As I read the threads here there seems to be an emphasis of men looking for “pretty” or “young” women. And by the tone it seems like these men can not find these qualities in there own country.
Don’t get me wrong, attraction is important …
I have been with a US woman for 12 years who could easily be one of the most beautiful women on any dating site. But I lovingly have to confess – SHE WAS A BITCH. The last two years I had to struggle not to throw forks and knives into either my body, or hers. Believe me: beauty wears off!!!!
I would like to hear from the group – women, especially - on the inner world of Russian women compared to Western women.
I am with the IDEA that these women with whom I am communicating have less of a superficial nature. Perhaps more aware of family values? Perhaps more able to hold a promise, and less part of a modern, transient culture?
I think that if two together assume risks and costs, the rewards can be greater … it is a dramatic and good beginning.
Who agrees with my thinking? Who thinks I am looking for a place that does not exist?
I agree with you 100% easyworks regarding looking for what's on the inside, maybe moreso. than what's on the outside and perhaps what cosmetics are required to enhance.
My wife has such inner beauties that, when I embarked upon this venture many years ago, I wouldn't have expected to meet such a lady even in my wildest dreams but it did take me some 5 years to find her.
agree 100%, thats why i'm here, i have no problems getting attractive girls in my homeland (trying not to blow my own trumpet too much), but, its the attitude that comes with them, if they are stunners, they know it and it has always lead to problems down the line, when i was younger i tried my hardest to make these situations work, now however, i think i find it easier to detect the ones who have the right morals and ideals to the ones who don't, and much earlier. I have seen firsthand how differently, my friend gets treated by his Belarusian wife, its just a completely different upbringing, she truly is beautiful on the inside...
EASTERN WOMEN TO WESTERN WOMAN ok you have in FSU a more dedicated woman for sure , if you get the right one i dont believe you will have a materialistic one !
Far more beautiful and loyal that any western one you will find !
Russian women ive found through experience can take things a lot more literally than western girls ------example with fsu don't promise what you can't deliver - if you can't do it say nothing - make no promises .
I find they can be hmm more emotional than western girls ( a drawback for some i dare say ).
Some western guys say they age quicker ------i dont agree ! risks and costs my friend you team up with a calculator driven aussie tart and see what she costs you - you and the poor house will become instant relatives .
For all the faults folks appear to find in FSU WOMEN well nomatter how big the cost travel , meetings , monies etc - huh she could cost you $10,000 a year but its peanuts compared to the outcome with say aussie bird - she'l get you for that in 6 weeks .
We can find pretty women in our own countries honestly we can but i mean to say who would want a stone faced , money driven , robot ! no thanks ! ive always said i wont marry again but who knows things change - having said that id only marry an fsu girl .
Id be long time dead before i had to stoop so low to marry one hear ( think of the joy you even get spoken to on garbage night eg: you have not put the bin out insect !! she barks ! the bills are in ( all passed religously to yourself ) lovely . no thanks no nothing ! she wont even dress nice for you ( as a russian does for YOU ) AND OH SO PLEASING TO WALK THE STREETS OF RUSSIA with a lovely 20 years younger than you and you dont feel like an antique anymore.
Take you to bed , take you everywhere , no just no comparison mate , why do most want younger than oneself well from my experience a russian girl does not want an under 30 insecure meat head. lets face it who's got security/ nouse under 30 IN 2006??? --ohh we'l be sitting in the park looking for many an hour to find somebody to fit the under 30 criteria .
Russian girls are smart -- far far superiour in brains than western girls.
I find the fsu girls want much older men ------they like somebody who's lived !!!!!
I recall when i met mine long ago we spoke of age i told her my age her reply was thank god for that ! she was more concerned id cast her away as being to young --but no way would i do such.
Russian's few faults not so apprieciative in some ways but you soon educate them to manners they learn they are happy to learn .
Reverting to something one guy said to me last year ohh fsu girls il take yu for the lot !! rubbish its your pocket your in control - a western girl will take you to the cleaners ahhhhhhhh but she has court system on her side and she knows all about it - FSU girl no i doubt she would bother all the dramas - i cant say ive ever witnessed it anyway .
Russian's dont like confrontation they'd rather walk away - they have huge respect for the man they love they'l make sure he is pleased with them.
They stay fit , keep a good house , cook well , think of your needs and take a lot of pride everything they do --------will a western girl? -no don't be silly of course not she runs like a taxi meter - has to be $$$ involved directly and in directly with a western girl .
The old aussie anacronism ( id not give you two bob for any western girl ) by god they go to ''seed '' quick to age 35 upwards all you end up with is a tripple chin job looking through diary see when she can fit in another appointment at ''jenny craigs weight loss joint !
what man wants that ????
My girl absolutely fabulous never a worry -i think the secret is to not team up with one mobile hanging off her $300 boots gold , etc wants to live in central moscow earn $1500 a month spend rest of her life trying to keep up with the next door neighbour !
get one that does not give a toss wheather you have 1 ruble or 1 million rubles - a non materialistic one who does not care if she never has everything in life ----get one that lives for her and you !
this type of girl ( ok i have one ) but they are getting harder to find - go bush young man!!!!! head out to the small places ------you dont want a city polluted girl whom has visions of grandiose --the grandiose ones outnumber the decent girls i reackon 20 to 1 - you just have to find that 1 ---it takes time ! sure --but toss yourself into volgorad , st peters . moscow well i don't know but i do think you just made your task 10 times harder than it ought to be .
get a good sort / good country girl who does not give a toss about big city biggotry ! and is happy as she is ---------thats the shot --hey when you find her you realise its all been worth waiting for .
