hi !
In continuation of Scammer Alert topic.
This message was forwarded to me by the manager of this lady's agency. They asked me to post this message as a separate topic, because the girl was really upset with this situation.
Im not giving any comments on this, here is the letter as it was written by the girl.
<<Hello my dear friends,
I was told about the existence of such a forum. It was really interesting for me to read all your comments. I didn't expect that I am so popular among you L I am very disappointed about this fact. Shame upon you! You are adult people!!!
Dear Thomas (A_Decent_Guy), it seems to me that you have nothing to do. If you wanted to find a scammer girl, you have mistaken and have chosen the wrong girl.
Dear men, do you really remember that I ask you for any money?!! That is new for me ! I don't know whom did you send YOUR money, but that was definitely not me! For me it is very offensive to accept any kind of material help from a strange man! Especially, if I am a self-made woman and I can handle myself with any difficulties! All I needed is a guy who would see not only the outside of me, but also the inside. I must admit that among you only few were really interested in me as a person. Others wanted only my body. By the way, somewhere was also written that I worked as a. err. model in Finland. Where did you see a model whose height is 1,66? I wrote that I have never been in Europe!
Dear Newbie, you are a lier. It's a pity. I know that every man has fantazies but your fantazies are dirty and are very unpleasant for me. As to the e-mail address you wrote in your comments... Well, my dear friends, I can say that I wouldn't be surprised if some of you tried to write to me there and received something rude in return. It is not my address, and the letter (mostly) is also not mine.
These are some parts of the letter I have never wrote!
"I know you can see in my stats
I have many mans writing to me but all of them are much too old with false sweettalk.
I get sick when a man much older than me write like I am some trash to
play with. "
"I went to work on the border of
Finland and Sweden as model and everybody was pleased with my
service."
"Maybe you invite me to come to your house soon. I will show you all the things a model can offer
(if you want too) and you will not be disappointed."
"I like how it touches my skin, like you will if you want to try my services.
You know darling "My name" I am a wildcat waiting for you to come and
get me. So what do you say cowboy?"
" it's the first time I write to someone abroad "
"with true love "
Why do you all believe unknown people? You have read my letters. I have NEVER asked for money!!!! I admit that I wrote to many men, but as I can easily imagine that you also write to many other women. Do you really think that it was pleasant for me to receieve letters which were meant for another woman? For example some letters to me started with: "Dear Marianna," or "Sweet Alla"! Or some even had questions like: "How are your children?" or "Is your dog better now?" For your information I do not have any children and I don't have any dog!
I was sure that you are sincere men but you do a lot of bad things behind my back. Now I see some of you from your worst side. I hope that you realize that. I didn't do anything bad to you, but you.... You made me feel so dirty, that I think I will never trust any of my thoughts and my fantasies to men.. Especially from other countries!
If you don't belive that the woman who can freely express her fantazies exist I hope that you will meet someday this girl personnaly.
Sincerely,
Olesja
PS. By the way, I have given my personal e-mail address to some of you. Does that mean something? It is real. And I did that because I trusted you. Now I regret it.>>>
Olesja, please do not despair. There is both positive and negative in our lives and both should be realized. One can not measure the life feeling of pleasure and happyness without having known the negative. I hope you will find the one you are looking for as you will now be able to cherish your find all the more. To alter your desire only leaves yourself empty.
JP
Regarding that Eddress you gave to some – just create a new one, and use the ‘old’ one only to select the wheat from the chaff. In fact this principle you should adhere to, for a woman advertising seems to draw all kinds of unpleasant attention, especially when she’s good looking.
Yeah, I did read the letter posted on this Forum. As you said you did not write the ludicrous parts, and this “Decent Guy” shows his true colours in this way I suppose, but others did not know that. One of the Con’s of a free forum I suppose, but believe me the letter as posted would hardly raise an eyebrow if being received, for there are some sick minds out there, male as well as female.
You must have considered the odds before you posted your Profile, undoubtedly a serious decision weighed properly. Now that you’ve received plenty from pensioners as well as heavy breathing Harry’s, on top of which being labeled as a scammer on this forum, you seem to regret your decision.
Why? Because your motives have changed, or because you got an unfair part of the negative action? I doubt the former, and my advice would be to just write off the latter as experience. Shrug it off, now you know what posting a pretty picture can invoke, or, in a way, take it as a compliment maybe?
Put it this way, if you would have been an ugly duckling you would not read this all.
Regarding my reference above to the ‘wheat’– surely I hope you might have at least some? If not persistence pays, I guarantee you there’s some nice guys out there. Some will find your profile, you just have to select the right one. He’ll be there, just bear wading though the dirt in the beginning.
