"So many beauties to choose from but which are the real deal?"
Stop looking at the photo (falling in love with a photo?) and read their profiles. You should have an idea of what profile qualities you desire. And you should also know what your true and honest profile of yourself is.
"I guess you need to do the research to find out...time and money."
Yes, also don't start corresponding until you are ready to go there to visit.
Do any of them go for the first and best thing that comes along or do they do their research also?
Yes of course they are selective but the real ones have already made up their mind to look beyond their country's borders, so they have made this decision. The real ones will look for the best match of the man they seek and yes they will jump when that happens. They do not want (the real ones) to correspond forever. You shouldn't want to either.
"An important question for me is ...
Are the FSU ladies easily persuaded by words and promises?"
No You will find these women are true survivors, they probably do more in their everyday life than we do. They are educated, intelligent, and very involved. You will have met your match and you better be ready for it. When it does click, you will be involved in the most intense relationship you ever had.
Are the FSU ladies easily persuaded by words and promises?"
Again, NO. That is why you must go and meet with them, or better yet, just one (at a time). They will want to know all about you and they will want you to demonstrate yourself to them. The real ones won't just take your word for it. So in turn you must be able to demonstrate that you can back up your words.
For the real ones you need to be totally serious (and totally honest). They will not just up and leave their nice life and nice country on a promise; believe me, if they could, they would rather stay. But, they are missing that one thing in their life that would make it complete.
No You will find these women are true survivors, they probably do more in their everyday life than we do. They are educated, intelligent, and very involved. You will have met your match and you better be ready for it. When it does click, you will be involved in the most intense relationship you ever had.
what make you think all do more in there everyday life than us
what makes you think they are all educated and intelligent ,,, do you honestly think that
what makes you think when you click the relationship will be intense more than clicking with any girl from any another country . you all make these women out to be all perfect . cant you understand they are people , everyone different .some smart some stupid some nice some horrible so criminal . and anything in between . some like fishing some hate fishing . if you want just a gorgouse barbie stuck up educated snob with no charecter im sorry for you
Seaching...........I live the candy store,So many I've got complacent.They are real.But stay away from dating sites all posts tell you this.Get out and live.Travel to Russia and Ukraine.Try the free Russian sites
There is so much I can say about this topic that I do not know where to start ... the following is NOT a blanket statement, but a mirror of my own experience.
I agree a little bit more with Baron555 on this one, but not completely. Yes! Many of these women are very attractive, and they know it. Some of them even use what they know to take advantage of the man. It is the law of nature!
However, I noticed that they are very strong women, in every sense of the word. If the man gives them a chance, they will walk all over the man. I was told by many of these women that they are looking for "real men." A man has to be responsible, somewhat attractive for them, and he has to be able to provide the woman with a much better life than what she currently has. Otherwise, the woman will not dare go with the man and leave everything she values behind (unless she is just after the legal documentation to move to another country).
Also, all the women I met were University educated. Therefore, I kind of agree with Baron. But more than the formal education, what most impressed me is how these women conduct themselves, no matter how poor they are. Most FSU women I met have very high family standards. That is a big plus for me and the reason I am an FSU lover.
Like it happens in every culture, there are FSU women who will fall head over heals for empty promises, especially if the man is hot. But remember that there are men in FSU countries, so if they do not see you as an improvement, they will not pay attention to you.
A few FSU women I met told me this: "I am looking for a foreign man because FSU men only use women for sex and they do not care about anything else." Therefore, if your intention is to have sex with many beautiful FSU women, then you will only be more of the same and you will not stand out as a successful candidate for whom to leave everything behind.
But man, I agree with you, it is like a kid in a candy store, especially in the summer. My neck gets quite a workout every time I visit an FSU country (don't tell my fiancee).
And regarding the difference between Internet sites and direct travel, you cannot really know a person until you meet the person face-to-face. However, it was always my rule to establish a strong relationship electronically (Internet and phone) before I ventured all the way there. These women will let you know if they don't like you, and it is disheartening to travel all the way there only to find yourself all alone after the first "date."
