Hello everyone and thank you for keeping a very intressting forum! Now i would like to ask you guys of your experinces with webcam girls? Can it be true that many girls or guys who use scamdating now begin to use the body for sale on webcam on sites like camcontacts or naked.com? I got to know this russian girl who lives outside st pete who works in a webstudio. I know she gives customers her mail, phonenumber and it could be a way to keep them cuming back, but why telling them she loves them all the time. I think and of course she have many contacts in her mobile. Lately she been telling me her phone broke and she wants 300 dollars true western union to buy new one and then when i checked days later her phone was working, she told me she borrowed her frinds for a day and i checked again the next day hew son was answering the phone, phone works? Im feeling strange about this online relationship and she constantly asking me comming the her dam webcam show. if i dont she gets upset. Has any other guy, then me, had these kinds of relationship and fell in love with a webcam girl only to find out that she is actually some kind of scammer who is also a webcam girl. It feels bad know since i kown her for 5-6 months and now she wants me to come to her but i dont know. Maybe some of you guys could share your experince of webcam girls! One day i was in her public chat i guess you could call it only to find out that one of the guys there was gonna send her his netbook computer to her home adress. How smart is that lending out her home adress to other guys? If its really is her home adress that is. I talked to her on skype and sometimes she loggs in to her skype account even when she is in privite on her cam site. When i ask hera bout other guys she talks to she says "are u yelous?" like im disturbing her dam income... getting so tired of this...
Are you joking? What are you looking for? Do you want a real relationship? Marriage?
Everything you described about this situation is "wrong." You are like a little bug in a spider's web. If you care about yourself, break off contact immediately, and don't send/pay 1 cent more.
andy, are you stupid or what? your a customer not boyfriend. Of course in your eyes you are special and she only talks to you outside of the webcam show! yeah right.
Turn off your PC and go outside meet real girls. Don't fall in love with someone you have never meet in person.
Yes, go meet with her and make sure you bring a lot of money to spend on her. Take her to expensive restaurants, buy her expensive clothes, maybe you will get lucky once.
Then you go home and you can see her on the webcam again.
Well... im a love searcher but also a bit adventurer like many guys out there and i dont think im wrong. Im not an american though rather a eu citizen who sometimes spell wrong but im not a fool for that bear555. Relationships is difficult in many cases no mather the situition but long distance virtual relationships like this one is the hardest i think. So what drives me to this i guess it was her charm and the way she actully found my heart in a strange way true simple webcaming. Love is blind they say and in many cases this is so true. I still dont consider myself a fool for opening up like this here but after reading many stories here about travelling adventures in ukraine i thought my story could be intressting to even if my story didn't start on a dating site or love meeting travel.
So what is my history then.. im 35yr and have been using computers since early 80's and consider me easy going who like to socilize with people and share life experinces. I used the internet for the first time 1995 and who could understand then what the net would become. Today with webcam and the easy way of getting in touch it also a very simple way of getting into trouble. That is true about scam thiefs to.
I to starting out on dating sites and made the mistake of getting on as a paying member for 2 months on rbrides.com After 3 weeks i got hit by 4-5 scam missiles delivering 7-9 letters each. After a while they start asking for money, travels, water plumbing, computer and mobiles. They really was well written i called some of them but the girls where really bad on english so whats the point when i cant even talk them right? Some stories here on the forum says that these are paid girls as many of them did just hang up the phone on night and wanting me to call on early days almost like i was calling an office. Its sad english is not so well spoken in this part of world. They were all from ukraine and some from donetsk. I have all the names of them and pictures and some of those girls are really beutiful but i think they are models from a diffrent country, many of them look western. Behind this is of course a basterds who is wanting money from lonley love searching guys. I will try to publish the pictures of these girls, maybe somebody seen them before.
I will find a solution for my webcam adventure but i also hate making other people sad and just leave but i will be very careful, i just need to be a better master of my life and choose the right path in life. Its hard to see if the girl is a scammer or just plain poor girl as i know the times in FSU are hard. They both ask the same questions i think scammer or not. I think i need to follow my heart but im not a fool...
If you read enough stories on here (or if like some of us you have lived them), you may learn that even women who DON'T IN ANY WAY APPEAR SUSPECT, including women who have lots of good qualities and at times can be quite kind ...
can really mess you up and rip your heart out.
So if the seemingly nice girls are risky, what about a this web-cam diva who sends you constant danger signals?
The FSU (my personal opinion) is a very hard place. The economy is painfully like that of third-world countries. And although young people there were born after the hardest times, they grow up in a culture that was saturated in the most enormous pain and brutality. Most people struggle very hard, many in straight ways, and many in crooked ways. I could say more about this, but I guess the message is understandable.
I believe that every man has to walk his own path, and if you decide to forge ahead and try to make some real relationship with this girl, more power to you! You're guaranteed to learn, and to collect experiences for that gut-wrenching novel/screenplay you'll write some day. At the least, I suggest watching out for your physical safety, and don't spend more than you'd be willing to throw away during a weekend at a casino.
Have you asked yourself, whether you're attracted to this girl BECAUSE she's dangerous?
I wanna thank you durak, and many other guys here, for your input in this matter even if some of you like to flame me. I think i will get flamed anyway if i choose the next door girl, but who wanna live alone all life and take the safe lane everytime. Many stories on the forum describe the world as a wild wolfpack or the back garden of hell on earth. I dont feel any power of controlling lesser fortunate women who where born in poor countries. Its so complicated i think...
