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crash

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	Send: 11/3/2003 8:37:36 AM

Dear Olga, I think that something needs to be done about the person who replied to my posting regarding Fiancee visas. I don't think that I or anyone else should have to put up with this kind of cowardly racial and personal abuse from anyone. Thank you.

Thunderdome

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	Send: 11/3/2003 1:17:37 PM

Dear Olga, I think that something needs to be done about the person who has posted two new threads here very recently. In the one he asks a question which would be best and easiest answered by contacting his own Foreign Affairs or Alien Control Dept, by doing so getting all the necessary details pertaining to his query. But instead he opts for the easy way out by posting it here in the hope that another has done this work for him. He then got a reply from a person he has insulted in the recent past and, it might not have gone unnoticed to you, it would seem the two persons are not too fond of each other. In the other (I believe it is this one) he again starts a new line by complaining to you that he is unhappy with the response from this other person in the other thread calling it ‘racial’ – I missed him confessing the belonged to an ethnic minority – and ‘cowardly’ – I don’t think this applies either – and ‘personal’ – which is absolutely beyond a shadow of a doubt correct – instead of posting it there where it has some bearing. Some, yes, however minimal. Sorry to have used your name Olga, but let’s get less polite and clear here: Crash, can’t you spell Wtrav02 or are you afraid to address him direct? And have you not seen his Eddress below his Nick so you can contact him direct? Funny, because you refer to your own in your other thread inviting people to give you the answer to a query which you can get by a simple phonecall and/or fax to the proper authorities. And just because you’re unhappy with the response you cry for the Mommy of this site by posting another useless thread! This is a Forum my dear Tom, not your neighbourhood chatsite, and start treating it as such! I hunch your name is not Dick so if you don’t like a comment - ignore it. This is sent by a guy called Harry, and I hope you get my drift .... .... because anyone is able to make a posting here whether you like it or not. You won’t stop him by winging to the Moderators.

crash

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	Send: 11/3/2003 4:56:57 PM

This is a forum, in my understanding, specifically designed to support the endeavours of those seeking a Russian wife. While of course it is necessary for each of us to contact our own consulate offices I perhaps naively thought that asking for advice or information pertaining to the aforesaid matter was the whole point of the forum. I am not a member of a minority and you are mistaken in your understanding of the term "racial" if you think that it only applies to such. I am English and the comments made by wtrav were derogatory to my race, hence my use of the term racial. I use the term "cowardly" simply because those derogatory terms were not delivered face to face but from the safety of a distant computer terminal. Furthermore, I did not, nor have I ever insulted wtrav without justification. I simply stated my opinion of his dreadful treatment of a Russian girl. I did not resort to juvenile name calling. Speaking of juvenile: I did not get your "drift" as you so eloquently put it. If you are going to use MY language then please attempt correct usage of syntax. You are correct that I did ask you for some advice as someone who I mistakenly considered may have a little experience in this area. You chose not to respond until now. That is of course a matter for you. Asking advice from someone who "has already done the work for him", is surely the point of this forum? My whinging(I assume this is what you meant by winging, not some form of flight?) as you put it, is in fact a term applied to anyone who has the temerity to speak up for the rights of the individual particularly when that individual has to suffer any kind of abuse. The freedom to make a posting "whether I like it or not" is not unnaissalable Thunderdome. The freedom of speech that we all cerish is only applicable to a point and does not give anyone the right to a freedom that abuses others, particularly on racial or sexual terms. I have never used the site as a neighbourhood chat room. I have only ever posted pertinent questions. I still anticipate action on the part of the moderator, however I will not comment further on the matter. The subject is closed

deanis

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	Send: 11/3/2003 8:39:29 PM

I must admit at first I was on the side of Crash on this one after I had read Wtrav02's comment in the (Fiancee Visa) thread. When I read it I was thinking to myself " Where did that come from? Why did Wtrav02 write such a thing?" Well, I did some homework in the forum and found out. Crash is nothing more than a big HYPOCRITE! In Wtrav02's thread (Marinarussianfuckgirl) Crash clearly attacks Wtrav02 personally and insults us Americans. You want to see ABUSE, RACIAL comments, JUVENILE insults? Read what Crash has to say in the thread! He hides his racial comments just enough to give him a back door. " No one asked for you or your people for that matter to behave as though you are the worlds big brother!" and "I think you should seek therapy (that's what you people do isn't it?)" Juvenile comments? Well our HYPOCRITE has got that covered too! "I looked at the pictures you posted and it's clear that at least some of your resentment is due to your small penis. It is quite tiny isn't it?" I can't believe that you went crying to the moderator about Wtrav02's comments after what you did to him! Your a spineless jellyfish! There is no way you are from the same great country that gave us Winston Churchill and Tony Blair.

