Hello there guys hope you can help my problem,i was having a fiancee before and we live together for months before our wedding,but we didn't work and we get broke up,after almost a year i started dating a guy,this guy knew everything about my past i didn't hide this to him,he accepted it and we decided to met in person,as i know he used to be in bar when he came in Philippines in fact i saw some pf the photos,But i accepted him as it was a part of his past.
We met in person and spent time together for 3 weeks.After 6 weeks i have badly sick feelings,i got a pain on my tummy i got admitted to the hospital and they didn't find out that i do have herpes,till after two weeks my current fiancee told me he has pain also at same side and in the morning he told me that i give him herpes.he doesn't sounds so mad.
I get so upset about that i cried,cause i really don't know his accusation but he seems know the case very well.He told me he can't see me being upset,and he says that he is must have right to get mad cause i am the one give it to him.since then i wondering if he is telling the truth.do you think he is lieying to me?i am sure my ex fiancee doesn't give me that cause i talk his girlfriend and she doesn't have any while they are sexually active.
After few months my fiancee told me that he think i can't get visa as i do have herpes.i felt it was a bomb in front of me.i hardly react i just cried.this week he doesn't have much communication with me and i am wondering if he is really hiding something from me.what can i do about this?please help me guys i was so desperate about my situation. DO YOU GUYS HAVE AN IDEA HOW HERPES EFFECT for applying a k1 visa?thanks hope i could here any answer it would make me feel better.takecare
Are you sure that herpes is one of the diseases that keeps you out. I am not sure this is an official site but it lists the diseases tested for http://www.usimmigrationsupport.org/medicalexam.html
Unless herpes has another clinical name it is not on the list.
Hi monada,thanks for the reply i still appreciate it,i am just trying to get some ideas as i can't find any on the net,but im not idiot ok and i don't choose to have a herpes.I HIGHLY APPRECIATE ANY comments i could get,ur such a war freak person,i am just trying to get an idea but u seems only have a negative thought,i don't force anyone to give share their opinion i only ask those who are kindhearted people to understand this situation.This is a furom which appear when i search something so i tried to post if anybody can share their thoughts.And i am not upset on not getting a visa as i also tried to convince my fiancee for him to move in here,i ask him if he could just manage our family resort and start our own family here,but as he also has own business that he needs to take care off and he told me that for now he is not yet ready to move in.i am upset because i didn't know where i get it.my ex fiancee doesn't have it i confirmed already, my current fiancee i suspected but i am scared to confront him what i suspect,as he might mis understand me.our family Dr.says that i also possibly get it on the toilet.or some other thing.
Land of Oz
THANKS FOR such info and link,i appreciate your help,it helps me to get some more info.thanks so much.
Danny
yes i just get a confirmation about it from the dr.I AM WORRIED about that as i found out that theres no cure of it.even though it was common nowadays but still i was frustrating why i get this kind of disease.i don't want to choosed leaving my own country as i have business here too to take care off.My parents giving us the suite room as i am a board member at the resort but my fiancee still not ready to move in here.And filing a fiancee visa is the only way that we will be together.I love him so much i confirm it when his second visit here which i have a chance to get to know him deeply.
Danny has a point there, maybe you should get a second opinion. If you both are a little sick and pains in your tummy it could be that you both are just pregnant.
Most widely available blood tests for herpes have been shown in research to be inaccurate and unreliable.People can be easily diagnosed with herpes when they never had it in the first place.
As land of oz said its not on the list, the question is though is your man using this as a reason not to bring you to the US? is herpes just an excuse? sounds like it to me, if so you are better off rid of him.
The blood test is quite accurate for determining the presence of herpes antibodies. And if any person having herpes antibodies (simplex 1 or 2) (oral or genital) actually HAS the disease and can spread it (called shedding) whether they have ever had any symptoms or not.
60% of those who have the antibodies and have therefore been demostratably exposed to the virus, have no outward symptoms. And since these asymptomatic people are less likely to use protection, its believed that the majority of new infections are caused by exposure to them.
Rates of infection with HSV vary from country to country. In Europe, the highest rates for HSV-2 are found in
Greenland, at 57% among 20-24 year olds, rising to 74% in those aged 25-39.1 In Spain, rates are comparatively
low, ranging from 2-6%. Scandinavia shows a prevalence of 15-35% among women aged 25-34 years. HSV-2
seroprevalence in the USA has increased by 30% since the late 1970s, with the result that around one in five adults
is now infected.3 HSV-2 prevalence is generally highest in Africa and the Americas, lower in western and southern
Europe than northern Europe and North America, and lowest in Asia.
Rates of HSV-1 are generally higher than HSV-2. In Germany HSV-1 is found in up to 49% of those aged 6 to 16
years. 2 Young women (15-25 years) in Finland, Germany, Italy and Spain have rates ranging from 46-85%. In the
US, an estimated 66% of the population over the age of 12 has HSV-1 infection.
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