She's probably thinking "I've found a man who's everything I wanted, but he's not very kinky. Can I get him to be more kinky...?". Are you prepared to be more kinky for her? Do you want her to be less kinky for you? Ask yourself if there's a compromise, and would you both be prepared to make one? It might be worth it if she's really the woman you've always wanted.
Just brake down and wear the leather, nobody will know the difference. By the way, there is really no pain
when you get 50 lashes, just think of your prize at the end!!!! Who knows, you may enjoy yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is a foul ball.......... To your left field. You asked! :))
Like Adman said, it is your call. Are you thanking your lucky stars because there is a future or is she into things you do not feel comfortable with? I she disappointed that you may not buy into her ways? It's up to you and her to figure out, just my opinion.
I dont mind the beatings Beemer, I probably deserve them. Its wearing her G string that irritates me ))
Balvennie can a man really say no to a woman? Would you be offended if your proposed boyfriend thought you were too edgy ?
"Do you want her to be less kinky for you?" Obviously I grew up in the closet because its not the first time Ive shied at the jump. But I think this is not mainstream.
Adman,
I am not what they call a 'player' but is wearing a G string....kinky. I thought you meant something with a little
pain involved...no pain..no gain.
Broaden your horizons..get with it....go with the flow...get 'Hip'.... but whatever you do....don't
......I mean don't.... act your age!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Personally, I go with the flow............ :))))))))))))
Beemer
Of course the wearing of her G string was just a joke for your post. That would be a crackup, a bit of harmless fun)) Maybe I should put that on the list of things must do.
Ive had a few women in the beginning of the relationship tell me they are "very adventurous"
Is this necessary information before youve got started ?? They seem compelled to tell me this))
Don't you think it is better for girls to be upfront with their 'style'. Pertinent info, just like telling
you how many kids they have. Besides, they don't want to scare you off before they are 'done' with you!!!!
Ok, on a more serious note... yes it's probably best that a woman tells you upfront about her preferences, especially if they're outside the norm. "Very adventurous" means different things to different people. It could mean she likes to do it hanging from a chandelier, or she likes threesomes, or she likes it more than once a week :-) But "kinky" is something different altogether, and whilst it can also mean different things to different people, it generally means she likes to do stuff that the mainstream doesn't. You haven't gone into detail, so we just have to guess what you mean.
So, do you think you could enjoy her 'style'? Would indulging her preferences prevent you from enjoying yourself? If you are incompatible in this area, then you are simply incompatible, and therefore she isn't a woman that's everything you wanted. On the other hand, ask her this: if you indulge her preferences, will she indulge yours? You could have all your fantasies could come true! ;-)
Hi Baz.
Thanks for all the concern and willingness to help!!!
If I gave you her details it wouldnt help, she always writes "Only for You" and thats me ))
I am also fairly certain she does not bother reading mail from from other guys
Thanks
Bob :)