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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > Second marriages and when you as the guy don't want any more kids and the family orientated FSU women! Author Post aussieman41 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/4/2008 1:21:35 AM   Hi, I don't think this topic has been covered much here in this forum. We all here about the "family orientation " of FSU women and how they want to make family, meaning kids BUT what if you as the guy don't want to have any more kids because you have already had them from your first marriage and had enough of it, like myself. The fundamental problem with marrying a younger FSU women in her twenties or thirties or essentially being in her child bearing years is that you read, these girls want to have babies and make family and you as the guy are in his forties like me or older and don't want any more babies. One reason, I pulled out of foreign internet dating/intros was the issue over having more kids..I simply am firm that I don't want anymore as I have 3 troublesome teenagers from my first marriage who do crazy stupid things and give me nothing but grief and worry and I have had enough! So, I would expect and insist any younger woman that can have kids I am involved with have a norplant slow release contraceptive device put in her arm by the doctor that lasts 3 or more years and prevents pregancy and not the pill as I can't trust a woman to take it as I don't want babies and I don't want to use condoms as I hate them! Where does that leave the younger family orientated FSU woman with guys like myself..I know it sounds selfish but I don't want any more kids cause I have had enough and getting too old to raise them and put up with the shit again as I have enough of a problem with my teenage terrors! With what I know about younger foreign girls, especially from Eastern Europe/FSU its breed into them as family tradition to pop out babies and create family..I want the family but not the babies..no thanks..been their and done that..know its selfish but what do our FSU ladies in this forum think of my attitude to having kids and my NO WAY STANCE on it! colin Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/4/2008 8:34:45 AM   I have one friend in the same situation as yourself ,3 kids from a previous relationship and didnt want any more ,he has since married a Russian lady and is very happy even though he made it clear from the start he didnt want any more kids.The only thing is she has 1 child already so maybe you should go down that route? Its a little unfair to ask a lady especially when family is so important to them not to have kids...... I hear it from the mother in law all the time ,when are the children coming! aussieman41 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/4/2008 9:04:44 AM   Colin..the babies wont be coming with any woman I am involved with..nah!..no more kids..full stop..pure and simple, they are too expensive to raise in Australia and so problematic in this more troubled world of drugs and shit..the young teenage scene of today is far worse and nightmarish than it was in my days in the 1970s ( living in the 70s was great with top loading video recorders and better pizzas ), the world has changed for the worse and I don't want to bring any more kids into it..no thanks! aussieman41 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/4/2008 9:08:00 AM   Colin..the babies wont be coming with any woman I am involved with..nah!..no more kids..full stop..pure and simple, they are too expensive to raise in Australia and so problematic in this more troubled world of drugs and shit..the young teenage scene of today is far worse and nightmarish than it was in my days in the 1970s ( living in the 70s was great with top loading video recorders and better pizzas, even the Kentucky was better and they had this sickly lemon spread in a jar that I liked to spread on bread, creamy, buttery, lemon flavor! ), the world has changed for the worse and I don't want to bring any more kids into it..no thanks! Rag'n'Bull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/4/2008 9:28:06 AM   So it's that lady that must use a contraceptive and not the man, how male chauvenistic, get the 'snip' and that puts an end to any future problems. jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/4/2008 12:29:26 PM   Anybody else notice that every piece of advice danny ever gives - about lying to women about not having any money - to lying to them about having nuts snipped involves..... LYING!! But if you ask - he will send you a picture of him talking to a lady to PROVE he's not lying to them?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Rag'n'Bull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/4/2008 1:19:48 PM   Looking at dim danny's avatar he'd be better off with a brown paper bag than a contraceptive :) colin Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/5/2008 10:48:01 AM   I can agree with you Aussie its alot of work looking after kids and one more would do me. Id like to do some more traveling and kids to tie you down a bit.But I guess that will be a discussion for the future. jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/5/2008 3:48:29 PM   Both my exfiance and my current one had (have) the desire to have children. At age 28 (now) its not surprising. To be honest, I love kids and wouldn't really mind going that way again. My surviving son is 31 years old so its been a long time since the pitter-patter of little feet were heard around my house. And now I have the money to do it right. Something I didn't have when I was 19 and that son was born. (Spoiler clue here - the above paragraph contains enough information that danny might get a clue as to how old I really am. Of course, danny doesn't HAVE a clue in general on anything so I doubt that he will catch it. Besides it requires math and danny never went to school he tells us.) jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/5/2008 3:51:04 PM   I can see danny now..... "Lets see... he said he had TWO fiances and they are age 28. And he had a kid at age 19. So take 2 x 28 x 19 and jetmba must be 1,064 years OLD! MONADA Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2008 1:51:37 AM   nasty comments cs the topic itself in not for brain developed people. I won't comment for not to create another tribe of angry western men. the same people talking here: Danny, Martin Jetmba and Colin. and didn't find anything better then discuss problem of contraceptive. ======================== Are you normal, guys? Aussier, what happened? You consider yourself to be the brightest sun of Australia that all "family orientated" women want a child from you????????? I tell you now, untill you find some girl like that you will be about 70 y.o. and will be protected by nature, no need for contraceptives. Rag'n'Bull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2008 3:47:14 AM   I have not been discussing any problem of a contraceptive! Let Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2008 4:32:09 AM   If you don't want kids,the only solution is the vasectomy.No other method can protect you especially if appliance of method depends on woman. Ukrainian girls in province tend to marry early and have children in a very young age.Use of condoms was never encouraged because pregnacy was the goal.So not to want kids especially with a young girl(under 22) is offensive to them.You can do simply a vasectomy and search for girls over 27 years old who can comply with the fact that their childbearing age in ukrainian terms is over. jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2008 10:06:12 AM   I haven't talked about contraception EITHER! Though it is certainly a worthy subject to bring up so I will. Contrary to what Let suggests, the use of condoms is VERY popular and VERY accepted among Ukranian women. And 27 is NOT the upper limit (or even close) for child bearing in responsible Ukrainian women. MONADA Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2008 10:14:20 AM   who was talking then? jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2008 10:22:40 AM   Monada: Previous to my comment above, danny commented on condoms and Let commented. Not Martin or myself. If I am wrong please show me where I did speak of it any time recently. aussieman41 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2008 11:16:41 AM   No babies thanks..this thread has become skew width..I am not cutting the piping from my ball sack for any woman, what god gave me, I keep, norplant contraceptive in womans arm is easily reversible ( remove inplant, cycle returns to normal in 3 to 6 months and she can have babies ), male vasectomy is permanent, reversals are often unsuccessful. Cut out the male vasectomy bullshit, I love to see you cut your cocks piping, Martin and others! Rag'n'Bull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2008 11:29:50 AM   It's not a case of who was talking but what they were saying ..... but then some people are better at understanding and/or listening than others! MONADA Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2008 11:55:47 AM   it doesn't matter. Remember. You are talking to FSU woman. We have different perception of reality. All these lieing, twisting the truth etc. Rag'n'Bull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2008 12:18:04 PM   Who's tslking to an FSU woman? I've gave up, long ago, attempting to communicate with sh1t. Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > Second marriages and when you as the guy don't want any more kids and the family orientated FSU women!
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