Yesterday, the honest 24 year old dumped me during dinner, but with a cushion that she referred me to her TV announcer friend, also 24, who earns $200 a month here in Chisinau. So, I called and asked her for a dinner date (I got really full last night). She was so gorgeous that not only men but also women were staring at her (with jealousy - lesboism isn't common here).
With these women you pay for A to Z. Even if they live nearby, they'll ride your cab back to their flat, and hustle the cabbie into dropping then within inches of their flat's entrance, often leaving with only a "chao". It seems that they were genetically designed to use men to the max.
Today, I will visit the TV station and watch her on-the-air live.
The goregeous TV gal had a wealthy Egyptian boyfriend, and is seperated for only last 2 to 3 months. Initially she called me to get me on the air about medical treatment in USA.
If cabs could climb the steps, these girls would insist to be dropped at their doors.
I found the 24 y.o. honest beauty on another dating website, where I also found another 26 y.o. gorgeous blond, who I'll be spending today with. TV gal is more Turkish/Romanian/ original Moldovan/Italian/Spanish-type of beauty, and blond is more a Slavic beauty. In Korea, a proverb which went something like this: Either Lord Gives nothing or He Gives it all.
I also had cell # of a local 24 y.o. gal from fiance.com. I called her but she said she was no longer with fiance.com, but her profile still shows active here.
your moldavian lady sounds like a first class spoilt brat money grabbing gold digger that will drop you within 6 months of getting married in your country.
I met Natalia (26 y.o. blonde) yesterday, who had the saddest look on her face until I bought her a German facial cream, and her million-dollar smile returned and over-coat opened with perfect body behind it. I asked her how serious she was about relationship, and she said she didn't need a man today, but may need one tomorrow. I asked her if she would still need one the day after and she just smiled. I put her on mini-bus and got her on her way.
Ala (24 y.o. petite) still wants me to help pay for her mom's birthday gift, but at least she is honest enough to tell me up front that it wouldn't change her mind about me. She's been writing to a 30 y.o. Swede for a "few years". She wants to leave Moldova bad, but doesn't really want to live as far from her family as she be in the US.
TV show host (I best not say her name since she's on TV) has to come up with a new social topic daily and find folks to corroborate it. She had told me that after 3 years on job, she was about out of ideas. Now, I'm giving her ideas for her shows, and we're still dating.
Irina (30 y.o. medical doctor) has no time for a man after her job and son, and she doesn't want to leave Moldova. However, she referred me to her live-in younger sister, 22, an economics student at the university.
Hotel staff is knocking at door nightly to inquire of hourly appointments, which is the only real deal around.
All that internet dating amounts to these girls is only a basic introduction. Granted that most vacations in the US are for a week or two in duration, there's simply not enough time to travel here, and take the relationship past that basic introduction, unless you are both patient and wealthy - it could take several trips to turn a relationship somewhere. They consider coming here your decision alone. It doesn't obligate them or facilitate the relationship in any way.
Also, you might get smiles from these girls if you give them gifts or money, but it doesn't obligate them or facilitate the relationship in anyway.
Next time I take a trip abroad, it would be to Prague, Czech Republic.
The biggest attraction to the FSU for most men is the term "marriage agencies" - men are lured into thinking that you can buy a relationship like any other commodity.
Also, if you are from the US, you have another obstacle, that is, these girls aren't that willing to go so far away from their families.
"Also, you might get smiles from these girls if you give them gifts or money, but it doesn't obligate them or facilitate the relationship in anyway." I am used to call "puttana", that is "hooker", a girl you can obligate to a relationship with gifts and money. Did you think Moldovan girls are all hookers?
i have often wondered how Moldova got its name? is it because there is a lot of Mold on walls of buildings or is it because the food in Moldova is very moldy?
I enjoy reading your posts. Nothing like a bit of humor to lighten up things. It seems to be a soap opera. It is amazing how women react to certain things( money and gifts).
