I have been on here for 2 weeks and I am 39. I now have about 30 women who have contacted me ranging from 18 to 40, most frequent being 30ish. Now, I fancy all of them and I just don't know how to cope now with dealing with them all. I will have to break some hearts soon I think. There are some really sexy women too. Man, if I was on a normal UK site, I doubt I would have more than 2 or 3 contact men and they would probably be big mamas or rough. Anyone else think the same? Helppppp!!!
Seems to be the case?!? You know when things seem too good to be true, they usually are. But hey, let's keep an open mind.
I'm sure there are going to be some misrepresentations ... but if 50% of what seems to be real, is real. Let's just keep it our secrete for a little while longer
Too many women, too little time. Sounds like heaven.
How are you contacting them or them contacting you? I can fly over and share some with you, but only to help you out, man, but need to know where is "here" first.
well, that is my username on the forum, not on the site. But, in answer to stevenb's deluded response, most of them do seem to be real and sincere...the ones who drop off and stop writing are the not sincere ones, but the ones I am talking about really do want to meet I think. At least two have asked if I am going to see them anyway. I am going to visit some of them in a few weeks. Only problem is to sort out the ones who i think will stay with me (ie the older ones) and not run off with a young 20something kid when she is over here with her permanent visa, and the younger ones who have not kids and are so sexy compared to the other (sexy too) older ones. It is a dificult decision!!
"here" is on this website fiance.com that is what I meant. and I am contacting them through the site. If I choose one of them James Blonde, you can choose any one of the other 29women for yourself. I just had a really really hot 22 brunette from the crimea say she is waiting for someone to come and take her away from there today...and I am 39 man. i sometimes think I dont care if they run off to a youngr guy after....coz i will have had my fun anyway LOL
boredfukka,
Just think with your head and not with your penis and it's always good to remember this.
I spent perhaps 2 or 3 years dating the too young ones before I decided that I was wasting my time dealing with less than mature girls and became more particular about the age of the ladies.
Your chances of finding secure happiness with a 'too young' girl are extremely slim to say the least, please don't allow yourself to waste 2 or 3 years of your life like I effectively did, think with your head now, not later.
If you were there, it would amount to something. Being here, and just writing, it means jack squat. I had tens of girls writing, I bought a ticket to go visit them, now they've disappeared, except for one, who no one seems to be writing to except me.
thanks martin.
I know what you say is right, although I did have a "biker" mate of 41 once who had a 18yo gf and married her 6 years later and now they have 2 kids. But yeh, I know what you mean, but even so...you don't see 23yo women like I just saw today in the UK very often, not in my town anyway.
I've been looking for 4 years , made four trips , met 3 women . Married one , spent 13,000 dollars to meet and marry her and 2 years of my time . She moved from Ivanovo to Moscow to start a new job when I returned home after our marriage . During the next three months , phone calls became less , letters even fewer . And then she told me she did not want to arrive to Canada . Nice ... I feel she married to escape Ivanovo . 400,000 women and no good jobs . Only 100,000 men so few to chose from . It's a regular dirty soviet city . 140 years old . With little beautiful architecture . I believe when she made the transition to Moscow , with so much more wealth and culture , beauty and excitement , she saw a part of Russia she wanted stay in . Very simple . I was very angry and hurt at first , but I understand . Each time I travel I am in Russia or the Ukraine for 3 weeks . And I am ALWAYS happy to return home . I can not blame her ... She is a veterinarian , strong and intelligent . I respect her . My advice to all of you ... Be cautious . Make a list of the qualities you want . NOT physical qualities first . What you want from the union you seek . A partner to share the burdens of your relationship and hardships of life ? Or someone to care for , and you provide all the necessities of live . Children ? Think about all ... Know who your going to be with . Respect them . Just because they come from a diffent culture does not mean they are STUPID . Don't treat them as such . Be honest with yourself and them . About younger girls ? Be realistic . Anyone under 25 , has not lived THEIR life yet and does not truely KNOW WHAT they want . To answer your thought , I was 39 and she was 30 . Thanks for reading .
And you don't meet ladies like my 29/30 y/o wife in UK either but it ain't nothing to do with age, it's about the far more important qualities of a person.
And I'll tell you what, I met my wife when she was 27 but she is far more beautiful now, with her 30th birthday a month or so away, than she was then, age seems to suit some people.
18 years difference but one hell of a lot of love between us to counteract that. Events took place earlier in our relationship, even during a period when we had split up (before marriage of coutse), that proved our love for each other, actions speak louder than words as they say and these days there isn't anything that's going to seperate us.