OK boys, in dis thread a will tell you how to pick up girls 50Cent;s way... one tip a day gents...
This applies to all girls, multinational what soeva.
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The first principal is the Reality Factor which states that men, at times, have a tough time figuring out (confused) what is really going on in their relationships with women (relationships are her turf, not man’s). Why? His ego and high Interest Level will not allow him to see what is really going on. These are the same guys who never ask, "Could I be repeating my mistakes from woman to woman that I am not aware of that make her want to confuse me?” Or, “Why is it that certain guys never go through the pangs of rejection?” Or, “Why are so few guys happily married?” And the best, “Are women’s romantic choices in men consistent? To you Psych majors, The Reality Factor says that if you fight reality, you will end up in pain.
The Bottom Line Factor states that men sometime rationalize slights and put-downs. For example, let’s say Caprice breaks a date with Tom, so Tom spends a week thinking of all the 144 reasons why she didn’t keep her word – all the reasons except the only one that counts: She has low Interest Level.
Dating Rule No. 1: Women with high Interest Level always keep dates (Am I going to fast for you guys?).
The Bottom Line Factor also says that only her actions truly reflect her Interest Level and Attitude toward you. If Tom had thought about it, he would have asked himself how many dates he has broken? (Answer: less than one.) If he had discovered that Caprice broke the date because her father did not give her a bicycle on her tenth birthday like he had promised, it wouldn’t have made a difference. The Bottom Line Factor says that if she breaks the date, she is not interested in Tom. Sadly, most men call back for another beating.
The female's Interest Level, not the man's Interest Level, is the single most important factor in the relationship. The woman has to like the man FIRST otherwise nothing starts - try telling that to a stalker. Unfortunately, the man usually projects his Interest Level, overrates her Interest Level, and never looks at how he is treated. Why? Because he is too happy to be there. He assumes (anti-reality) her feelings are the same as his and she wants exactly what he wants (Fat chance!). As his high Interest Level blinds him, he then becomes subjective, like someone succumbing to either.
Because women’s choices are consistent, it is important to know specifically what strength qualities clinically sane women look for in a man. They are Confidence, Control, and Challenge.
There are two divisions to Confidence: Self-confidence and Self-esteem.
Self-confidence is how much you knowingly or unknowingly practice the concepts and principles of The "System." Men don’t know that women keep report cards on their men's performances. If you do her right (get B's, or better), she will do you right, and keep you around - at least for a while.
Self-esteem is how fast you can get the “N” word (no) out of your mouth when you see things differently than she does. Scary, isn’t it? The Reality Factor states that her Interest Level is built on her respecting you. When you say the word "no," you are telling her that you have a backbone, and are worthy of her respect - frightening thought, isn't it? Ironically, when she knows you can "walk," you become more attractive to her and her Interest Level rises. So much for the so-called virtues of: "being vulnerable," “unconditional love,” and “showing her that you cannot live without her” – the propaganda that the other love doctors peddle.
A subdivision of Self-esteem is testing. The woman has to find out how much she can get away with (Just ask your honest sister if this is true!). In the woman’s mind, this testing is all good-natured fun, of course - she figures if she is going to give you her heart, she has to find out what you are made of. To you Psyche majors, until she decides you are the greatest thing since popcorn; you are going to run love's version of the gauntlet! Do not take this testing personally - women are just (consistently) different from us.
There has to be a level of tolerance. And tolerance varies, as does the rigor to which any woman pursues the criterion.
In regard to keeping a report card; I have been shown a website that women use to track men. This of course, ices me with paranoia! Nonetheless, there is some perception that women are shopping for a product, and approach men the same way as they approach choosing a handbag.
While being bitterly humorous, its probably not the total case. If the women, by stint of habit (she has so many fewer opportunities to shop for men as she does for everything else), has such a superficial approach (which may reflect on how ofter she can practice 'shopping', which is much more in a consumer oriented culture), won't every man, at some time, either fail just to prove she's a pain, or fail due to a slip in concentration?
The problem with you guys is that you don't speak English and I don't mean 50c, he does even if he's from another place. Interesting comments odilon, but do you expect to impress RUW with this? According to my experience, the majority of the Russian women on the net are provincial ladies. They get scared with stuff they don't understand. You need to promo yourself the tradiotional way. I think women are shopping for men just like men are shopping for women. It's an art to get the woman hooked up. 50c has good points that are also entertaining. Go Cyprus!!!
Fifties advice seems limited and obvious, reality seems so much more open. I wouldn't dream of using words like 'stint' and all the garbled and overdone language with someone ESL!
Uh, how much experience have you had? How many have you spoken to?
