they never answer the question can i have your phone number they avoid it. I had one lady give me hers but the others I asked avoid the answer, dunno why. seems a bit odd
Very simple... it means that the girl is not really serious and writes to many men... imaging you are a young attractive girl and 20 guys are sending you SMS and call everyday... that would be very hard to handle... :)))
Alexander,
It is not that obvious. Perhaps her level of English does not inspire her with the confidence to converse in English, perhaps the agency are being less than honest in their translations to/from the lady, perhaps the lady doesn't want to give her number to any Tom, Dick or Harry that asks for it and so it goes on.
I am not any Tom, Dick or Harry though. These particular ladies have said " I want you to come to Moscow" and " I can only meet in Moscow" but they dont answer the question about the phone. Maybe they cant speak english. But some ladies say they have an english level of 5 or 6 and still say they need an interpreter. How come if they have such a high level of english? There are a few ladies who seem genuine on here and some who seem unobtainable even though they say they wanna meet or are looking for someone.
Geeeeeeeeee!! Cant win
Ive never had trouble getting the number. Its getting the meeting that is tha hard point. Ive found a common ploy if they dont want to meet is to be im another city that cooincidently cooincides with the time you will be there.
I tend to agree that if they don't want to speak on the phone they are not seriously interested. If they are talking about wanting to meet, but not talk, that doesn't make much sense to me, if you were to come to Moscow you still will have to talk somehow, either through an interpreter or directly.
if you are on mail forwarding, You are probably talking to the interpriter. they want to keep you on the site to collect mony. If you are on a pay site they also don't want to loose getting your money. if it free which is best and you are talking to a person and not a scammer. Then if they really like you they will give you the number. It is like dating here. Use common sence. Common scence is not that common.Think with the big head not the little one I know blood cannot be in both places at once.
Not giving phone number is typical with girls associated with agencies. Even in cases where these girls do provide phone number, it's typically associated with a call time, and if you call outside of the call time, no one seems to know even a word English. Most of these girls are employed by the agency on commission basis, so even the term "professional dater" seems too sincere. Economies there are growing at a much faster pace than in the west. I think, these girls are happy with their lives to where they have no real need to relocate to the west.
I think there are a lot of good points here definitely. I think that probably the most honest answer is dishonesty and the girls do have many "satellites". There is a dating/marriage agency that does give out the girls phone numbers, mobile, home and also there actual home address. I have not called any of these numbers but they are there. Whether or not they are valid or not, I don't know. Try LoveTopping.net, for $49.95 you can get a GOLD membership and the ladies phone info. If you are smart don't do it. If you have $50 to flush down the toilet, feel free. Here's something else guys, that I just figured out. DO NOT send a girl your photo and a lot of personal info, can you guess why? I got my profile put up on a website that I didn't know anything about until too late. My fault, gullible is the word here. Confidential Connections.com, have fun guys, but you are not going to get positive results here. I do not blame the ladies here. Don't! It's the agency. I would say that much of the time you are writing with an intepreter and not the girl. They are watching things very closely and will not let these ladies get close. I got Scammed on a gift and yeah it was an outrageous price, my mistake. She didn't get the gift. I got one of those pre-scripted letters that oozed agency BS. All in all, I think it would be dangerous practice for the ladies to give out their numbers, addresses, oh well, it's just cyberspace crap anyway!!!
The one thing you need to know about Confidential Connections is never use an email address you want to use long term. That goes for many of the other agencies too. Set up a throw away email account as you will continually get spammed. I tried for months to stop them sending me emails.