Just curious what you guys think a close friend has been in contact with a Russian girl via email and they now intend to meet he told me at the end she writes continually in her letters 'I hope you can help me' This disturbs him as he says they havnt met yet and why would she say this ,I havnt a clue ..
Well try playing 'dirty'. Learn from which site she profiles, or what her email address is, then you write to her under an alias, change your name, find some pics for yourself off the internet, and if she enters into correspondence with you then you can tell your friend she's a 'clown'.
The obvious is to believe that 'help me' means something financial.
Nice to observe someone else post rather than Apal1 :)
Colin> I feel for him, no self-respecting girl says "Help me" unless it's financial or she's pregnant already... tell him to watch himself and write some more girls to meet when he gets there if he's bought a ticket.
It wouldn't hurt to ask her point blank with one simple letter asking "wtf do you mean help you?" Make sure she understand she has to answer the one question he has. And I'd recommend he write more than just her and let her know that if she avoids the question. If she doesn't write back so much the better - she's a headcase and too much trouble.
Agreed with martin again... use an alias, different pics, address etc and write her. You can use that situation if you don't believe your girl is honest about saying your the only guy she is writing. I actually found out sites will validate these claims if a girl writes and says it. In my case, it turned out to be true and amazing...
hmmm she seems okay has removed profile since they communicated and is very regular in her emails he has her 2 mobile numbers although he hasnt rung,he was dating my wifes bestfriend and althought he really liked her he deceided he could get for a better looking girl ! I disagree but for him the Ukraine is like a child in a candy shop haha.I still think the girls of Uzhgorod are the best!
I like how some guys want to operate on the somewhat shady side. When you lie about who you are,' how can you condemn the girl for the same thing? Maybe she's looking for love and that's the way he can help here. Maybe there is a literal translation problem.
There are scammers but they are not around every corner. Common sense can pick the scammers out from the decent girls. You can search and be straight up on who you are.
Ukraine is not really a candy-shop. Just picture Match.com with girls that don't mind meeting you so they can get gifts and be taken out to the nicest restaraunts and its very close.
>Nas no one said anyone is a scammer and not everyone of us operates on a shady side as you seem to think. Just said for him to watch out because its extremely rare for any FSU girl to request help. If I remember something about you, its you always jump to some wrong conclusion about something and then begin personally attacking forum members for not agreeing with your "opinions".