Deano: While I'm not sure I would try to meet a woman that way, I commend you for trying things your own way. I really don't think there is a right way or a wrong way to try and have a relationship with FSU woman. It all depends on the person, whether it's by writing them letters first then meeting them or just going and meeting them by your way or through a social. I think it's silly when certain people on here critisize people on their methods of trying to be with one of these women. If it works go for it I say.
Hi again guys. As I mentioned in this thread I met two girls that captured my attention and are worthy of pursuing further. So, far the communication is very good. Both have kept in touch via sms (Text messaging)and emails. I mention this because I want to share with you guys who don't have a lot of experience what SHOULD happen during stage two. For those of us who have traveled to the FSU we all know its not difficult to meet the ladies once you are there. Some of us are then lucky to make a good connection with one or more of them. Or so we think..... I preach this to all my fellow FSU travelers when giving them advice on their girls. " If your girl is truly sincere and interested in you then you will know it!" What I mean is you won't have to ask your FSU buddy what he thinks. Your girl will show you she is into you. She will sms you for know reason other than she is thinking about you. She will take the time to walk in the rain to the Internet cafe just to read and answer your email. She will email you just because she misses you. She will email you photos of her just to be sure you know what is waiting for you. Just your instincts and read their actions. A good example: On my recent trip I did take the time to date one agency girl. I paid the introduction fee and arranged the meeting. We had a wonderful first meeting. She is fluent in English. We met at 12 noon and had a nice lunch together. I liked her right away. We agreed to meet again later that evening. We had dinner and then went to the night club. Again we had a wonderful time. Good converstation and good fun. During our photos together she didn't put her arm around me. During our slow dancing it was lacking any passion and felt more like dancing with a friend. At the end of the night when I saw her to her door she offered a hand shake. So, when I did the follow up call the next day with the agency manager it came as no surprise to me that Irina and stated she only wanted friendship and not a relationship with me. And the end of the night I knew it was a dead end by her body language and actions. I did the follow up call just to confirm it. I had no intentions of wasting any more time on her. No free meals or night clubs on me! Only friends she says....I always say if I need another friend I will get a dog.
Glad your new approach brought you dividends. I think meeting a girl at an
agency while you are there is a crapshoot. At least in letters it feels like you get to know someone a little. I am still in same old approach. I'm in Odessa and if girl(s) don't work this agency thing is to just past time and have some company. Never would I think meeting a girl at agency will amount to anything...to pick a girl from just a photo????