I agree with you Harantis,
If they are so unsure and so ungreatful I would look for another. There is literially millions of woman in Russia that are looking for good men and can only dream about starting a new life with them.
My girlfriend last year had to return to Russia for 6 weeks to renew her visa. She was in tears at the thought of returning to russia even for a short time. Shed be happy to never see russia again. NZ is her dream and its about a million miles from russia.
Heck, ask me about New York City (where I was born). If I never had to go there again, it would suit me just fine. I'd be happy if sank into the Atlantic Ocean. Don't much care for the place one bit.
And I am sure there would be heaps of people in NY that would never want to leave.
Its just theres plenty of women out there that are happy to start a new life and future in a different country. I wouldnt waste my time with those that would be half hearted about it.
Relationships can be difficult enough without having a woman that is pining to go home.
No I couldnt be bothered with that.
As youve seen in the women forum there are all different types. But still plenty of good ones.
I think the women need to sacrafice a little. Most of the guys want to give them a complete free ride.
When I hear men say there are actually good FSU women out there I keep wondering where. I seem to meet all the bad ones. Everyone I meet seems to not only be a gold digger but seriously not right in the head (I am not kidding about this either) but on the other hand I partially have myself to blame too as I have not made some good judgement in who I've met in the past. Hopefully I have lived and learned from my mistakes and will actually meet a great lady sometime in the future. Some of the guys on here who actually did get married give me some hope at least.