I had a Ukrainian girlfriend for 2 years until she returned to Ukraine. I loved the qualities that she had, which so many people mention on this forum. I would like to meet a Ukrainian wife in the future. Could I ask which method you would suggest? For example, using the services of this agency, attending socials as jetmba suggests or travelling there to meet people arranged through the local agency? I also wonder what percentage of ladies would actually leave their country, and why they would choose a foreigner over a man from their own country. Any help would be very much appreciated
I can't beleive my eyes!!! If not my husb, I won't even open this forum again.... and here we are.
20 years differece? wonderful. Look at Quasi. He is soon 50, me - 30.
And I tell you, most of western men under 40 are kids, kids, snoty kids.
So, no worries, woman is like car. You need it always NEW, LUXURY and PRESTIGE CLASS.
and don't forget to change every 3-4 years.
Do like Quasi, like an old Roman soldier: Veni Vidi Vinci - Came Saw Conquer
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So, when you meet your special ONE, it doesn't matter what method you use.
What you think you have to give to FSU woman what we don't have? that makes us to choose you?
resque from poverty and take us abroad?? - forget about. nobody want to leave for escaping, we all have opportunities here earn no less then in WE.
respect? - look at nooga. this is the respect 95% of YOU bring here. It's no different that what we get from local men.
So why we have to choose you and being asked in West "why you are here", "what are you doing here" or being told "you wanted to run away from your country" and from surroundings being treated like smbody low level while we deserve equal or even higher.
what you bring to FSU woman? You bring the variety of choice. we have you and we have our men. You think there's no local men ready to give money - ENOUGH.
if you, coming here behave as you are kings on conquerd land, what you expect, FSU women falling to your feet????
Any woman in the world wants security. Are you secure for us if you, coming here have no trust, no respect, no desire to understand where you are, what is this place and how to get and treat FSU woman.
DO you know that old say: you get what you give.
Each of you, look at yourself and see what you get. this is your answer why you are "decieved" and still alone etc etc
Those are very good questions Monada. I am not so sure that I have such good answers. I got started by writing to a lady claiming to live close to me. Who knows where she/he/it lived but it was a deception and a scammer which surfaced after a month when it ask for money to come to America calling from a Canadian phone number.
The style of writing was different than I had seen before and I liked it. It was not trashy like I had seen most American girls write. So I did some reading on the FSU ladies. Of course most of the literature was written by entities profiting from selling addresses or translating. The image they painted of the FSU lady was very inaccurate. You cannot judge a country full of people by one standard, each is an individual. I have met some very nice ladies there and at least one that was kind of undesirable.
What do I offer them that could not be obtained there? Nothing!!! But maybe I can be the first to offer one lady what she is looking for and has not found yet. It is not about dominance or competition and I cannot offer super human traits. Only an ordinary relationship. And I think there is still one lady there looking for that who has not found it yet.
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What's the problem, boys on forum? Does your total silence means that nooga is not the only one
and
your brain is cracked too?
I'm not even asking what else you have in cracked mode, my dear dear lovely lovely
nasfan6 (busy with his 40y.o. UA village)
beemer18 (still can't forget jumping in pool)
thunderdome (breath free, no commenta)
gladiator uk (oh, typical english caracter)
marticFS (you forgot "U")
jetmba (infectioned by virus of perfection)
boredffukka (he still thinks I'm "boris", hope not Eltsin)
nooga (teenager's spermotoxicos syndrome)
the rest for a while can stay in piece. Untill I notice your bright particular features.
Its true Monada the life in the Ukraine isnt so bad the social network is wonderful ,support from family and friends all around which has been lost alot in the west. What would I like to offer?
Friendship ,trust and a willingness to work together for a better future....She told me once she didnt think she would ever marry she is so strong willed and a Ukranian man wouldnt have it,,, this strenght of character attracted me even more.
I told my wife I was humbled and thats how I felt for her to give up everything to come back with me.
Overall there will be big changes in my life and I will have to change to accomdate her ,but im very looking forward to this, but i have a good family and some great friends who all have said they will help her and myself in the future. And we all have had relationships in the past but we should look at these as experience and past history and what do we learn from history? Why not to make the same mistakes again.
I sat in a bar with my wife at the time and her best friend and my best friend,,we just talked about cars ,they had no interest in what type of car etc we drove or even how much money we earned. I contrast this with ladies back home I have heard numerous conversations where they discuss what type of cars their boyfriends etc drive and what they do. I think as Monada says to show respect and trust and to be able to provide a decent life is what is most important.Her friends asked me what will she do in ireland? We will miss her so much when can she come?
I replyed she can come as much as she wants and she can do or work at what ever she wants. I will support her. Is there maybe a fear of being stuck at home and unable to work and so become reliant on a man for everything?
1. friendship ,trust and a willingness to work together for a better future....
2. to show respect and trust and to be able to provide a decent life
3. I will support her
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accepted.
Colin you're doing a good job of selling the finer points of why these ladies are interested in European men.
Keep up the good work. Hope things are going well with you and your wife.
If you were marrying an Irish woman - would it be perfectly okay for her to decide to sit at home and not work as you will support her if she so desires. Don't hesitate on this answer as if it is "no", then you are just buying your lady with "gifts and false promises" as danny-boy said and you agreed.
I certainly hope that you never did more than givve her a single gift (just one) and maybe pick a flower for her in the first six months you knew her. If you gave more than that single gift - by danny's definition you just lured her with gifts and false promises.
You agreed colin, so I hope you didn't break your own rules - with more than a single gift in the first six months of knowing her.