Yes there may be a lust for the danger indeed from my side but i dont wanna get robbed or beaten or scammed to death by some bastards from a country who dont even have jails. Some of you said that i need to grow up, i already did that but i dont have the experince yet from visiting a fsu country like russia. Some of you have that so that is why i came here, i think i spent many hours here reading many stories and a lot of hard language, but the world is what it is and we have to make the best of it.
I walked the line... until judgment day and then the dead will walk the earth right? A gut wrenching novel screenplay will be written and you will play the main part durak :)
(The FSU (my personal opinion) is a very hard place. The economy is painfully like that of third-world countries.)
Some FSU countries are doing very well for themselves, as an example my company bank account is in Latvia and Latvia is doing very well for itself, stop thinking of FSU as one coubtry and one economy, it's not!
I dont feel any power of controlling lesser fortunate women who where born in poor countries.
Andy it seems that you really do not understand the culture, the situation, and the people (especially the women) of the country you are interested in. I do know personally that most of these countries, Russia, Ukraine, Belarus) are not the third world like countries some would describe. And the women in them are not poor iliterate folks; just the opposite. They are true survivors who value their diginity and take enormous pride in their country. If you do your homework, and stick to meeting real women, you can go visit and have a great time and maybe find your love.
If you have no problem dating a woman whose job it is to put on an air of romance with many unknown men just to make money (could be called a scammer, could be called a prostitute), how will you know if you truly captured her heart or you are just another number?
Personally from your descriptions, she has raised many of the classical red flags to which the standard advice is to run away. I would suggest you do the same.
There are real women out there but you will have a lot of work to do to get them.
Think of a person who has no morals, someone completely relentlessness who will do anything and I mean anything no matter how much it hurts for a buck, that would be your cam girl. I bet if you told her you had two starving kids and you were losing everything including your house she would still suck every penny she could from you. Thats your webcam girl, I mean, really, she's too good to be true. I'm a bad guy I guess, I have fun tormenting these girls as much as they have fun tormenting us guys.
I once started a chat with a webcam girl on an a random social network site and she invited me to yahoo where we talked for almost an hour about bullshit, she said she was 22 and owned a restaurant called simply gina named after her, hahahaha. I told her all lies as I'm sure she was doing the same. She even said she loved me a billion times, said babe after every sentence, said she was a virgin and I should visit her so we could party and sent a thousand kissface emoticons, she actually seemed pretty genuine (The pics were grainy like she took them on her cell) She also said that I was sweet and asked how many girls come into my life: "100 I bet *blushing face* she said. Then things suddenly got steamy and she asked me if I wanted to see a naughty webcam for free but I had to vote for her to forward her lingerie modeling career (classic right?! haha) but anyway its free but there's a catch, you have to submit your charge card info to verify your age... I did not do this of course, instead I lied that I didn't have any money on my card because I dealt with hard cash only, she said we'll work something out and I said I had to go. So I left and created another fake yahoo ID, I added her and said "Hey babe, you remember me from the other day?" and she responded "no, where are you from" I told her virginia (I'm not from virginia) She was like "Oh cool, I'm from new orleans, how old are you?" (this was exactly what she said the first time. Then she asked "What do you do for fun?" same as before and then finally, the finale, get ready... "What are you doing right now?" (I bet some people had this exact same pattern of Q&A's, these girls aren't very creative) I responded, nothing I'm bored. and she said "Do you want to see me naught on my webcam, is that ok babe?" and I was like "HELL YEAH BABY" and thus the same cycle of her leading me to a cam site to register my cc# as before. haha. I was like "sorry, I don't do that" and she was like "what you don't trust me?" and I was like "F*** no bitch!!" and signed out. Another girl I ran into said these exact same things, when I told her I wouldn't submit my cc info she said "ok, theres one more option, we can meet and go on a date... but you have to meet my manager and give him $100 before we can see each other..." hahaha, wow, how stupid is this bitch, I guess not too stupid at all considering dumbasses fall for this shit all the time. not me. The gina girl said she was taking college for 5 1/2 years and majoring in hm... I was like, whats that? and she responded "Hotel management"... lol, more like harem management, she gets points for creativity though, she was by far my favorite!!!
Good luck man, but I can %100 percent guarantee you that your camgirl is all of my scam girls. I must ask though, did you ever actually see her on the webcam for $4.99/free?
Serious? lol. **Pimps in front, hoes in back, suckers in the trunk.
What part of that car are you riding in?? ...or are you standing on the side of the road?
Thought I'd stop in after a few years & see if the subject's changed yet... Nope!
It's gotten even more ridiculous! (didn't think that was possible)
uh, ah, uhm , hmmmmmm... mindwire, you are correct. however this thread is a couple years old and though as ridiculous as you say, robinhood just happened upon it like yourself.
why post on a thread that is 2.5 years old - the moderators do not close threads to new posts here - expecting the OP to still be alive?
Olga, Hans, whoever, why do you not have a tool to close a post? most serious and real forums have this luxury. or rather the common sense.
I have an advise to anyone who faces the situation where a cam girl asks to send money. Notify the team of the website right away, because there are here for customers. They will then close her account.