Olga

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	Send: 11/4/2003 7:16:19 AM

As for wtrav's postings-we delete messages that we consider abusive.In my oppinion when people use language like this its a lack of intelligence or just a desire to show off.Unfortunately some forum members encourage those people by starting a conversation with them or trying acting the same way...So let us just watch own own language first and ignore those who try to hide their mentally challenged personality behind profanity.

crash

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	Send: 11/4/2003 8:11:20 AM

Just a quick not to deanis: I said in my posting that I did not, nor have I ever insulted wtrav "without justification". The justification was his treatment of that Russian girl. I admit in hindsight that my remarks about therapy were unsupportable and I in no way wish to insult individual Americans. If that was the case then I publicly apologise right here.I do think that my comments other than that were justified particularly after visiting Russia and seeing how easy it is for us privileged Westerners to exploit the citizens of less fortunate economies. We have a responsibility toward others whether we like it or not. I am sure you were equally upset about the russian girl incidence? I would point out that I have never used abusive language though nor do I intend to (certainly not here). I am not blameless or morally superior to anyone here, but, and this is the point: When we are witness to the abuse or explotation of others we cannot keep silent. Regardless of the bad feeling engendered here, the "mariarussiangirl" has been weighed, measured and logged by everyone. So no hard feelings I hope?

deanis

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	Send: 11/4/2003 9:16:54 AM

No hard feelings from me. I just hate hypocrocy. You had every right to disagree and commment on the "marinarussianfuckgirl" thread. But if you going to dish it out then you better be able to take it too. I agree with one of your comments though. This forum is and should be a useful support tool to help us seeking a Russian bride to save time and or money. Good luck to all on our mission. This forum is great and lets keep it that way.

Thunderdome

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	Send: 11/4/2003 12:58:36 PM

Crash, we appear to agree on one other thing also - we both use the Word Spell-checker. I thought I just chip in here because you wanted a quickie not to Deanis. Shoo, you surprise me, but it's entirely you prerogative. You don’t like the guy? What?... not what you meant? I mean you're using your, sorry, YOUR language so I suppose, after reading me a lesson, that your usage of syntax would be beyond questioning? Then please write what you mean? Higly confusing for dysabl.. sorry, dyxlesbi.. eeh, dyckles.. yoo this is difficult.... people who cannot spell so good! I know, you only forgot an ‘e’ (about 3 key’s removed from the ‘h’) but Word didn’t pick it up because it also is a valid spelling – confusing eh? But you see, getting down to the nitty-gritty of it, a (not racial but) discriminative remark would be that it depends on which Library you use. Have you ever looked at the possibilities for setting your spell-checker for the ‘English’ language? Quite a few – have you got a Neighbor or is he a Neigbour? But if you want English – Allrighty then, tits oot for the lads! A wee bit of playin’ I’v never been foul of me China, true’s bob. Oi Mate, nice caar paarked ‘ere, dig it me Bra? Ya get me? Fact is that many use ‘YOUR’ language only for it is omniversal. If however you are allergic to the abuse of this language I’d advise you to stay away from Russian gals because you have seen nothing yet. But you see, they may be excused, same like others whose default language is a different one, or even better, are different one’s – and you don’t know that but start correcting them. Such might lead to people thinking you come across a bit arrogant, especially then when you declare the subject closed – trust me, the name Olga does not suit you. However, if you are – Howzit Doll :-) ? Sent by Tom, Dick & Harry (with Barry being the dyslexic writer) And hey Deanis – didn’t know your patriotic Yankee blood could cook visibly? ;-)

JimiHendrix

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	Send: 11/8/2003 8:44:38 PM

Calm down people, I dont know why you are so upset about, Infact... I dont know much at all.. The Thrill Is Gone (BBking)

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