Did I hear that familiar noise kachink($), kachink($).
Don't you want to go through all the work??????? The journey is what is important!!!
Have fun with my Nikolaev girl..she is priceless...if you remember her from a previous post.
Other than that got to go through the motions....remember just because girl gives one guy cold shoulder,
doesn't mean she will be same for all.
You hot-looking-young-babe can be found at #83774, ain't it funny 4 hot babes in a row from Kiev....do you think
by any chance they know each other????? Duh!!
Apal...seems like we are IM-ing
Anyways, not really interested in Kiev girls -- are you insane? That city has so many decent local men, a pretty girl is obviously looking for a rich man to marry for money. To me a woman like this has no soul and is more than pretty disgusting. Worse than a prostitute, because atleast a prostitute knows she has to earn a living.
Oh and 83774, yeah she's cute, has photos of herself in her panties, doesn't have a job, speaks perfect English and wants to travel the world... huh?
Just noticed on this weeks new ladies? There are four tall stunners in a row -- all from Kiev.
What gives? If anyone is in Kiev, check em all out and report back when you find out what escort service.. er Marriage Agency they all came from. :)
Apal.....nothing gets by me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I enjoy sending letters to these girls, not that anything would come out of it but interesting to see their demeaner. I would put money they know each other. They are all model-types. If you are not serious with them,
you could have some fun with them... be yourself and not worry about saying wrong thing.
It is important for me to know how many letters girls get. I sure let them know how 'popular they are' and how
honored I am they wrote to me. It puts a thought in their minds.
Is a gold-miner a step higher than gold-digger?????
in my past experience wit the female gender -a gold-digger has expectations with no effort involved, a gold-miner is allways hopefull that there might be something ............
I agree that it might be fun to correspond with someone, but what happens if by some rare twist, you actually do somehow eventually believe what she is telling you. Then its not as fun! :)
Haven't you ever met a girl you not really interested in, had some good laughs and after a while, you thought
hey, she's kind of interesting and your interest in her changes. I am writing to a girl that was interested in a guy younger than me but she enjoys have a bit of fun, so we decided to write as friends. Well, couple months later,
she asked if I was really 30 something. That is how I came across in letters...it was me just being me. If things move in a different direction, so be it. Just go with flow and see what happens. You can still have fun if she is being sincere, it's all part of courting.
Beem - Unfortunately, yeah, I meet girls like that all the time. I wish it wasn't the case, but I lose interest very quick with most types of superficial and self-interested women.
Age isn't a factor anymore -- its really liking someone.
Regarding sincerity:
I was originally under the impression that any girl in a marriage agency was serious in their search for a single man for marriage - soley based on the fact that they had joined an agency. Yeah, I found out the hard way how naive that really is.
Recently, I received an affirmation that this was indeed still the case. Young, pretty thing I was writing from Anastasiaweb -- this week admitted when she joined her agency she didn't take it seriously. Yet, she did confirm that very many men were currently writing her. Believe it or not she hadn't even discussed joining an agency and writing to foreign men with her own mother - her only support in the world. She even wrote her mother doesn't view the agency as a good idea, because her impressions were that her daughter would just become some foreign man's servant...
So you see? I have just about had it with agencies entirely. Sweet letters -- than the hard, cold truth of reality...
It is rare to find a sincere girl. I am now almost at my limit Beem...
This was the girl I really liked writing to. I have now decided not to write her again, especially after she admitted she wrote me a very impersonal form-letter in response to one of mine -- solely because she wasn't in the mood.
She had similar look to Ms. Evil Gold-digger I met - the one girl I wrote to for a year who admitted every letter she had ever written to me was a lie and not even close to who she was in real life.
Geezus I hate marriage agencies and the entire ordeal...
I am sending out the feelers to a girl who isn't the long-legged, body that kills, top-model type, but has the look that seems she would make a caring wife without need for money.
I don't know, but she's the last one I will write to on Anasstasia...
There is one girl I am writing to her from a smaller city. She met one guy already who she felt only wanted to have sex from her and that he thought he was a prince, and she didn't...
Oh well... sometimes the truth is good, but on the other hand it makes the whole agency process seem cheap and tacky too...
Heh - on another point. I made sure not to publish my profile. Omfg - the bow wows that write me? wtf are they thinking? I took my profile offline - hate receiving junk mail from desperate bowsers...
... I can only guess girls must have some real type of incentive to write a guy who is as ugly as they come.
There is no way any of these girls are THAT desperate, but most men that join these agencies for the first time really believe that is the case... omfg this world is such a silly place.
Age isn't a factor anymore -- its really liking someone.
Stongly agree with that!!! I have had many guys here tell me about what is age appropriate for me, without knowing anything about me. It just shows me what is appropriate for them.
It doesn't matter whether girls are in agency or not, some are sincere some are not. Hopefully you can find out in letters. Actually, I have had better luck with girls in agencies. At least they respond to letters better and have written for a longer time period. Girls with private addresses seem to fizzle quickly. After a short time, I am the greatest guy in world, love of her life...ect. I run for the hills!!!! I do ask girls pretty early in process whether their family knows of their search for a foreign man, most if not all have support of their family.
Also, some girls live only with mother or have small family, so you also have to presume MUM will be involved some where.
I would not be involved wih anastasia, I think it is more site than girl is problem. If agency puts girl on such site it gives me impression $$$ is at forefront. Glad you are changing what you are after Apal, the more hot-babe you look for the more problems you will have. I found that out in beginning. Good luck!!!
Agred. What is a factor I am finding out -- is basically how attractive you are to whoever you are going to meet. Some guys are 30 and look 45. Some are 50 and you'd never think they were in their 40's. Compatibility is in the eye of the beholder.
What changed for me I guess is that I am a little more leery of college girls / students. Lots I have written simply just like the penpal aspect of this entire thing and are not very serious.
Yup _ its a crap shoot, roll-the-dice.
Yes _ I agreee you can put the odds on you instead of the agency house, if you do some homework.
Honestly? Just hope you guys don't encounter a girl who admits to lying about everything she ever wrote you just to get you to meet her -- that happens to -- she showed up to meet me -- then she showed me how big a liar she was the entire six months I wrote her -- happened to me. Yes it did.
Here's to you Yulia. Hope you like the blog I wrote for other guys to read about you now.
I write to girls and in the beginning, I let them know my seriousness in finding the right girl and I have no problem flying half way across the world to find her. If things goes well in letter writing, it is phone calls and then meeting all within 3-4 months. They know this ahead of time and if girl is hesitant or unsure...then she is just letter writer and I keep in touch but she is off list of girls I think are serious. In my trips, I try to visit 2 girls ,each for a week, I don't believe in spending 2 weeks when first meeting. When face to face in first meeting you have good idea if they MAY be something. I have had girls tell me that first meeting will tell all...is there chemistry or not and if not, I would need another avenue while I am there...another girl whom I had wanted to meet. It is so hit and miss(mostly miss), the more girls you meet the better chance of meeting Miss Right. I know there are guys lucky enough to get it right first try and I am happy for them but sometimes God makes it harder for you...just have to keep the faith!!!!!!!