I know that some of this I have to discover myself, but there seems to be so much opinion without examples, as if authority without data were enough. It is easier.
Certainly, relating experience requires more work and involves arousing an the accusations of being egotistical, but I recently trolled the INTOLERANCE string, got to know you guys somewhat, and felt your descriptions more relevant, but certainly not the only thing to appreciate as far as advice.
My experience with RUWs is 3 out of 3 (20/21/20). 2 down and physical. 1 chose not to visit (too far, too not interesting place to visit). It seems to me any chick 18-21 I send a letter I can have her. I am scanning the landscape for fresh meat in Russia this time for September holiday. I am going there with a bud this time. It's getting too boring with the RUWs, no much challenge. Unusual women, but naturally pretty, young and good in bed, you've got to give it to them and they like us the yanks. Good luck!
No expectations at the moment. When I started this one year ago, I was in a bit of a state of panic because of 35 years coming down like an axe on my neck. But, as soon as you learn the ropes, you realize the options and the temptations are so sweet that you get the point soon. Ruski has redefined relationships, it's so refreshing. Everything is a possibility. I am thinking why settle for one young, pretty woman when I can have many for another ten to fifteen years. Then at age 50 I hire a Russian mistress to take care of me, clean my house, get laid occasionally. If you are a half ass good looking guy, you can definetely dig young, pretty Russian chicks no problem. Expectations of these girls are low. I recently took a girl to Yalta (Black Sea). She had never seen open water before (other than the river in her city). She was watching the boats at the dock and asked me why they were moving in the wind ... They sound kind of stupid because of lack of world experience not because of lack of brains. But, they are westernized to some extent, they use make up, and bad taste western clothes, they have a high perception of McDonald's. So, ruski is a possibility for every budget and every backgorund. I wouldn't worry too much about it. Good luck!
My priorities are not to get laid. I got enough of that in my twenties and thirties. I never tried to put a barrier between me and my girlfriends, but that was painful sometimes.
Its sounds like decadent fun, but after reading Clash of Civilizations, where Americans are generally percieved as godless decadents.
I take my friends perception even more to heart; "Its cool when you date like, a member of another race, because you feel like you have to be the ambassader of your race to her."
I never found street smarts, or worldliness, that interesting. I guess it has a glamorous, masculine, rough and ready, capability image. I won enough fights, played enough football. Aren't you getting a little old?
After enough years of that, I see my value my parents home values as more durable, tougher and wiser. Plus, they dont sow the seeds of chaos, so much of which I am already responsible for!
They were academics, so 'the street' had a kind of appeal to me for awhile.
Is that experience useful? Its just women.
I have been told that the RW have more education than American girls, especially in regard to the arts...the education of which, in the US, for women, meant imposing some kind of feminist, anti-white american patriachy wierd thing. I hope RW have a larger sense of things, something I can benefit from. Education is difficult in any case.
The picture you paint is certainly appealing to my libido, but not my values.
The 21 year old I dated recently seemed vapid and confused, and she was a bad lay.
Ok thats enough now folks.
NOw WTRAV02 may have his opinion, but that is HIS opinion. At the moment he does not put family on top of his list. some other person may have or may have not this opinion, its their right, and they are all entitled to it, as long as they dont hurt anyone.
Some comments though....russian girls are very passionate, and very clever, and BEST looking.
you want to marry one or not, thats entirely up to the individual. Just be gentlemen and show some respect.
their lack of exposure for the real world in a fact, but that does not in any right mean that they are stupid.
you dont like that, fine just move on. that sentirely up to the individual again.
That does not mean that all of them are like that also.
After all these, i dont know if iam going to continue this post.
At times it was interesting, some other times confrontational and less interesting. I believe this site is very good and you can find a wife or girlfriend here. Forum is a great marketing tool and this site has used it very well. Olga has done a great job managing the site and thank you for being tolerant with me when at times crossed the line. I hope I didn't offend someone too much, but if I did, I apologize. I've read some incredible stories and thoughts on this site during the past year and truly believe I benefited as a member. Girls from Soviet Union are great and it's a fortune that they're available and they want to date foreign men. So long and truly from the bottom of my heart good luck to everyone, you guys all deserve it.
I was in Limassol, Cyprus, last yeqr, and can only concur with 50c that the Russian girls in Cyprus are astonishingly beautiful, and although I'm overweight and was with my ex-girlfriend, I found them looking at me !!!!!?????????? What a confidence booster that was ! when we broke up I was heartbroken, but I remembered the Russian girls and decide to join this site and search for a Russian girlfriend/eventual bride....having een the girls in the flesh is truly an opinion changing experience, personally I hope you continue to give your knowledge via the system to us all, thanks for your introductory insights
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