the others. You need a slap around the ears.
Mike, blondes (and especially attractive blondes) and banking dont go together.
Everyone has their talents and no one can be good at everything.
If you want to go out with you accountant, you can give him a close shave and some perfume but he aint going to look as good as your honey, no matter what dress you put him in.
I just dont know what you are trying to do. Things have been going great for 2 1/2 years and now you want to change her into something shes not.
Graphs and financial reports are for accountants, short black dresses are for honeys, thats the way life is and who really wants to change it.
You spent 5 hrs teaching her trading codes? I dont believe you.
Any woman would be reaching for the remote and watching Days of our lives before 5 minutes were up.
Their speciality is more in retail, than finacial trading.
Why would you want you girl to have a bank account? Just because Herman Munster had one, would you really want to go out with his daughter.
There are big problems with bank accounts. One, they are just an inconvenience having to go there to get some money. And then what happens? They start offering your girl credit cards and we no where thats going to lead. You will eventually have to take them off her and cut them up. Whos going to look like the bad guy? No good can come of it.
You could have already done serious damage to your relationship. If she asks about these things I would deny having ever mentioned it. If she sees your your credit cards, tell her they are acess security cards for your office in Melbourne.
You have a good thing going so dont spoil it.
You may have a lot of sucking up to do to fix this mess.
All the best
Most Russian women have very definite ideas as to what is a man's area of expertise, and what should be a woman's. These lay's are giften in many areas (many many areas) but what we think of as "independence" is not neccessarily one of them. These women are not out to conquer the world as their western counterparts are. The role of the sexes is more defined.
A much more simple example - with not much time left on a recent visit - I visited my lady's house in Moldova with the appropriate hardware (an anchor that could be driven into the wall and an accompanying screw, brought from the USA) to properly penetrate plaster and set a screw for a fixture that she complained was always falling down. As it was quite late at night and I would not be there again during daylight hours, I tried to describe how to use a hammer to drive the anchor into the wall. A very simple procedure to be sure. She would have none of it. How "screwzes" or "pounders" work, she later explained, was not something she ever cared to learn. I spent only about 15 seconds trying to teach her and would not have tried for five hours.
As far as agencies are concerned - there is a real good chance that your lady is informed as to who else you are writing to - by the agency itself. The concepts of privacy or anonymity are not necessarily highly regarded. Dpends on the agency and how big it is - but most likely she will ask or they will volunteer.