I have now been there, got the tee shirt and amazingly come out of it all after considerable tribulation unscathed but considerably poorer BUT with the Love of My Life. For the first time since I can remember I AM TRULY IN lOVE AND kNOW i AM LOVED IN RETURN.There is very little info on any Russian site about U.K Fiancee Visa but now I am in a position to REALLY offer the detailed help that you will need to get visa for your girlfriend. Think interrogation by the Nazis ( especially for your lover)and you will be near the mark. But now I know the secrets of the immigration officers at the British Embassy because he comes from my home town! If you are about to try for a visa then mail me at crashtheatre1000@yahoo.co.uk.Or post a message and I will reply as soon as I can, I only got back from Moscow today! I was 1km from the bomb in Red Square! In quintessence though, you will get a visa if you are both truly in Love and speak from the heart. I can just help any Brits who need a bit of a steer. Any Brits or Yanks who are just lookin at the moment, I can tell you where to go etc, all you need is a plane ticket, your eyes, balls and some heart! IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN WHAT i CAN TELL YOU THEN POST A REPLY OK.
I responded to the words of an American who uses this site frequently who said To just do it, don't expect someone else to give you the answers! HE WAS RIGHT! But I think you can do it cheaper!
All I can tell you Nynemc is to follow your heart?
I tried to be really honest and even radically confrontational about all the pretty profilesques when I wrote to girls on this site. I mean, I was not disrespectful, but very, very straight about what I am and what I want, romantically and practically speaking.
I found out really quickly (1 or 2 letters) just which of these girls had the stuff to stick by me through thick and thin. I opened my heart but also assessed the reality of a possible life together. I resisted the temptation to write lots of letters or respond to every pretty girl who wrote to me. It's tough I know because there are so many pretty girls aren't there! Until you know them, that is all they are though, just pretty faces. Of course I only responded to girls who I fancied but I also looked for something deeper and darker than that. Only one girl(my fiance)wrote a true response to the things I said and built a rapport with me which grew into deep feelings for each other. So don't keep writing if you don't start developing some kind of connection pretty quickly and if they don't speak English well, don't bother at all! ( just my opinion)
Aside from sexual chemistry it's impossible to develop an understanding and connection with a girl who cannot express herself to you, and vice versa.
Communication is the building block of a good relationship, but it also what supports it. I ten to shy away from women who just answer questions, like a robot. I like it when they tell stories, talk about their family, or just tell me how their day went. I do the same, share childhood dreams, future dreams, and make fun of the weather there. I don't like it when the letters seem like an interview.
I seem to be in agreement with eveyone today...maybe my own good news..BTW congrats to Crash.....I know the feeling....and i agree with a lot about what you said about the British Embassy too.What you have written is sound advice for anyone considering this route to happiness.But guys.......also take on board what Chip says too.........all too often some women Do respond like robots.I like the stories and dreams too......sort of expands their character a lot,and in my opinion often tells a lot more about the writer.
http://www.realcities.com/mld/krwashington/7452933.htm
link about suicide bomber at National Hotel near Red Square on Tuesday.
That morning we had planned to visit the Kremlin but ran out of time. Traffic on Sadovaya Ring was jammed for hours and hours. Zanna's family and mine were very worried! Very sad affair, 6 were killed and lots of people, many students injured and in deep shock
I am sorry to hear about the bomb in Moscow, this terrorist problem is a global problem, and my heart goes out to those injured and killed in the blast.
Hi there this is my first time using this sorce to find the lady of my dreams.
Everything cost so much right now is there any way i can find a lady without having to pay for their number or address. I am a student at the moment but my education is complete and I am in the process of moving and starting a new job. I would like to find true love however I cant afford to pay for some one to search it. If you can help thanks if not Thanks anyways.
The VIP Membership is like 30 bucks and you can send and recieve as many e-mails as you want. Think though, to go meet a lady, and this whole process will cost a lot of money, you are more of making an investment here, this is not lik e"match.com" where you just place an ad and they come frolicking, and you set a date. You will be corresponding with people from a far away country, but more so, you will probably have to visit there, and spend a lot of money for the trip. I do not know where you are, but from Miami, airfare to Moscow is $800.00, which is the absolutue cheapest I could find. Then you are talking hotel, food, gifts, etc. I woul dhave to say you would need to save at least $5000.00 to even consider a trip. I am not trying to turn you off, if you want to go for it, then by all means, go, but really think about this, this isn't as simple as placing a classified ad and setting up a dinner date.
some nine months ago i met a girl in one of the ex russian states. we fell in love and since then we managed (just) to get her a tourist visa which allowed her to stay with me in the uk for 36 days. we reapplied on xmas eve for another tourist visa for a period of up to six months but she was refused and i was told that they did not believe she would return, and that they felt she would seek employment. Niether of these things are true but there was no right of apeal. She can re apply on 5th Jan. Any advice ? I am currently waiting for a divorce so cannot apply for a fiance visa at this time but we are desperate to be together. we speak at least once a day every day on the phone and this is very expensive!!