There is something about these Ukraine women .. I like tits just as much as the next man , but these are bum girls .. they have this 2 inch gap at the top of their legs, which despite them being rake like skinny , still allows all this shape and curvature in the figure. They are built for shafting … !
Over the remaining 2 weeks of my stay in the Ukraine I got to know all about Vicky and we spent more and more time together. I am 35 and she is 21 and not only is she the hottest , sexiest, tiniest little thing but she is unbelievably good in ALL rooms of the apartment!!!! She is sweet, kind and incredibly generous .. completely and utterly giving!! She seems as crazy about me as I am about her. Now I am back in the UK she is sending texts saying she misses me so much it hurts. She travels 25km to the internet café every day to read and reply to my emails. I am making plans to go back for 3 months to seal the whole deal in January.
Vicky has a child, a 2 year old daughter .. the father abandoned them as so many Ukraine men do apparently. She lives with her sister 25 km out of town in the standard dilapidated apartment block. Her sister also has a small daughter. They are very poor, like genuine basic needs level. When Vicky told me she had a daughter , for a millisecond I thought oh dear I will have to end it. But that idea only lasted a millisecond because Vicky at all times has demonstrated her willingness to give me everything she has .. her body, her soul , her love , her unending thoughtfulness and generosity and all this things wrapped up in a 40kg little angel bum. She needs me so much, and you know what? … I am going to give her everything in return !!
My feeling is that it is very difficult to make anything work using the agents. If I was allowed one word to describe the women I have met via the agencies it would be ‘depressed’. Really when you think about it, it is hardly surprising that they are depressed. The environment is horrible, but they feel powerless to do anything about it. They are in the vast majority, at least in nikolaev, the common estimate is 5 women to 1 man. The men behave like alley cats, are alcoholics, and treat women abominably. Of course they are depressed. This idea serves as explanation for just about everything. Depressed people are inconsiderate, the idea to think about the needs of someone else just does not pop into the mind of a depressed person. Added to this is the fact that these women blame the men for all their problems, and given that we westerners are also men, we then become valid targets for mistreatment.
My advise is this: don’t give up, find a way of getting together with another westerner in the same town and buddy up. The difference I experienced when out with Stan was very noticeable. The dynamic of 2 buddies is so much more attractive to a woman than a lonely , vulnerable man on his own.
I will be in Nikolaev from about the middle of January, if you want some help from me you can go to G N A restaurant and ask Gasha, the owner, for my number. Say you are looking for an English man who looks like Rod Stewart. Gasha thinks I look like him .. The place to be is in the nightclubs. As far as I know there are 2 other nightlubs and they all open most nights of the week. Hire an interpreter and just go out with the interpreter to help you meet girls in the clubs! They only cost $10 / hour but really you can make an offer of $40 for the whole evening take it or leave it.
Asherc You reiterate what I have said all along! Can the agencys. Just go there. There are plenty of women who will warm up to being treated with respect.
Thats a nice story Rod, thanks for sharing it. Does she speak good english? I agree, I travelled with a friend and we will return together, it makes it alot of fun since you both speak a common language and joke about things that happen along the way. It's kinda weird though as an American to be the only one in public smiling and laughing though. LOL.
9davo - the agent i used in Nikolaev was called Zoya, I found her while looking for apartments as she does short lets as well as introductions. the email is scarlat@mksat.net, but she is going to the states soon to be with her man so if you do go it might be easier to use 'cicty of brides'.
badpenny - Vicky speaks basic English , but we kept dialog going all the time by having her help me learn russian. We read books and newspaper together and were always talking! by the end of the 4 weeks I was able to hold simple conversations with her just in russian!