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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > 30-something year old "pick-up artist" Author Post bomboa Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/13/2006 2:41:31 PM   Ok, so here's my story. I got into this "pick-up artist" thing after getting out of a relationship and have probably approached at least a THOUSAND women in the last 2 years trying to get better at seducing Western girls. In some respects, I succeeded. I was probaby laying 1-2 new girls per month (of course, still getting rejected the majority of the time, but hey, it's a numbers game), everything from Americans to French to German to Italian girls, all of them smart, professional, and "cute," aged 19 to 30. There was a point where I was juggling 4-5 women at a time, all of whom were infatuated with me and wanted to get married, and I dumped all of them because I got pickier and pickier. Now, I'm just tired as hell. Because at the end of the day, I wasn't getting the women I REALLY wanted. I was just increasing the # of mediocre women who I didn't REALLY get along who I could take to my bedroom. So now I'm wondering if I should travel to Eastern Europe and see if it's possible to find a woman who's pretty, intelligent, caring, genuine, and doesn't have the high bitch shields that Western women have. I'm not looking for a trophy. I'm not looking for casual sex. I've fucked trophies. I've also had plenty of casual sex. I just want a meaningful relationship with a woman who makes me laugh and I can make laugh, and who's GENUINE. Is this possible? Am I chasing a mirage and should I just stay in Western Europe and continue the dating game? Or does thing really get much easier in the East? Thanks. Yasmine Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/15/2006 1:46:39 AM   The "dating game" as you call it is difficult everywhere you go. The best significant others come from NOT looking. I found my SO after I'd given up and stopped looking. Kinda stumbled over him, you might say. He and I both like to engage in some of the same activities and had some of the same friends, which is how we met. My parents, who have been married since before I was born and still are, met by chance at a party thrown by my grandfather when they weren't actively looking for someone else. They successfully maintained a long-distance relationship for years before finally getting married. Just because you aren't actively looking for someone doesn't mean you can't create possibilities to meet someone. What kind of activities do you want your dream girl to participate in? Try engaging in some of those same activities and see what you find. Don't be looking to get laid, but take your time getting to know her as a person, as a friend, to see who she really is. And you'll need to make sure you're being genuine and truthful with her to expect such things in return. If she can't accept you as you are, do you really think she'll put up with you leaving the toilet seat up? (Figure of speech.) Western women have that "bitch shield" up because often times they've been hurt a few times by some jerk (or a series of them) and they don't want it to happen again. Either that, or they buy into the culture and believe that you're only as good as what you can snag or shag. I have female relatives who could be classified as "trophies" and they often start out with that jerk that breaks her heart and she copes with it by trying to protect herself in the only way she knows how, lovingly termed as the "bitch shield." If you want a stereotype to look for, find the girl who doesn't dress in style with quiet voice and a shy of smile. Pique her interest and draw her out. Then court her to get her to smile through that pout. I've already revealed too much about women now. I hope you find some use from my acting the part of "Dr Yasmine-Ruth" 'cause I'm not doing that again. Too much like work. ;p beanstobe Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/16/2006 7:41:07 PM   I believe Yasmine is right somewhere but yes, being somewhat in the same situation myself (but at a fraction of your no.) I do understand where you are coming from Bomboa. But if your inner child doesn't want what your adult self seeks then you will get bored or not try the exploration game with a woman - at least that is my expression... Better to work on urself to find what ure your real adventurous and exploration side is (ure inner child will let you know). Not that easy... But once you overcome it ure a bound to find the right mate. Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > 30-something year old "pick-up artist"
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