Seems to have degenerateed into slagging matchs between different people with the use of bad lanuage.(I have no problem with the words its just boring)The forum isnt supplying the purpose its suppossed to. Could we please have more control on what people post ..thanks.
Colin,
Couldn't agree with you more and it seems the 2 main offenders posts are un-moderated.
I did mention, to Olga, a day or so ago regarding the particular use of 'F' words by one, in particular, of those 2 main offenders and have received a response that something will be done, whether it will or not remains to be seen!
Agreed, I dont know where all the "virtual hatred" stuff come from. How can you hate somone youve never met. Anyway, if the protagonists want to arge can the PLEASE DO IT IN A NEW THREAD AND NOT PISS ALL OVER EXISTING TOPICS, thanks
colin, welcome to the real world......this comes and goes as always....you stay here long enough and you see it, just look back about 6 months ago..it was worse and I don't need to mention any names but there is a commonality....
hmmm ..my dear... I think Beemer is referring to us or you.. but it can't be you... ))) you too good..by the way Martin... you, nasfan, thunderwhatever. and jetmba.. are the one the want to dictate to all in this forum and make judgement on people spelling and insulting .... I think Danny is wrong in one way you are all like 8 years old.. I can't see maturity here.... in regard Monada is not her fault if you started to take some of her light comment out of contest and please Beemer.. don't give me that crap... I remember you were happily going along ("jump in pool") with Monada's way 6 months ago...that is until you found out she was married for real.....pffff what a man...
Sorry danny: I tend to be friends with, and take VACATIONS with, people I LIKE. And somehow I can never see you in that category.
Besides that, how many times do we have to tell you, this forum ISN'T a place where we try to attract EACH OTHER. I know you've been going after MArtin now for sometime, but we just aren't into other guys.
When I travel overseas, I am with a lovely sexy lady 24/7, not a bunch of other forum members, some of whom (like you) I wouldn't spend time with for all the money in the world.
I HAVE met three forum members (now ex-forum members) in person already. And I do hope to meet a few more. like beemer. thunder, nasfan etc. But if I never meet you - it won't bother me a bit.
THere does appear to be a trend whereas forum members that may have bickered amongst themselves previously find themselves, all of them, subject to verbal attacks including name calling and swearing by a very small minority, namely danny, monada and the one that monada has under her thumb and hasn't got the balls to speak his own mind and/or for himself.
If two of those, in particular, had their posts moderated then perhaps this forum could get back to some form of normality however it appears the moderators have taken a vacation whilst letting the forum degenerate to constant name calling, swearing, advances of a homosexual nature! and general spamming of threads by that referred to small minority.
It seems that each time I click on this forum approximately the top 5 threads are spammed by those two individuals and I for one cannot recall the last time either of them had anything constructive to say for themselves.
I can only presume that the moderators, namely Oleg & Olga, are sitting back and laughing at this 'nonsense', the ball is in their court to do something about it but will they?
I completely agree with Martin. He and I have had our differences in the past, and certainly haven't seen eye to eye on everything, but in THIS I am in complete agreement with him.
Danny and the Monada thing and her Quasi are absoutely useless contributors to this forum.
I must admit, I've been doing a little attacking of these creatures myself lately because EVERYTIME I posted a legitimate post for sometime - all I heard was danny's indiotic comments (I mean the guy really hasn't got a clue as to how insulting and retarded he comes off) and Monada's "light" (Quasi's word) comments - which were always "fuck, stupid,idiot etc."
I am certainly willing to tone it down but we nee the moderators to put a muzzle on these monsters.
The three Martin mentioned (danny3777, Monada and Quasi) have absolutely killed anything constructive in this forum.
I used an 'F' word just to test out the moderators and I was moderated. As I've stated previously I, and others, only have to fart in a force 9 gale on this forum and they jump on us so why do the 'minority' get away with it?
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Just testing if the moderators are on vacation or not, if this thread
appears then they obviously are or they simply couldn't give a shit.
All those, 'sensible' those, in agreement say 'áye'.
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I do not see a need to question whether the moderator is working or if my posts are better or worse than someone else's or if others get away with more than I do. The only question I need to ask is if my post is of a quality that will most help the readers of the forum or ask the question I need an answer to. If others have hate toward a country, nationality, or person I am not responsible for discipline I only try to understand why and question if I am doing something to help generate this hate or if I can be part of the solution for it. There are times it is necessary to stand and fight. But if I decide to fight I must also decide that I can win and not just carry on an endless battle that will go nowhere. Sometimes I might use bad words or say things I regret saying. But once words come out they cannot be retracted. So for me it is best to try not to let them out in the first place. They taste better coming out than they do when you have to eat them. But I do not need to judge the heart of others. I only need to judge my own.
land of oz, it is impossible to go back and count how many time I have been attacked by those people, initially becouse I was just telling not to post abuses to my wife, but if you have time to read, you'll notice that I just go out to defend myself or Monada, while this other people abuse or attack my imformation that I have posted with no useful imput, yes... you have made a valid point, I think is also a wast of time this endeless silly fight, but I don't let it go becouse I did not starting this nonsense and again I don't recall distrupting or offend anyone post or information.
All this started 6-7 months ago, that is why I started posting with maser... also note most of the abusive people were quite happy to talk to Monada and accept her style while they thought she was a free bird, once they estalish she was a commited woman they change attidute..draw your own conclusion...... but anyway I'll do my best to ignore all, and just worry about what useful info this forum can offer....if I have the time for this..