Just thought I'd ask. What's this 'invitation to chat' all about? How's it different to receiving a letter? I find them highly suspicious, as I receive none for weeks, then lots all at once (for instance, yesterday I received 81, all at the same time)
Every one of them looks 'canned'. Any thoughts/advice?
Jonhill, invitations are a simple way for a lady to notify her prospective correspondents that she may be interested in starting a correspondence. Usually it's a short intro message meant to let men from her search range criteria know that she is looking forward to correspondence. They are not sent immediately but accumulated for several days and then sent in bulk from the server - this is why you receive 81 at the same time. And since they are just a short intro message - they may indeed appear like message templates.
johnhill. read what is said on the invitations page.
it is CANNED messages/intro from girls. they do search, type one messages and send invite to search results in bulk. they are different from letters as they are free to read for basic members. also, if you do not want to receive them , check the box to not receive them:) so if you do not want to read "canned" intros disable this functions and send letters and see if replies
Olga strikes again....Hellbound, she told me the same thing about joining fiance.com. I did join and I'm glad. I think there is
many sincere girls on this site and as on any site, the scammers. The invitations are canned but nothing wrong with taking a look
and seeing if there is someone you like. Did you think they were only writing to you?