Could never get my head round why he/she was doing it.
I mean do guys really fall for this crap when it's so blatantly obvious?
It's like the spam you get in your eamil for herbal penis enlargment...is anybody buying this stuff?
I use sites that have "IM", which unfortunately I don't know how any means to switch off. Sometimes I answer the incoming just to stop the bleeping/flashing. There has been only one time that the caller was NOT African.
Recently, I started the conversation by typing, "I have mystical powers". When my African correspondent asked for an explanation, I typed, "The climate is very hot in your country." The dialog ended shortly thereafter.
Kirkland's story is extra fun, because almost all African scammers live in time zones within one hour of London time! To get the answer 4 hours wrong...
BTW, the one non-African IM caller was a real three-dimensional young Ukrainian crook. Very pretty, and ravenously greedy. She knew what time it was :)
Russian women is just a choice, like other choose Latin women, Asian women, etc. Taste is different for everybody. This site is dedicated to Russian women. Therefore, people here prefer Russian women over others.
Regarding age, for me it is just a number. I did not choose my fiancee because she is a young hottie (although she is), but I chose her among all the others because she showed maturity beyond her years and because her character matches mine better than any other girl I know. For me if a girl does not have the right character, I do not care how hot she is, because I am tired of spoiled brats.
I never put a limit on age difference, as long as it is not illegal and we understand each other well.
"I did not choose my fiancee because she is a young hottie (although she is), but I chose her among all the others because she showed maturity beyond her years and because her character matches mine better than any other girl I know."
Classic example of what psychologists call "back-rationalisation". I'm not calling you a liar, indeed I'm sure you consciously believe what you say. But the overwhelming likelihood is that you looked that little bit harder for the other desirable qualitative because she was young and hot.
If I had been after a young hottie, I could have chosen a much younger and hotter one. Unfortunately that one did not have the right character to be happy with me, even though anybody would say that I made a big mistake.
I beg to defer with those people (about choosing the wrong one because the other was a "hot and young angel" and I beg to defer with you about "back-rationalisation."
Anyway, it is MY life and I do not care what others think. I only share my experience because it might be helpful for others (and yes, call it "altruism" if you want more psychological terms) :-)
TRI_DAN I do not sell socials. I went only once and I do not think that I would do it again, even if I were still single. I prefer other avenues, although I still think that a social could be a good experience for the beginner.
I looked into jetmba's posts and he thinks that socials are the go.
That's he's choice.
He's been to 3, still single, thinks he's going okay.
I wonder when he will sit down and get out the calculator and put the sums together.
I think he should have brought shares in a brothel !!!
I think he will be on the socials for some time until he's retirement.
The guy seems socially dysfunctional.
My opinion about AFA changed in a very negative way when I started noticing that almost NO girl in Ukraine has an email account available (probably only 1% of Ukrainian girls in AFA have email), while 99% of girls from other countries (Russia included) do have email.
What a curious thing, isn't it? If you judge Ukraine (the country) by the pattern in AFA, you would think that Internet is a luxury that only 1% of the population can afford.
If you are looking for a Ukrainian girl, do not use AFA, unless you want to fork top dollars to write to an interpreter (because you will never know if you are actually talking to the girl of your choice). Why do Western men keep falling into the trap of the pay-per-letter scheme? That is beyond my imagination.
Just because of the scheme AFA and others play in Ukraine, I would not go to their socials again (if I were single, because for now I do not need to search anymore).
"jetmba is a guy that sells dating socials and says how good they are , but he has been single for 9 years i think "
I've been away a while - but I am guessing that tri_dan_t is dannyboy's latest iteration?
I don't SELL socials - but I certainly beleive in them. And knowing how challenged danny always was with math - I'm not surprised he has me single for 9 years - its actually a lot less than that. ANd I've enjoyed every minute of it.
When you attend a Romance Scoail you never have to worry that the lady you have been writing to is a fake and she will not show up. You never have to juggle women and have a definite back up plan (or be left possibly in your hotel room staring at the ceiling). You never have "dead time" between dates, if the first lady doesn't work out. Its very efficient management of the short amount of time one has on a trip. And you don't have to fall in love with pictures she send you - you have a real live girl (a concept that no doubt scares the hell out of danny) right in front of you.
"Out of three socials I had two girlfriends. They were young, beautiful, and very nice ladies."
FSULover Send: 01.10.2009 11:50:18
"TRI_DAN I do not sell socials. I went only once and I do not think that I would do it again, even if I were still single."
One does wonder if FSULover is Jetmba. The writing style is very similar. And as Craig points out Jetmba went to 3 socials, like FSULover before he changed his story.
Ben: There is one key difference. I read that jetmba is single, while I am getting married next month. So, unless I have an evil twin, I am just an FSULover :)
Keep quoting me. I like to be popular. Then I can show my fiancee how I can outsmart people in Internet. Have you checked my IP address too? :)
Good try Jetmba. If your going to post under a different name kept the story consistent!
PS its impossible to check IP address on here. And if any says they can its BS. Unless your have an admin account.
This is so funny!
Don't forget that I am also ragingbull, and maybe even nasfan :)
By the way, if you ever get in touch with an admin to check my IP address, don't be surprised if I appear to be in Hong Kong, for example. That is what proxies can do for you :) :) :)
I am the master of disguise. Everybody thinks that I am somebody else :)
Somebody else I do not even know, by the way.
I don't forget things. Thats why I recall you claiming to have been to 3 socials and a few posts later you said you only went once. Someone not trying to be someone else wouldn't make such a factual error as that. If your going to lie stick to a same story.
I don't need to chase IP address, I use proxy servers myself so I know they can show your in another country. Thats what I use them for to watch TV online.
Jetmba: Please allow me to be you this time. There is nothing I can do to change the mind of some people.
Ben: I do not know if you have ever gone to AFA socials. If you have, you know that One Trip = Three socials.
Therefore, both my statements are still true. I went ONLY once, and I attended all THREE socials for that specific tour. However, I did not fly with the group because I was already in the Ukraine.
Think whatever you want. I do not have to prove anything to anybody. I am not here for you. I am here to share my experience with people who may have questions related to what I know.
Now it is time for me to go. I must talk to my fiancee. I cannot make her wait.
Ok FSULover, I apologise. I must admit your style of writing is very much like Jetmbas and you are both in a small club of pro social advocates. Scaringly similar infact. Maybe you too have meet on the socials circuit :)
Ben2006, I remember reading Jetmba has travelled to Ukraine 3 times. So I'm guessing he's attended more socials then anyone else on the forum.
I think he will be on them for a while by the way he wrote he's postings,looking back, one person described him as 'A bulldozer in a coal pit'.
Perhaps he should get employment with afa, this way he can attend the socials and get aid for it.
:))
Kindly remove your head from between your buttocks before posting.
I have been to Ukraine eight times. Twice this year alone. In fact I just returned from my last visit about a week ago.
On only TWO of those occassions (not three) did I attend a series of Romance Socials. FSUlover correctly states that there are three actual Socials generally on any given tour. The first time I attended, in October 2003 - I went to two of the three actual Socials (meeting). In April of 2007 I attended all three actually meetings. SO I have attended TWO Romance Social events and FIVE actual Romance Socials as parts of those events. Got it?
Now you may place your head safely back up your rectum.