Just one moment please,
This thread started off regarding talking of the 'inner world' of a woman'.
Somehow the subject of the thread has degenerated to talking, with a chip on a shoulder, of ageing quicker, travel and meeting costs, $10,000, birds (are these parrots or Emu's?), Aussie tarts (every man to himself), peanuts (I prefer potato chips myself),garbage, insects, robots, cleaners, taxi meters, more $$$, tossing (aka wanking or jerking off) and so it goes on.
Has the who;e world gone totally barking mad? Can easyworks, indeed anybody, not ask a simple but mature question without some half-wit rattling off about all his sexual, and indeed financial, frustrations?
Mikes post praises FSU women inside and out, from beginning to end.
Why do you want to degenerate this thread into personal attacks?
It was your post Martin, that brought up TOSSING, WANKING and JERKING OFF. Not Mikes.
So whos sexually frustrated?
Easy guys! Back on point. Since I have found Fiance.com, I have found and exchanged email with www.jimslists.com and Kevin at www.khersongirls.com – mandatory reading!
I am about 1000 times more aware of the environment I am trying to understand now than I was 2 weeks ago.
Yes, it does seem by many who are experiencing relationships that my positive suppositions are true. Can anyone add to this direction of thought.
Can anyone elaborate on some of the negative characteristics that may be a part of FSU women’s inner world (ie lack of appreciation as stated above).
That's typical. If certain members don't like a certain post, that's okay. They can say what they want. Fiance still hasn't got the picture of the biggest disruptor and antagonist here. Just go to dating talk and you'll see all you need to know.
You lost the thread martin -back to the ''pim's '' my son !!
anyway how's that ole ''boiler ''of yours going ! you must be due a trade in ! its ok ive got 1 suit you to the ground ! sex pot fix you up get rid of your dirty water lol lol --now smile ------------dont be such a stuffed shirt -kiss for you lol
That's typical. If certain members don't like a certain post, that's okay. They can say what they want. Fiance still hasn't got the picture of the biggest disruptor and antagonist here. Just go to dating talk and you'll see all you need to know.
Now there's a focking surprise nasfan6, you can disagree with the majority of posts, but only mine, indeed you do but the vast majority of your responses are deleted by the moderators, I guess, for that focking great chip you have on your shoulder since, you claim, your lady/wife came to live with you. When was the last time you made a constructive post to this forum?
You're as transparant as cling film, everybody can see you for what you are, now fock off little boy but with the big moustache, go play with your guns and your plonker, this forum is for adults.
MIKE00,
If I could figure out what the bl00dy hell what you're on about then I might respond to you and, yes, I do speak Australian having lived and worked there for a period of time.
All I will say though is that you, not I, are the one that is divorced. I do not enter into anything if I believe it may end in failure, I haven't failed, you have though :)
Adman,
Not so if you also read what MIKE00 wrote, namely:
'get one that does not give a toss wheather you have 1 ruble or 1 million rubles'
Now what may one think the word 'toss' means in his dialect, does it mean walk, run, stroll, take a train, an aeroplane, a taxi, whatever?
Then we would be look for a lady that doesn't give a walk, run, stroll, take a train, an aeroplane, a taxi, whether you are rich or poor, doesn't ring true does it? But try saying a lady that doesn't give a wank or a jerk-off, perhaps more what MIKE00 was trying to say.
Thankyou adman for exposing martins obvious bad grasp on both langauge and reality - for Martin err i did not fail in marriage i mearly got 'rid of the burdon '' you dont need something to drag you into the pit - so to speak !
When married martin if one does noit put ones weight and becomes a decade long burdon well something must be done ----------''or its just not cricket is it ''!!!
secondly when a woman remarks that she does not care if you have 1 ruble or 1 million it means she does not care if you have a quid of not ( a pound in your dialect ) in other words she wants you for whom you are not whats in pocket )
obviously id say 6 of tem folk whom have teamed up with a ruskie have suffered the huge drain on pocket as they appraise there newly found walking HANDYBANK ! '
MUG AND HIS MONEY IS SOON PARTED YES !
WOMAN CAN BE LIKE A DATED CAR ITS STARTS TO COST YOU BIG MONEY -------UNLOAD IT SIMPLE move on to something better that can cast a smile on the dial -yes !!!!
i wonder you know how many on hear can honestly say thier lovely wants them for them only and does not care whats in pocket --i think we can fill a morris minor yes .
we lucky ones will smile on regardless .
stiff upper lip martin --oh ok you can polish my kit ok --il let you do such -kissses dear
mike 00
I have great affection for Ukrainian girls but have found many to be tempremental and excitable but also very affectionate. Met a few golddiggers and very obnoxious ladies too. Guess just like anywhere you go you can find good and bad, just have to work through the numbers and find one that suits you!