...where would you go - FSU or Latin America? I think the FSU women are probably more beautiful, although there are certainly beautiful young women in Columbia. I'm looking for a real young one so how bad is the competition now in the FSU? I can't compete with a sugar daddy and his millions. Just asking for some friendly advice...
Habla Espanol? or Vih gavaritye Paruski?
Do you speak english or russian?
Beautiful= Sugar daddy
My question to you is, how would you feel coming home with your tail
between your legs??? :))) lol
I've noticed that writers to this forum go through stages. We tend to start out questioning and helpful - when we can be. But very quickly as we become regualr writers, a lot of us become sarcastic and not very helpful to new comers who are just asking sincere questions. I've been here off an on for four years myself, and I know I know I went through that stage. Always remember we were ALL new once - and treat newcomers as being in genuine need of helpful advice.
beemer:
Jet hit the nail on the head here,the purpose of my question to TuffGuy was to ensure that advice given was relevant to where he lives.Once thats established then any advice given is generic to the country you are visiting.
I think KA originally responded to the supplementary information provided to the question and not actually the question itself.
Quote 'I'm looking for a real young one' unquote, no mention of anything except young and beautiful.
I would interpret this that TuffGuy is under the impression, like so many, that all he has to do is step off the plane and the ladies will sweep him off his feet. That's the way he came across to me anyway.
Glad,
I see your point. In rereading Tuff guys post. It sounds more like he is interested in
where he can get a'real young one' most easily, in FSU or Latin America. Nothing pointed toward closeness geographically, only economically.....I'm not talking airfare. Not much difference for me to fly from Los Angeles to Kiev as from Los Angeles to Columbia. Biggest cost is the girls, wherever they are.
beemer,
Women like spending money wherever you go, particularly if they've never had the money to spend before, 'kid in a candy store' mentality ..... unfortunately :)
Jet,
I was not trying to be demeaning in my post. I was just trying to show what may happen
while searching for that hot young babe, it is very realistic. It happens to everyone. People on this forum should be honest in advising newbies, whether it be positive or negative. I am always learning things, mostly from people that have been around for a long time.
Glad,
One last thought, If this was my thread and I told you I lived in Los Angeles, would your
advice be to go to Latin America because it was closer??
Well, thanks for the advice, I think. I'm just asking a legitimate question and I'll take all replies with a grain of salt. I'm 39 and not new to the international dating thing. I'm just getting out of a relationship with a Brazilian woman and by "real young" I mean mid 20s-late 20s. Sorry, but I'm just not that attracted to women over 35. I don't look or feel 39 so I think mid 20s is entirely reasonable and I do want to have another child. It seems many of the Columbian girls with profiles accept a guy up into his mid 40s. What I'm looking for is a young, gorgeous (to me), educated women I can trust. Do they still exist or am I wasting my time, effort, and money? I know younger gals here won't consider a man my age, not to mention the vast numbers of unattached (or attached) men trolling around. I live in Pennsylvania so should this affect my choice so much? My first choice is FSU gals, but FSU tours are pricier and there seems to be so much competititon now. And maybe this is a topic for another thread, but if my Brazilian gal ran away on me, how do I get her back to Brazil? She has certainly violated her visa, right? I mentioned this to her, but it seems to mean nothing to her since she says she's staying right here and won't give me a divorce (against her religion, yet she's living with dope-dealers, drunks, and stripper trash). What should I do now to protect myself if this goes to court?
One last thing... If I'm looking for "young and beautiful," isn't this what the tour companies and agencies promote? I know most of this is good advertising, but why would I want to pay big $$$ for a tour to meet average, overweight, middle-age women? I can find that here. If I take a tour and I don't find young, available beauties, I'll be pissed. Like any other guy, I'm only wanting these tour companies to produce what they are advertising. Has any one taken a tour and found these gals attracted to you (if there is a significant age gap) because she likes older men? My dad was 24 years older than my mom and piss poor so I know it can happen.
tuff,
My original post was meant to show what may happen. It is so easy to send letters to young girls and everything is right and when you come to visit things don't go as you planned. For $3000 ,you got to come away thinking as this is just a good experience. If you would get 'pissed' this avenue is not for you.
I am late 40's and practically all my girls are early to mid 20's. It all depends on what the girl is looking for and what you are looking for. Who know's my search could lead to an older women. These girls in FSU are very mature compared to their American counterparts, around 10 years. I don't let age get in the way. Others here don't agree with me. good luck
beemer:
you make some good points in your posts,not least of which is that of the age gap,and it's pro's and cons.Unfortuantely as you have noticed there is no simple answer to that.Some here on the forum will tell you to stick close to your own age group others will say the opposite.The only advice I would give is to go with what each person feels comfy with.
No right or wrong here......for some it will work for others not,lessons will be learned both ways.From personal experience I would agree most FSU ladies seem to prefer slightly older guys,usually through a combination of maturity and stability.In my opinion.........and I stress only my opinion here a reasonable age gap is at most 15 years,but much more commonly about 10.
Finally in answer to your question about whether I would send you to Latin America because it was closer has it's benefits when travelling from the US,not least of which is being closer......and usually cheaper,although if you have the correct knowledge (Martin being the first to spring to mind)then you can save a considerable amount of money wherever you travel to.Then my next question would be regarding budget.
The biggest problem in answering any question the like of which TuffGuy posted was that there is NO simple answer to a very vague question.:)
Nothing wrong at all with looking for a young and beautiful woman!! Tuff, first of all you will never get a woman here as long as you are officially married. FInding the type of woman you are looking for is very probable but it is difficult. A lot of this depends on your attitude, and I can tell you just by reading what some clowns here have to say that they will never be successful. Its too bad but its a fact. A young beatiful Russian woman will spot an a$$hole a mile away, believe me. The trick is to find one thats as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside, thats the difficult part. Most of them are sharks, they'll eat you alive and spit out the bones, lol. Ive put in the time made alot of sacrifices and I got lucky finding my wife after one miserable failure. Shes a doll and I would go to the moon for her if I had too. I am officially part of "the 1% club", are you laffin yet Nas? LoL. Believe me, my wife and I have had our ups and downs and like any relationship it takes work and both have to love and want a relationship the same. But I would not have it any other way. If you can find the same happiness I have, or Nas has or Glad has or even my long lost buddy Neon has, you will understand and do whatever it takes to be successful. Just try and learn what you can, weed thru what the idiots liars and clowns here that have to crap out their mouths and you will be successful like we are. Good luck. By the way Tuff, I am 39 like you and my lovely wife is 25. This is my first and only marriage and I have never been happier in my life.
skiired,
you really need to switch to decaf, mate. You are the sole agent for the truth, aren't you. Everyone who has different opinions from yours, or merely different points of view is then either a liar or a clown, isn't he.
I just read your post and you have been one of the guys which I have looked up to in my learning curve.
But your line ' weed thru what the idiots liars and clowns here that have to crap out of their mouths', I look up at all the posts in this thread and many are from me. I hope you did not have me in mind. The newbies would surely take your post and think you were talking about guys posting on this thread, maybe the word 'forum' should have been used in your sentence. .I am really happy for you and others who have had success. Thanks!