Hello! I found so nice girl and now i'm going o visite her. She is from Ukraine, Simferopol. Have anyone been there before? I have never been to that place, and don't know who it would be better idea to address in order to organise rest... I want to make her surprise by my comming. If someone was there and knows who i can address tell me please!!!!!!!!
Surprising the girl is not the best thing to do. I don't know how close you are to her but maybe
she has other plans. Girls have correspondance with many guys. Who knows when they have other visitors.
Be careful.
Surprising her is a bad idea. Another guy might be visiting, she might have to work and not devote time for you. Generally people don't like surprises like that.
Cat. If you go down that road, IMHO you are a high chance of being "Dressed up with nowhere to go" or more importantly, noone to go with. If you don't know Russia and Ukraine well, you will have a very hard time even finding her home or apartment, then the chances of her thinking you are genuine become quite another thing.
You seem to have quite a romantic notion and all credit for that, but I can tell you from experience that it ain't gunna work that way with this exercise. The romance side of things comes waaaaaaaaaaaay later. The reality is you need to get a touch scientific about this, or at least practical and logical.
I strongly advise any newcomer to be very circumspect regarding a first trip and certainly don't expect to bring your blushing bride home as a result. I have seen and executed a range of ideas and no one particular idea is certain of a positive outcome. However, the most practical path I have seen followed, is to get aquainted with one lady and also with a marriage agency. Go visit the lady without high expectations and anything more is a bonus. If you have a win first up, great, go with the flow. If not, revert to the agent.
Doing it this way, you stand to meet a lot of ladies who in so doing have no high expectations from you, you have promised nothing, so are entitled to walk away whenever you like and at very worst, you can have a few nice casual dates with the ladies from the agency.
Personally, I can't cope with agents, but that is me. What I am suggesting here is a simple risk free strategy. From this, you just might find a suitable lady to zone in on for a later visit and you are then entitled to unleash all your romantic charm upon her in the knowledge that you are playing fair. Keep your contact before the first meeting to facts and goals. After that, the fun can begin.
Hey Cat, I agree with the others. The romantic idea is great, but it's probably better to just tell her. Well, ASK her, that is. I suspect that'll be surprising and romantic enough!
Often times I am finding these girls still living with their parents. You could always work something out with them to be in on it, if that is the case.