Thanks for all of your input. There's a lot of great info written here.
How do the FSU take to men who are not as educated as they may be?
Say a tradesman or someone without a degree.
What about men who are much less literate?
Manners also...the west seem much less cultured. Where does that leave etiquette?
They seem highly educated as I believe university is a part of their normal education and the minority don't continue.
In my experience formal education is not as important as the ability to provide a normal life to the family. The man is supposed to be the head of the family and most of these women will want to be at home when/after they have children. So, although they may enjoy working, the man has to be prepared to support the whole family alone when the time for children comes.
In terms of manners, bad manners are not easily forgiven. A man is expected to have a minimum level of societal education. otherwise, why risk it?
Also, they may say whatever in their profiles, but appearance is important in two key areas:
1) If the man is obese, his chances of finding a slim fsu girl are minimal, or close to 0%
2) If the man does not know how to dress appropriately for the occasion, he will be considered culturally challenged.
Number 2) was an issue for me because I often dress with jeans, sneakers, and t-shirts. More than once that did not land well with an fsu woman. However, I was forgiven because I dressed better on first dates.
Don't be a slob when eating in front of an fsu woman or you will never see her again (unless you are super-hot and she is head over heals for you).
And one more thing. Do not show early on how much alcohol you can drink in one night. Even if she is also a drinker, drinking too much early on will bring bad memories and may land you at the curb.
Once again, this is only my experience. Your mileage may vary.
I'd add that you should eat a healthy diet; my RW has eaten at McDonalds once in her life. Imagine if many American women did the same?
Knowing how to dress is essential. Also knowing the proper manners is key. You offer your arm for the woman to hold while you walk together. You help her with her coat. You move the seat when you sit down. You offer a hand when stepping off the curb or the bus. You hold the door for her. You open and close the car door for her.
Hopefully everything your parents taught you when you were young.
Formal education is not as important as being literate...if you can't communicate through letters very well I doubt any FSU girl would be interested. Most often the two go together....highly educated=higher earnings. I would think girls would know this.
I do think you can make a large impression by the words you use. If you misspell words or make no sense.....makes for a big turnoff. Girl I am seeing now loves it when I speak to her about the politics and economy of my country and is really interested when we speak about her country's situation.
I agree more with being healthy/fit....could make you look much younger/attractive.
While dressing appropriately would be best, it is not the deal killer. It should be noted that
you do want to put your best foot forward at all times.
Alcohol is a big subject for FSU girls, whether it is true or not about FSU guys drinking too much(I most often see younger guys with beer bottle in hand)the drinking should be kept minimal. Again you want to make a good impression. Many times I just drink fresh juice...sok
I'm wanting to educate myself on the do's & don'ts, possibilities, impossibilities and the pro's and con's before starting communication. Hence so many questions. Hoping for a better success rate.
I'm inclined to agree with Baron and Beemer here. The women are looking for cultured and articulate men. They also do appreciate what you know about their country and it's history.
They like being treated like ladies. Open doors, pulling out chairs as Baron said the things our parents taught us when we were young.
Alcohol abuse is an issue with most women. They have to deal with it daily. They can find all the drunks they want in their home town. Being creative and hardworking will get you farther along with being who you really are. Inarticulate morons need not apply in most cases and those are the ones that give them, especially from the US that we are an uncultured lot.
It's a different world, feminism hasn't destroyed the females in the FSU yet, but it's coming.
They at least the one I'm married too appreciates the traditional roles that husband and wife play in our journey in life. Anything inside the home is her domain, the outside is mine, with the exception of gardening which she loves and I absolutely hate. Though I plow and till it for her. She works just as hard as I do. When you find the right one they will go to hell and back for you and all it takes is Love, tenderness, attention and kindness wrapped around being cultured.
I am sorry, I didn't give the appropiate footnoting.........don't want to plagiarize!!!!
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its so sad that there are people like the above . the world will be a better place when your gone