I knocked at her door, brother openned, we hugged, woke up father. Brother ran out to get Vodka, while father warmed up lunch. It was good lunch. After lunch, we stood up for shots of vodka. "We have different cultures, different religions, different skin-color, but first, we are people," said her brother. Then he walked me to the nearby bus station, where Olga once waited 20 minutes out in the cold after she boarded me on bus to bucharest in Feb. 2004. She used to say: "Black and white, on paper, they are the same, but in real, it's something else." Her father told me in first meeting that he cared not if I was Polasky or Rusky or Arabsky.
It had to have been a wrong address, why else would it take 10 train changes to get there? Finally, changed to bus, which passed farm after farm in Germany. People were very helpful, which eased the search. I took a taxi to her address, passing yet farm after farm. She was in with her German husband, but didn't open the door until his brother arrived, in case there was trouble. She came out, still looking like a doll, her face now seemed slightly older than her age, and she was probably skinnier than before. We persuaded her husband to let us talk for 10 minutes. Husband circled impatiently in the kitchen. Brother-in-law chatted farther outside with the cab driver.
A: Look at this place.
O: It's my life.
A: Half the house has cows in it.
O: It's my life.
A: Just the smell of fertilizer gives me a headache.
O: It's my life.
A: Look at this man - a bald, poorly dressed, fat, out-of-shape farmer with black-framed glasses.
O: It's my life.
A: What's wrong with you?
O: It's my life.
A: What such desperation?
O: It's my life.
A: Even Chisinau is better than this place.
O: Why don't you find another girl.
A: I can't. I live among the rednecks.
O: What can I do? It was something in your past that they didn't issue me a visa.
A: If there was, they would have been thrilled to tell you about it.
Impatient husband came out, claimed 10 minutes over, told me "It's over", and slid close the kitchen door.
I was sorry for you and Olga when I read your story on other thread. It does not sound like you are letting
it go. We are all dealt cards to play with and when you are dealt a terrible hand, fold and move on. Whatever happened in the visa process is in the past, you cannot change anything. All your mudslinging will not change anything. It seems your anger has taken over your life completely. You need to do some real soul searching. What is reason for seeking and seeing Olga....is it to just punish yourself? And her? I hope you can turn your life around,
no matter what happens to anyone...life goes on!
If it helps you any Amir, the CG in question was under criminal investigtion by the Office of Diplomatic Security (ODS) that began in 1991 after he was "seen at a consulate with a man". How did he get out of it? Fags unionized as GLIFAA. How many in the private sector would complain if FIRED from a job after seen at work with any gender?
US visa stasitics shows that aliens are favored over citizens, not only where state (tourists), university (students) and big business (tourists) stakes are involved, but even in freebee visas such as in visa lottery, as opposed to individual family based visas.
Visas issued in the year 2005:
I. PETITIONED VISAS
A. IMMIGRANT VISAS - 318,291 family-based immigrant visas.
B. NONIMMIGRANT VISAS - 53,968 fiance(e) visas.
II. NON-PETITIONED VISAS
A. IMMIGRANT VISAS - 46,099 diversity visas (DV or visa lottery) AT RANDOM to alien applicants. DV program
is in effect since 1990, and allows for up to 55,000 visas a year.
B. NONIMMIGRANT VISAS - 3,687,850 tourist (B1/B2/BCC) visas to alien applicants.