Wish you well,
TD
PS: I forgot to ask – How’s your Ferrari lately ? ;-)
Sorry, when you sent the same letter telling many different men that you had a dream about them...same dream also...you are a scammer. Now that you got caught, you want to change the story and continue to play the game!!! Fool me once... and all that. My opinion doesn't change just because she is now sorry for what she did...she still did it.
newbie, I m not protecting this girl. You can look through all discussion and the previous one and see that I didnt post anything to justify her. When this happened we immediately removed her profile. When her agency asked to post this message I did it.I didnt even commented on this one. So why do you tell Im protecting her???
Today I have browse the forum and I would like to share some things with all of you. I don’t mind some feed back and opinions from you guys (no matter what country you from!!!!) but spare me from all bull shit about good or bad nations and where to find the best males / females. Feel free to mail me if someone likes to step outside the forum because some information in here seems to create a mess. I defiantly don’t agree with all the shit I have read about Latvia and the girls there. I have contact with many girls in Riga I met on Fiance and they are all very nice and honest. Some of the young girls have become my friends and we are sending short letters joking and fooling around like I do with my friends at my work. In my opinion the girls and Latvian people in general are easy going and fun to communicate with. I feel more in common with them then any other countries in former USSR.
About this girl that have become an issue for some of you, get a grip for crying out loud! Ok, I don’t know her in person or corresponding with her but could we use some common sense here? If 200 guys writing to her how would she be able to answer them all with a personal letter? On Fiance we can use a service called “My letter templates”, should we call that a Scammer service for western man? Maybe she just wants to be polite and answer all that contact her with a nice letter. Personally I believe she has this letter to find out more about who is writing to her and what reactions she can read from it. I find that smart and intelligent.
Olga! Let this girl back online and send her our apologies! If some of ou guys don’t like the way she is writing or feel offended by her reply then just drop it. After all we make our own choices right. Erase all this crap about Latvia and the girls in this Forum. It pisses me of that someone wants to offending my neighbours with lies and bad propaganda.
I don’t care what your reactions will be but frankly speaking some of you guys appear to be a bunch of school boys!
no, sorry, he's green :-)
Not with envy but realism, something Randy and others are lacking. Alesja seems rather attractive, so much apparently that she receives tons of mail. Even if she answers 10% then this still is too much to get personal, and of course she writes using templates - like plenty males do I bet!
Hey Guys - you didn't like her answer? Then stop drooling over her pic and start writing to others.
I have never suggested that any one is better or worse than anyone else. Countries, men, women, whatever. There is good and bad everywhere. But, I call it like I see it. When someone contacts you with letters about how "special" you are, how your "eyes drew me in" and "i had this dream about you", she's playing a game. For what purpose I do not know and do not care!!! When she gets caught, she blames us for contacting her!!! NOT!!!
Whether she stays or goes doesn't matter to me, but my vote is GO!!! When rules are broken, you pay the penalty.
And green...you may want to be careful of who you ask to step outside. Some of us may be Golden Glove winners.
Thunder...haven't drooled since i was a baby and understand the real world very well. Live and work in it every day. Been there done that and have written others.
NEXT!!!
No I’m kidding. You got it all wrong Randy, I don’t ask anyone to step outside like the tough guys do in movies... hell... I don’t even own a pair of gloves!... my hands are freezing :-) Don’t take it personal Randy, in my statement I try to make a strong point for all of us since I don’t think we have the right to judge the girl because of some pre written letters. Randy! Guys like you and me don’t mean any harm, am I right? I think you understand my friend :-) please don’t be angry on me. After all... it’s almost Christmas ;-)
For an example this little boy americaninrussia that tells me I’m full of it, full of what inrussia?! Why don’t you send a mail and tell me all about it? No need to waste server space with irrelevant annotations!!!
That’s right brother Thunder, full blood Scandinavian, where you from by the way?
Scandinavans are knowvn to know languaishes well I write in español
¿Puede usted darme direcciones a algún bueno y muchachas rusas
decentes? No soy un miembro del Fiance pero usted puede ayudarme
quizá a descubrir qué agencias están utilizando algunas de las
muchachas. Tengo gusto de Escandinavia mucho. Espero que poder ser amigos
is true what greenman writes. there must be some equal rules. Why cant the lady see the man state ore why is not man blamed writing hundreds of girls
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As I said...I am not judging anyone, Russian, Latvian, European, etc. I can understand your strong sentiments when people pre-judge and stereotype. Besides, I'm probable over the hill!
And I have received some "form" letters that I have responded to..."Hello my name is...",
"I am xx years old...", etc. Nothing wrong with that. But to sent out letters indicating you had a personal dream about that one man...and send it to lots of different men...WRONG, WRONG, WRONG. Not nice, not appropriate, not appreciated!!!!!
All in all, I still vote out. Then again, life is a democracy, not a dictatorship.