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support: Hello, my name is Alexey. I am here to answer your questions about our service.
you: hello, can you tell me who writes the replies to the emails?
support: ladies whom you write answer your e-mails
you: i find it very strange that first of all i hadn't had a single response to any of my letters for the last 4 days. i then wrote an email to you and suddenly all these letters started coming through - can you explain why that is?
support: sometimes letters accumulate on our server and we send them in bulk
you: also, i have previously talked with some girls about setting up my own business but i got a letter through just now from a girl who said she was happy that i was setting up my own business who i'd only written to once and hadn't mentioned that this is what i was thinking of doing
you: can you explain that?
support: this is hard to explain as we only transfer letters to you
you: i'm quite annoyed because this seems to have been a waste of time
you: i've also booked flights to come to ukraine now
you: and it seems like this is all a con
support: our girls are real but one should be very careful
you: careful in what way? this is someone who seems to have magic powers!
you: the only way that she could know this is if someone is writing letters of reply pretending to be more than one person!
you: the only person to benefit from doing that is you, the agency!
support: we do not write fake letters
support: there are enough girls on our website to write you real letters
you: then how can you explain one girls ability to read my mind?
you: the girl in question is id: .....
you: perhaps you could ask her for me?
support: why don't you ask her about it?
you: because i'm quite sure that'she' (if she is real) will disappear in to thin air and not reply to me
support: then just forget her and that's all
you: i'm not sure you get my point
so what is your point AP? I dd not get it. read forum more. report to site admin fro any suspicious. you have all the tools on the site to determine who is sincere who is not. you are not payingper letter. are you writing your letters your self or somebody else does it for you? :) one more time AGENCIES are not supposed to writ for ladies. if they do and we catch them we will close them. ask for phone number, call her. report to admin about any suspicious, not to the forum.
After many weeks - when I say many, I mean MANY - I am still waiting for feedback from fiance.com about the so-called investigation that admin is supposed to have done about the two girls I suspect having had their letters written by Vladimir of the local agency. For details, see my "old" thread "Agency staff writing on behalf of the lady". I also noticed that admin never replies to me if I ask some... uncomfortable question.
it is free speach, but it is our forum. this is question for support. and have we discussed many times not to post any IDs on the forum, one should report to admin first.
AP, we called that lady, she knows about the agency, she knows about you and she said she sent you two letters, and she did letters herslef. she explained the abilty to to read your mind because grils from the agency who received letters from you, shared info about you with her. we are investigating more and will give your report.
thanks for your feedback. I have received a reply to my last message to support. I have received it right now. This is obviously not a coincidence, since I sent my message many - when I say many, I mean MANY - days ago. About the two girls I suspect having someone else writing their letters, I exchanged several e-mails with admin, but the results of the investigations are still unknown to me after MANY weeks.
King Arthur, it is a fact ... and we are on their terirtory ...
the rule is simple ... very simple ... respec there rules and everybody wll be happy, you don't respect there rule, then stay away from the forum and everybody will be happy ... too
AP, Olga's explanation is credible ... actually, I am glad to see that there is no competition between ladies there and that they share information, that is why you should be honest with every lady ...
Another thing, it is not that you wrote an email that you will get an answer ...
kingarthur, okay ... I don't really no the rules but to my point of view ...
I would say they are three:
1) never mention who is the scammer in the forum, always tell the administrators for them to check, you might be wrong and it her way to take the decision to drop her instead of she ...
2) if you are not satisfy with a service, refer to the administrator
otherwise, just quit
3) never insult
imagine somone who would invite his neighbors, but with one condition not to smoke in his house ...
if you are a smoker and you want to smoke, then leave the house
if you see someone who smokes then just tell the host instead of shouting that there is a smoker in the house
you're not happy ignore them but don't insult the neighbors ...
As a total newbee to this international dating game, after spending several weeks reading about the dangers, pitfals, and difficulty of actually finding someone suitable, I have subscribed to this particular site. Yes, I initially had a few letters that seemed pre-written, from very young girls teling me how much they wanted me. However when I began to use the site and its clever search criterior, I must say that I am impressed, it is as good if not better than similar U.K. dating sites.
I was subscribed to another very large and well known Russian agency a couple of months ago and Fiance.com is much cheaper, easier to use, and has perhaps three times as many ladies.
The fact that this forum exists, says much, I think, to the integrity of
Martin_UK I can now see what you meant in your previous replies to my posts. They aren't just there to fish out of the lake.