I just want to put it out there to someone and everyone...
The idea goes like this....
I think to solve the problem of finding the right girl is simplified in a way that you must have a type of formular. E=Mc Squared type thing...
Basically if your not sure about a girl run a formular or a bunch of tests or questions. thi scan be understood by anyone (it doesnt matter) angencies, people, scammers, its o.k. it is a way to protect everyone and solves the pain and worry factor fairly quickly. Save yourelf heartache and of course money or the other way round.
It could be quite comprehensive or simple, maybe like 30 questions and it points out yes or no type thing.
Almost like a Common code that we all know to fight back on all the bad stuff that has happened. Come on world ... we can take the power back.
So, I ask for everyone to write a idea, good or bad it don't matter. Something has to happen with this. Just so it becomes almost stupid for them to try anything... I mean ANYTHING.
So please write something here,, someone maybe start a site or something.
does the girl say/do anything that someone from your own hometown wouldn't do?
for instance, would a girl from your hometown ask for a loan or money for any reason before actually being your wife? no? then you shouldn't expect it from someone you barely know.
would a girl from your hometown post sexy photos on a local dating site? of course not. If she did you would probably consider her a whore. but put her on an international dating site and all the sudden she is someone you want to bring home to mommy.
just use your common sense. and if you don't have any, you are certainly welcome to post your situation to forums like this.
So you want to interrogate the lady(s) during the letter writing process? If you send her a questionaire of somev 300 questions in one batch then she's likely to think 'this guy is a jerk' and that's the last you'll ever hear of her.
But doing it by letter is all theoretical, as soon as the two people may meet they may hit it off straight away, no questionaire necessary, on the other hand she might have answered the questionaire questions perfectly, as if applying for a job, and it subsequently transpires to be bullshit.
Some years ago I was set up with a date whilst I was in Ukraine, during an 'estranged' period with my girlfriend, now wife, and indeed she was the interpreter present at that 'date'. Well there was no way that I was going to be interested in the 'date' lady but just to assure myself, and with free time on my hands and a sense of humour the next day, I set out a categorisation of perhaps 10 categories such as personality, language skills, appearance, could I live with this lady, common interests etc. etc. etc. and, let us say, marks out of 10 for each category, then for a total of 10 categories a pass mark might be 75.
Because the lady couldn't speak English I gave her the benefit of the doubt regarding her personality, and she still failed significantly to reach the pass mark, indeed I found the date so boring, well it didn't need to be that boring, to find myself playing 'footsie' under the table with (ex girlfriend) interpreter :) Later on ex girlfriend told me that the lady didn't have a good personality, she was boring, so I had over-marked her on personality and she still failed the pass mark.
As I say I did that points out of 10/100 was with a sense of humour, lightheartedly, but that was after an actual date, if you think you can achieve a compatable partner from sitting behind your PC at home then you really do need to get out more :)
ah... i was wondering about the "300 questions"! i was just picturing some girl opening a medium size package only to find it contains a rather long questionaire!
gecko is right, 100%. would a girl back home ask for money for lessons, doctors bill, etc, etc? or send you sexy photos? (ok, olya *did* do that (photo that is), but after the best part of a year of telephone calls! maybe she wanted to make sure i went to see her in the summer?)
a lot of guys seem to unplug their common sense chip when it comes to dealing with fsu girls. just make sure you have it plugged in and maybe add a co-pro or something... (sorry i was getting all techie and geeky then... lol!)