Nice story, truth telling never hurt anyone. Myself excluding, I have factually known none else having a successful marriage with an FSU woman (except a few others from this forum who have said things are going great). Even two couples in our area that we originally thought were doing well ... the women now say they're waiting for A and B to occur to leave them, and the men know it or suspect it ... difference in age is huge, but I don't believe that is the sole reason. Seems that incompatibility of personalities and him not getting along with her kid (if she has one) are the biggies. These transatlantic relationships on 1-2 week a year vacation time are a toss of coin ... you'll never be able to tell whether you're compatible or not with any degree of certainty unless you invest significant time and multiple trips, correspondence, and phone calls, and still you have to exercise sound judgement, and the woman must be right for you (luck is a big factor). People go there once, then do the papers, and have the bride shipped to them, and then wonder why it ends in disaster. People also think having a new wife and her kid of another nationality is easy. My view about women with kids is that their decision to move to another country is based mainly upon seeking a better life for their child, then they go to that other country and they see possibilities for themselves ... why stick with the annoying, grumpy, lazy 50+ year old when there are so many new possibilities ... one thing that you'll find about these women is that either they are lazy gold diggers, trained by practice to be manipulative or they are very smart, capable and hands-on and they can root in a new country very quickly, dependence does not mean anything as long as it is based upon material reasons and there is no emotional connection because these women can make it on their own. Just some food for thought ...
P.S. buying her with money ... ::))) at what hourly rate??? never mind who gives a toss::))
Very down to earth post! I just read that man who marries russian bites more than he can chew:)
As woman who have over 50 boyfriend-they are lazy and grumpy!:):):):)But I still love him:)
". People also think having a new wife and her kid of another nationality is easy. My view about women with kids is that their decision to move to another country is based mainly upon seeking a better life for their child, then they go to that other country and they see possibilities for themselves ... why stick with the annoying, grumpy, lazy 50+ year old when there are so many new possibilities ... one thing that you'll find about these women is that either they are lazy gold diggers, trained by practice to be manipulative or they are very smart, capable and hands-on and they can root in a new country very quickly"
Aplogies for the rather large quote wtrav,but in a few sentences you sum up just about perfectly why so many are doomed to failure.Too many think it's going to be easy street,but from the moment anyone decides this is the path they want to take then that is the start of a lot of very hard work.
Ultimately very very rewarding,but hard work nonetheless.
I'm sure you're wondering where I've been. My appendix began acting up, and I ended up in surgery and hospital. My advice is to bring along a healthy appendix. On a good note, I'm surrounded by young and pretty nurses, a somewhat rare site in the US. I thought of singing "Like a surgeon.." but they have even a better song here "Million dollar is good.."
Luckily, the hospital has been mostly remodeled, but don't expect it to be as convenient as those in the US, where hospitals are more like hotels, and just as expensive. But that wasn't the case with the surgery chamber, which reminded me of "Jacob's Ladder" with a butcher for anesthesiologist, and they don't get you all drowsy as they do even in minor procedures in the US. They make you curl up and inject into your spine to numb up the nerves. During and after surgery, your non-numb body will shake as if it's freezing.
The only girl who bothered to show up for hospital visit was the 30 year medical doctor. Most medical grads here don't find jobs and end up working for drug stores. She still doesn't want to go to the US, but showed me photo of her sister on her cell phone. She's very pretty.
Sounds a nightmare having a surgery during your trip. On the positive side if there is one, it gave you a chance to sort the ones who do not see you as a greenbuck. Wish you a good and speedy recovery.
Thanks for the sympathy. Sorry, I can't write about the ladies for the time being, so I'll write about the hospital.
Here, all restrooms are "co-ed" even when they are intended for use by more than one person at a time. Odd, I thought, because they have another "co-ed" restroom on the same floor. However, men stay in one room and women in the other. Resident floor is renovated. Surgery was in the basement.
Also, don't expect to flip a commode seat anywhere in Moldova, because there aren't any unless you stay at a hotel. May be it's good I didn't find romance here, because the thought would have bothered me always.
Last time I came here, there were many gyro restaurants, but now they are now all closed.
Thats not all doc. i assume most carry own toilet paper in pocket or purse because its not normally stocked in the restrooms. One I visited had only a few newspapers.
Years ago (the early to mid-1990s), one could pratically fly to Russia, pick a single girl on the street and marry her within a few months. I have several friends that did just that and are still married today. Nowadays, the girls in the Russian Federation have options. Many now opt to move to a larger city to obtain a job and to help support the family.