Beginning to learn my way around this subject now guys ... forming some opinions now what do you think of this?
SCAMS seem to come in two sorts:
1, outright misrepresentation and that originate in a lie "I am interested to know you better";
2, Those relationships that are created by ladies who are "professional daters"... get some gifts ... maybe a little money ... couple of nice diners ... MAYBE, I'll even find someone I am ACUTALLY interested in?
(I am leaving agencies out of this dialogue)
However, I wonder if the environment is not a creation - direct, or indirect - of the “dating handicap” that Western men seek finding Eastern and Russian ladies!
Sure, it happens … A 50 year old guy who is NOT physically attractive occasionally lands a centerfold. But is that not very, very rare? And aren’t there more important considerations?
Reminds me of an old joke: An 90 year old man, very wealthy and powerful, hosts a party to introduce his new wife to his community. She HOT and 25 … crazy sexy. At the party, the old man is talking to his friends, drinking fine liquors, smoking expensive cigars, and watching the new bride move gracefully about the room. Then, as the evening progressed, it could not be avoided, that wherever the new bride went, she was followed by many and different young men … all competing for her attention. The 90 year old man then was asked by his best friend of many years: “Does that bother you?” The old man responded: “I would rather own a little piece of something truly exceptional; than be the sole owner of something nobody wants.”
My point here is that there is a DATING HANDICAP at work here. If one exceeds that handicap, the range of falseness increases dramatically.
I would like to think that I could find a girl just like she represents herself to be. However, if that girl is very experienced … I just want the CHANCE. It is all any of us can ask for. The only thing I wish to avoid entirely are the ones that are 100% artificial. Those seem to be easier to spot.
As with my last posts, your response to my thinking is very valuable and appreciated.
Easy... it seems there is no direct question, and therefore no real need of an answer, however, you seem to be grasping the situation, its my belief, that it can get out of hand, though, the fact they are FSU girls, doesn't mean they want different things to you or i, attraction must exist first and then a mutual understanding of each other... pictures say a lot, but not all, don't forget a meeting means more than a thousand words...
I think your right, Ted. I have almost come to the point, of pointing all the planning aside until I am 4 weeks from going somewhere... then just let things unfold.