She had already mentioned the desire for someone who was adventurous, previous to this description in the same snetence. Seems a little redundant to mention it twice.
Back in college - I knew a guy who's dancing style could best be described as "frantic gestures". Certainly didn't seem to appeal much to the women at the time. Would hate to think that she was looking for someone ready to break into THAT at a moments notice!
Well reading the meaning of 'frantic' in the English dictionary at first I was dumbfounded as to what she might mean, but an outside shot, and I say an outside shot, might be a guy who is unpredictable, has a zany (frantic) sense of humour, one who will keep her entertained etc.
Martin...have you ever heard of ...lost in translation... when I am writing russian(trying), I'll put a word in that I think means one thing, when I translate sentence the meaning is different. I can see how a girl would mean one thing and it ends up different in another language. Yes, you are correct in definition of frantic but no one knows what girl was really trying to say, we can only infur....
beemer,
Perhaps frantic was the most innapropriate word to use, to look for a guy who is distraught with fear, anxiety attacks, hurried, chaotic and perhaps violently mad.
Fiance.com is pretty good at taking down the profile of any lady who does anything questionable, or shows herself to be anything but interested in finding a guy.
A little twist on the problem though. My lady in Mariupol was listed with a particular agency. When she and I got serious - she visted the agency and had her profile removed. A SISTER agency, however, located in the same city refuses to take her profile down.
My lady has requested three times - she has been told that they prefer to keep her profile up as they prefer to sell information on her again and again. She never receives any information or contact from any of the guys supposedly receiving her information as the agency is good enough (evidently) to do all of her responding and letter writing for her (yes I am being sarcastic).
I have written to the agency asking that they remove my lady's profile or I would report them to scammer websites as a fraudulent agency. Would prefer not to PLAY that game and just have her profile removed - but I will do it if it will do us any good.
Any ideas or suggestions.
(Again this is a NONfiance.com profile - and evidently a nonassociated agency.)
Land of oz
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If this is on an Internet website you might try contacting the owner of the server it is hosted on. You can find contact info at http://www.networksolutions.com/whois/index.jsp. If it happens to be a US server just explain to them that a website on their server has personal photos belonging to your friend, they have been ask to remove them and have not. If they are not removed both the agency and the server owner are liable in a law suit.
If it is a server located outside the states then you may have to check and see if they adopted the International copywrite laws on the Internet.
A few weeks back a thread was started by the member desperate. I understand she was successful in this approach threatening to take them to International court in The Hauge but I do not know if she still watches and could give you any info.
good luck
Batman
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jetmba,
OK, such an agency is selling the address to other guys and whilst having her profile removed might avoid these other guys being scammed so perhaps the best way to deter other guys is to name the agency on blacklists, if it is not already named, and name it wherever it might show up on a Google search.
But aside from that I don't believe that you should be personally worried, at an appropriate time in the relationship with my now wife she had, during a break in our relationship, listed with some agencies and she contacted them all to have it removed. But there is still one agency that is listing her profile and selling her contact details, out of date contact details, but neither of us really cares about it. She tried to have it removed and failed and, personally speaking, perhaps I would still like to see it there in 20 years from now just to remember the good old days, a piece of nostalga.
Just curious. What was the purpose of pasting the enire contents of a different thread here?
If it is perhaps to point out that I was reading the profile of some other woman, while at the same time mentioning that I HAVE a lady - I plead - GUILTY.
I confess - I have read the descriptive profiles of various women on a few websites - even though I aleady have a lady. (SOB.... I can barely live with myself....)
As long as I have come this far - and confessed to my deep dark secret - that I have, occassionally, in times of boredom, read the profiles of various ladies, even though I already have one - a practice that I know should qulify me for damnation to hell (or at least revocation of my "prefered customer" status at Denny's) - let me confess to another deep dark secret:
I have also posted on a forum for seekers of Russian women (this forum) though I already have one. FOR SHAME! I will now drink a bottle of soda - in a flavor which is okay, but I don't especially like - just to PUNISH myself!
I have a serious question again, I really have no idea what this means, I may have to come back with the "I did not understand clearly what you meant" standard response.
"If you can protect me from all troubles which there will be on ours with you ways, and will be always a number with me then write more likely, I wait for you"
Scotty, who really knows what a woman means? I am sure they dont know themselves. Could give a guy a big headache trying to work them out.
My take on the phrase would be "protect me from all troubles" = You need to be provider and defender of the realm.
"A number" = She wants to be your No1.
Tip for the day.These girls do not like the piss taken out of them. Jokes about there quirky ways or Russia drinking to much vodka just dont go down well. No matter how tempting to make these joke,it aint going to work.
Otherwise its all painsailing.
Scotty, your flippant attitude to these girls will not serve you well.
You do a disservice to Russian and Ukrainian girls with your over-confident attitude.
Maybe have a little re-think on taking the piss out of someone who knows English better than you know their language.
These girls are not all scammers as you seem to think. Most of them live under difficult circumstances with regards to the appreciation and respect they are looking for.
Be careful to temper your new found positive attitude with some consideration as to how you should respect.
You may read elsewhere on these board that Russian women are demanding. IMO most of them demand only respect and sincerity and as far as I'm concerned they have every right to.
If you expect to use one as a trophy to make your ex jealous expect to return to earth with a sizeable thump.
Scotty,
She wants a man who will stand strong rather than a wimp, quite 'what the hell' Kirkland is on about I have no idea, nor do I have any idea what that post of 'mine' is doing above, Olga has told me that it is not there!
And thank you Kirkland, I hear what your saying,( except flippant, I'll be honest, I actually had to look that up, def: lacking proper respect or seriousness ) and I think you misunderstood me, I really meant no one any disrespect, well, at least the women anyway, so I apologize to you or anyone else I offended in my quest here or seriousness.
Sometimes I like to make a joke or two. It's my way.
As far as my ex, well that's my axe to grind, Perhaps you can write the checks, We'll see if you have a cross to bear, or should I say "a Flippant attitude".. Friend.