New person here, 40 yrs old, been single for 5 yrs. Modest means, but professional & stable. Looking for a much younger women to start a family with. The women I get to date here in the UK are all close to my own age, but in the long term they don't seem to be looking for the same things from a relationship as I am & there are always lots of complexities, no family orientation. I am still quite young looking, active and adventurous for my age.
Signed up for basic membership 2 weeks ago just to test responses & to look:-)! I’ve received 50 or so letters so far but of course they don’t mean anything as I am unable to read them. Profile/ requirement wise there are just 2 or 3 I would write back to. Many of the other women are my age, or older, or with children - when I have specifically mentioned in my profile that I am looking for someone much younger, and with no children? Why would this be?
On the other hand, why would a very hot 20 yr old chick be interested in a 40 yr old bloke? I have spotted a few 20-something year old ladies that I might write to if I joined – is this realistic? Wondered if I could throw up some id’s on here – if that’s allowed – just so that you can see what I’m thinking about?
Fredy the 20/29 year old FSU girls its quiet normal for them to team up with 40 plus year old guys ( mines 26 iam 49 ) --comes under the ''big deal '' catagorie ! you wont stay young with an old diamond .
Id say yes stick with one hmm 13/19 years younger than yourself you will have to work on it a tad but it does work.
Ive found through experience that its not looks / age / they are after its brains / family orientation , dedication to them --i think if you have all that -you could be 60 means stuff all !
After all whats age in 2006 - nobody gives a toss --- in 1966 be frowned upon yes !
the girls will at times play games ( talk to 6 guys tell em all they love em !) end of the day guy with fattest pocket wins -- carefull of the deciet.
If your real keen on one / she to you / tell her as you will deregister from site speak only with each other -----if she does you have a genuine --if she dont you have a game player .
Dont get sucked in the heart strings caper ----------and be ever so carefull as suddenly upon establishing relations her ''whole financial world '' all $250 worth of it comes crashing down -new boyfriend picks up the pieces just be ever so carefull .
get checkable address
get answer to ALL your questions to her -and to the letter !
if she has nothing to hide she will gladly furnish all yes !!!
Dont cop the letters eg: you have asked of her job
reply to your letter is Darlink the birds are singing and there is music in the park!
get direct answers to questions ---its a minefield of scammers out there mate -the genuine are there but the figures are very close to the numbers at the ALAMO .
181 good guys died as 7000 villians came over the wall !!!
BE ON YOUR GAURD -- DONT FALL FOR THE CRAP - mate these days if they are a tad older i do believe you do get a tad more genuine age 24 / back to 20 id not touch --still in nappies ! 80% that age group on the CON !! 26 UPWARDS TO 30 still that group id say 60% on the con 31/34 yes ok your chances looking better --over 34 NO your into museum grade then and some are smart enough to clean your plough .
Thanks for Alamo warning. I'll probably give it a go anyway. Hopefully quick enough on the draw to dodge the scammers. Conditions/ opportunities must be quite poor in FSU states that girls resort to such tactics? I'm a little tight with my money - and it will always be that way - but you never know unless you try I guess. I didn't catch the bit about the checkable address? HOW would one do this? Cheers, Flint.
p.s. the guy with the fattest wallet usually wins the girl most places I thought....?
I am 44 (I am an estonian), my boyfriend is 52 (british). I sort of understand middle aged guy wants fresh meat but to have family!!!! Teenagers are soooo annoing, I have 18 years old son so I know what I am talking!
The great thing about being a family is that we create our own special part of the
world. A place where we have the greatest control over the outcome. It is up us.
And in this very special place, children are created and they too become a part of
it. The children become a big part of our life and future.
It is a big responsiblity and a great gift.
So having a family, is the best thing we can do.
I have a 20yr old daughter, so I know what I am talking about :))
Thanks for all of that guys! I've exchanged a few e-mails now and all the girls sound very decent however I do believe you can tell where it goes a bit too flowery and the interpreter has ad lib'ed a little to pad out or enhance the message. No complaints, just my five cents worth.