I have replied to a lady on this site and got a 15 word reply from her basically she was not interested in corresponding with me. Fine. But i sent the exact same letter to her on army of brides web site at approximatally the same date and i got a reply from this exact same lady but this time she stated that she was happy to correspond with me and went into detail about her life.
How do you explain that?
Britbloke
sounds like a classic army of brides scam. You will probably have assumed now that the lady you have mentioned ,at army of brides is not writing her correspondence. Some body else is. They are basically trying to entice you in to replying and bear in mind that they are a pay per letter site. I have noticed this before about army of brides and many of their ladies will at some stage eventually make an appearence on fiance.com after army of brides have got their moneys worth out of their profile
Generally if you get a 2 sentence reply from a lady on here where you previously got a long letter on army of brides then there is something very suspicous going on.
army of brides has a horrible reputation. They even now offer a background check for your women. Kind of like the fox in the Henhouse. Army of brides is located in Mariupol Ukraine and for a long time has not had a very good reputation. The same man who owns army of brides also operates many other agencies. I would be worth doing research on these agencys before sending letters or wasting time.
city of Brides in Nikoleav
You seem to be able to register get letters from Ladies but when I send correspondence to
manager or ladies I get no reply(month so far)
Is it a legible site!
Let me know
Michael
skyblue38
skyblue,
if you mean Nikolaev ladies with whom you have been corresponding through fiance.com - please email at admin@fiance.com and indicate the ladies ID numbers with all the question you have concerning them or their correspondence.
Britbloke
I was corresponding with 5 ladies from army of brides in January of this year in their cities of Kharkov and Tver. Strangely Army of Brides do offer you the option of buying their ladies addresses. after writing a couple of letters to each of them,I purchased all 5 ladies addresses and sent some flowers to their addresses with my name on through interflora flower delivery. I did this just to check out whether their addreses were real genuine addresses. I sent a follow up e mail to each of ladies and mentioned at the end of the e mails :
"By the way i sent you gift did you receive it? Maybe you could tell me what your gift was please"?
Got a reply from 2 of the ladies NO mention of the the flowers i sent!!!!!!!!
other 3 ladies Did NOT reply where previously they had been writing me every other day.
Cost me money to send the flowers but i dont mind at least it saved me the money and airfare going to visit a lady that probably did not exist.
xtc11, send flowers using www.russianservice.com they veriy address first, and do not deliver if can not contact the recepient. they will refund you money, so no loss at all.
This morning I receive a flury of e-mails all saying EXACTLY the same thing:
"Dear XXXXXXXXX ! Thank you very much for your kind attention to me, but I do not think that you are that man to whom I am looking for. Let me wish you good luck in your future searches."
A coincidence? Me thinks not. But please explain Fiance.com how this has happened. One of the ladies is one who I was interested in and she me, but I found another and wrote her that I could not write her anymore. She was cordial and sweet about it. Certainly no cause to send the above letter. I am still receiving more of these as I type this. What gives? Is your server on the fritz this morning?
There could be some error on the server which may explain the mailing of the template decline letters or something else.
Could you please email to admin@fiance.com about this problem. Please include a few ID numbers of ladies (5-7) you have received such emails from - we will check and report back to you asap.
Army of Brides are kind of hard to figure out, I've dealt with them for a while now but am trying to get away from them as I really don't trust them. They seem honest and dishonest at the same time if that makes any sense. I've met 4 girls from their site and they we're obviously the girls who we're writing the letters to me for sure, although a couple of the girls I met we're pretty bad at least I was actually talking to them and not some person pretending to be them. Plus I've tried to contact some girls before and have been turned down by them which really is good because it's not someone pretending to be them and saying they do want to talk to me.
But on the other hand the intro letters you are getting from women are so fake and obviously not from the women themselves. Just get a letter from a girl and watch to see if she shows up in the Top 100 the next day. If she is pretty she almost always will. Meaning that her letters we're sent out to a million other men on the site and they all clicked on her profile making her show up in the Top 100. As the women with the most hits on their profiles always end up on there. They are also partners with Anastasiaweb and we all know what they are like! Plus they are a pay per letter site which is hard to trust too, not to mention way too expensive.
The women on that site are just so damn beautiful but I would recommend staying away from their site if you can. At least Fiance.com you can just pay a monthly fee so if things don't work out with any of the ladies you don't go through so much cash after talking to them...
I agree with Globus on this. When Army and Anastasia has a new very pretty girl, her intro letter will be mass-marketed to all men in her selected age range -- regardless. I did my best to steer clear of any girl's letter who suddenly appeared in my mailbox and she was also in their Top girl list.
Obvious red flag: Any girl that is more materialistic will bump the age range past 2x her age. (i.e. 18 yr old girl states she is looking for 35-55 yr olds, etc.)
The wierd thing is that no girl stays in Army's Top 100 for long -- unlike Anastasia's.
Maybe one day my dream girl will appear on one of these websites. I am doubting that now after all I have read from the guys on this forum.
At least Hotrussianbrides gives you the intro letter for free - but they are a bigger sham. They do not have any anti-scam policy. But I discovered that you can find any of these girls through a local marriage agency in her home town and write them for much cheaper and you don't have to shell out the $1200.00 HRB requires before you can buy her contact info. :) FYI.
Army of Brides, Be Happy 2 Day, Absolute Agency, Amazing Women, Cloud Number Nine, Confidential Connections, Gimeney, Get Married Now, Kherson Girls, Pretty Russian Brides and many, many others have their translators write letters to generate revenue.
I've been a "Platinum" member of all of them at one time or another.
I became good friends with 2 of the translators at one of those unscrupulous agencies and they told me exactly how the scam worked. This was after a trip to Russia, and a round of "too busy" or "out of town". The ones I did meet were exactly like their picture but often did not remember my letters (because they never got them) and were all "wine and dine but no interest" dates.
All in all, an interesting and education experience.
Fiance.com, which is the best I have come across to date, also has its share of teenage revenue generators. These are the ones that have received over 1000 letters, but they still initiate a "looking for my soulmate" letter to me. If you reply, they do not read your letter and you get a canned response.
After a few years of this, you get jaded and can begin to seperate the wheat from the chaff.
But nothing beats getting on a plane and going to see for yourself. Expensive - yes. But absolutely worth every penny.
you now also succumb to saving money? Must be contagious then!
But maybe this has something to do with the fact that it concerns girls, with which you, according to your own admissions, attractive if not handsome, have had no sex with during all your visits, this notwithstanding your not up-market but top-market accommodation rented when there.
You've referred to 12 y/o boys followed by juvenile boys. Maybe Jet's up to something...