martin...I would not call her a scammer. To me a scammer is someone lying to you to get money from you with no intention of time with you. This girl meets you, have fun together but just likes to be focal point and taken care of...no lies, upfront on her wants....why do you consider that scamming, let alone stage 2. If she was blacklisted, it is from some guy that showered her with gifts and got nowhere and now blames her for what happened. I bought her a few things but I stopped when I saw her intentions, I have no problems seeing her again, as long as we both know where we stand. I would consider her a golddigger.
I have never met a scammer, have written to few thou!!!
beemer,
You say you stopped buying her things when you saw her intentions. So you felt there was something amiss with her intentions, in her profile, amongst other things, she states that a man of any age, whose income is of no consequence, most important are love, trust an attention.
Now if any part of those statements are innacurate, or indeed downright misleading, then she is a stage II scammer, she's waiting for guys to come and visit her, and she is profiled on nummerous website with some pictures that are bordering on obscenity, to take them shopping and to blow their credit card.
You apparently met her based on her statement of above but now you admit to withdrawing once you realised her intentions so there was apparently something amiss that wasn't stated in her profile and/or in her correspondence with you and once you got there you found yourself on the shopping trips.
beemer, nothing personal, I have met a number of such ladies myself and they're only out for what they can get, some call them gold-diggers.
I stopped because I felt other than having a good time and treating her, she was for herself. I didn't see any lies and she made no promises, only to meet. It was my idea not hers. When I said her intentions...it is because I am looking for a relationship not friendship or s*x.
As for her statements...I have no idea how accurate. Maybe if I was younger or better looking it would be different but that is only conjecture. I bailed because I thought things were not going how I wanted them. My expectations were low, so I moved on quickly.
'to take them shopping and to blow their credit card'
Martin, I didn't read that part. Of course we can sit here and try to determine what a person is really thinking.
So you are saying, scammers = goldiggers???...to me they are different. I did say in a previous post that I considered her a goldigger. When I met her, she did not have those revealing pics, got to say...she did have a really nice body...saw that up close and personal!!!!
If you travel to meet a girl like this under the auspices of developing a meaningful relationship then you are going to be taken for a ride.
Let’s call a spade a spade.
A 19 year old girl ain’t on a quest for her life companion and soulmate. She’s out for a good time and in order for that to happen somebody puts their hand in their pocket.
Why the hell not? She’s got the looks, might even be a hoot to be with. But I wouldn't look for anything other than that.