Bruce: All of these girls are individuals. Because the book says they will not ask for money as you are well aware of there are girls who absolutely will not ask for anything and there are girls who would take your last dime if they could. I am sure the two extremes are not all that are there but there are all stages in between.
Most of the girls are programed to think westerners have money peculating out of the top of their head. So when they get in a situation like your girl is in if she is legitimate the same cornered pressure will make them ask for help from the only place they think they can get it as makes others turn to prostitution.
There is a big risk she is playing you. If you send money you open the door for her to ask for other things. You have to decide if your piece of mind is worth more than your money and it appears that you are emotionally attached to her and will accept the health problems. In this case your best scenario would be to get your butt strapped on an airplane and go over and see her through this.
But either way you will need to make the decision and accept the outcome no matter what it is.
Land of oz, many tks for your in depth comment. Yes there is a hugh risk involved as I'am well aware. She asked me one time for money because of her illness. After I refused to send her a dime, she went to the bank for credit. I told her a good Ukrainian girl would not ask a stranger for money and not to ask me never again. I found out from a good source, her sickness is for real as she was taken sick while on holiday a week before last. The background check found she is for real. Yes I realize the only way to find out for sure is to pay her a visit. Of course I will indeed have to accept the outcome good or bad.
Bruce Lee, You did a search and now you feel good because she doesn't have a criminal record? Hey, why don't we start a new Bruce Lee thread about the most gullible guys on this site? :) Can anyone top Bruce or is this as pathetic as it gets? BRUCE - go look in the mirror, bring your right hand up next to your face, and slap yourself back into reality!!!! GEEEEEZZZZZZZZ - TOPGUN out.
'Out', in radio telephony, means message received, understood, and I will not respond further. Trouble is that this one keeps saying 'out' but keeps responding, topgun, learn your radio telephony and/or stop showing off to the audience.
Just behave as you would in any other situation. You dont go around giving out money to everybody you meet do you? Not all Ukrainian girls are the same :-)
Quote: "Nope, I have actually been married to an Ukrainian girl for 4 years :-) And im happy as I have ever been :-)"
LOL. Then you have lost the shirt, half or more of the house, most of your money and anything else you can think of. It is simply waiting to be documented. Too bad it is such a tough life being married to a Slavic woman. I think we die a long, slow and blissfully happy death...................
angina is the most dangerous illness the humanity has ever suffered from, and it definitely requires one billion dollar treatment:)))))
poor cripples....
topgun i beg your pardon! i'am not the most gullible/pathetic guy on here, lol, just a guy looking for every angle. lets stick to the facts please. nobodyknows didn't realize angina was that dangerous, lol! hey it has to be treated before it leads to a worse condition. tks to all for your comments.....
you only really get angina if you have heart trouble. And smokers get it. While it may not be impossible that she has got it, I would say a young woman wouldnt really get it for no reason
Angina (as in heart disease) is practically unheard of in a young woman and anyway it manifests as chest pain with effort/emotion/meals, not as a continuous pain. Does not make someone look ill except for the few minutes of pain, the rest of the time the person looks perfectly normal.
My guess is that she had (or pretended to have) angina as in sore throat. 95% of them are viral and don't need treatment, the rest are treated with Penicillin, which is dirt-cheap even in Ukraine.
The whole story doesn't make sense, looks like scam to me.
my olya would never ask me for money. she is too proud and wants to earn her own money. it can be a total nightmare trying to give her things! and that's after living with her for 2 months! /pete
Batman, Yes, I'am still in contact. She has to go in the hospital, so she says, soon. Haven't caught her in any lies but realize she could cover up many things as distance is a big factor. She's been hinting a little about needing funds to cover her illness. She knows were I stand on that issue, telling her a proud/respectful Ukrainian girl would never ask for money! I'am still in doubt because of so damn many scammers and all the possibilies that exist! Know the only way to really find out is to pay her a visit!!
my olya just once asked for money and wow did she hate asking... she asked for 100 UKP (i think) to pay for some rent... but that was after maybe 10 months of speaking on the phone... she is a very proud girl and normally doesn't take money even if i offer it... though as we will be living together in a few weeks it doesn't matter so much i guess. she even hated me paying for the rent for the 2 months before, that we were living together! lol! /pete