I am not new at this just to this forum. How come I get no responces or not interested on certian sites. We will just say it initials are E M. I get blown off all the time. I have been on the scam sites Like Annast. Anyway do you guys think these sites write for the girls to keep you paying? Most don't want to give a personal E-mail some do. They avoid your questions and it seems like they are just keep you hanging on. I have also done the send me money for visa thing and I wasn't falling for that crap. What does everyone think? I have talked to some on the phone and plan to visit when I find a few good ones to go see.
Elena's Models is a reputable site. I have done business there. I met a girl from Bulgaria....but, it did not work out. I have since used RLM mostly. I have had good success there.
CustomPaul,
In my previous experience of EM I found the sie to be over subscribed by men in relation to the number of ladies on there, such a situation is not unique to EM.
Unfortunately you're jumping on a bandwagon some 16 or 17 years after the wagon started rolling and it's going to get more and more difficult as time goes on.
If you're getting good response levels from a 'pay per letter' site then you know the reason for such response levels but if you're getting poor response levels from non 'pay per letter ' sites then perhaps you need to redress your approach, your introductory letter, your photo(s), and experiment with these somewhat.
Thanks guys! What is RLM Scott? I have not tried them. I have read your post Martin and you seem to know your stuff. I will try your adivie. I have also foung some Fsu girls do not ever tell you there feelings are even let you know they are interested. Yet you keep hearing from them even on non pay per letter sites. Any more comments?
Paul,
RLM is "Russian Love Match" . It is a site that can be expensive. However, there are some nice advantages. You can chat via instant messaging with girls and sometimes even see them via a "cam" if they are at their agency. These girls that make trips to their agency to chat with men are mostly sincere in their intentions to find a man. You also exchange letters with girls there....you basically send E-mail through the site. Exchanging letters with girls on other sites seems archaic after chatting with girls on daily basis at RLM. I met my current girlfriend, who is soon to be my fiancee, there. I was lucky. I found her there on her first or second day on the site. We chatted once or twice while she was using her friends computer at home, and then she went to her agency on the weekend and I got to "videochat" with her. I also met many girls there previously and have many inquiries from girls there now because I have not taken down my profile yet.
Now, here is the only drawback to RLM. In order to get contact information for a girl you're interested in, you must purchase a minimum amount of credits. I don't remember the total, but it can as much as $1,000 USD. I used this site frequently for a year before I met someone worth traveling overseas to meet, so I had met the minimum to get contact information for the girls. This dollar amount might put some over budget and I understand that. I was lucky enough to have the funds to cover the costs of this site and to travel and meet some girls in Ukraine.
Bottom line, I am impatient with exchanging letters after starting this venture 2 years ago. The convenient access to girls at RLM is what I needed and it worked for me. It won't work for everyone.
I am not sure I understand. You have to cough out $1000 (!!!) to get contact information for a girl? $1000 for something that is totally free on this site????
My sincere congratulations for your lucky search. There's something I've not understood, though. You wrote:
"I was lucky. I found her there on her first or second day on the site."
and
"I used this site frequently for a year before I met someone worth traveling overseas to meet"
These two statements sound as a contradiction to me.
King,
You are partially correct, I only gave you enough information to make it confusing :) ......I started using RLM approx 4/05 and spent approx $50-100 per month up until 6/06. I had really spent about $1500 before I contacted the agency to start inquiring about contact information. I was lucky, because I didn't know about the minimum requirements up until that point. Summer of '06 I went to Kiev and set up about 12 dates with girls from RLM. About 8 of them were available and another 4 or 5 I met through the local agencies. By the way, once you get into town (Kiev), you have to contact the ladies marriage agency and they make the contact for you. You have to pay the agency an introduction fee, another wheel to grease....but it was all worth it. Bottom line, only ONE girl was interested in keeping up with me. All of the others, that I was interested in, were not interested because I was there to meet many girls.
I didn't meet my current girlfriend until this past September.
I hope that makes more sense. I usally purchase $200.00 worth of credits at RLM at a time. This is the best value because the price of each credit goes down to .40 each, as opposed to buying $50.00 at a time which the price per credit is .60 .
Ronjon....
Have you used RLM ? What experiences can you share that prove that the people at RLM are crooks?
I am genuinely curious because after reading the site that you posted, I find most of the authors info. in contradiction to my experiences. Not saying that it doesn't happen, but it sounds like the author has never actually paid any of his own money and spent time on the site.
And, I am not a shill for RLM, nor do I use them exclusively.