In two weeks, I'll be heading to the airport to start my four-flight trip to Odessa / Nikolaev. For those who have been there, any advice? Anything to definately do and definately not do? I'd like to learn from the veterans. I want this trip to be as smooth, efficient and productive as possible.
From what I can tell, the ladies take you much more seriously when you show up in their hometown. Can't blame them! I'd take them much more seriously if they showed up here! ;) But it is the gentleman's perogative to meet his lady on her home soil. I'm just hoping I can find "the one".
Do you here that, lurking ladies? Come on out and meet a genuine guy with honest intentions... ;)
The bowling alley in Nikolaev is quite good, decent food and waitresses that dress in skimpy sailor outfits, oh sorry, I forgot that you can go bowling aswell :)
P.S. I only stayed in Nikolaev about 4 days before I 'legged it' across country in a taxi to Zaporozhye to be by the hospital bedside of my then ex girlfriend, now my wife, who was quite seriously ill at the time.
As Ukrainian cities go Nikolaev is quite 'cool', lots of cafes or similar in the centre and it's quite 'square' thus not too far to walk or travel to the next place, there was one restaurant, probably a few more also, where the hookers sit inside the front entrance of the restaurant but I quite liked the bowling alley, you can eat and drink and have an evening's entertainment all in the same place.
P.P.S. And if she doesn't know how to bowl then what a great excuse to get 'up close and personal' teaching her :)
hey JB and Martin
im also out there sep 28 in kiev than 5th oct to odessa than drive to nikeoleav where abouts are you guys headed email be AT betafun2000@yahoo.com
mike
Four days now - but who's counting! It's an interesting study in psychology interacting with these ladies via the Fiance site. I have seriously dialoged with several from the age of 20 to 46. But it's also interesting how few will commit to meeting with you. Its as if they're sporting with you, scared, or both. And I'm sure several of them have been burned perhaps several times by guys who just wanted to use them. But amid all of the lies, cheating, deception and scams, I hope to find the lady who is perfect for me.
if you meet them. many of the ladies will refuse to meet this is certainly the case with some other agencies out there.
some will meet you but with no committment-basically not serious at all. You will be yet another man that comes of the man production line to visit them.
i do not know about fiance.com though perhaps martin has had an experience with them........