Ok its been awhile since I have posted on here. I have emailed many Ladies and have been emailed to by Many ladies as well. After months of emails I have narrowed it down to two ladies. The rest just didnt seem like they where that interested or seemed like scammers or just was not interested in them.
Now the two I have chosen. I am having doubts about as well. I am 39 , 1 is 33 and the other is 34 with a 11 year old daughter. I was able to get the 33 y/o email addy and we have been emailing back and forth from there. But I did a search on her address earlier and it came up in two different locations. 1 was from a work at home russian page. And the other was services as a translator. Does this mean this lady is a scammer?
Now the other one will not give me her email address as she wants to remain with her agency. She says that she cannot read or speak english very well and they translate the letters for her. This is pretty believable to me but I am just curious what you all think. We are setting up a time for RL meets in november. But I do not want to fork out the cash if its going to be a total waste.
scottyg9, talk to them on the phone. one who doesn't know english can talk with tranlator.
before you go to meet them you should know at least their real phone numbers. send them a small flower arrangments and ask to take photo of the delivery. use russianservice.com for that. if she doesn't give you her real phone number. just dump her.
Olga is right, no phone, no home address time to move on, she may not be a scammer but she doesn't seem real interested. I wouldn't put much stock into the two different email addresses. Though neither would give you a home address I wouldn't jump on the plane just yet, unless you just want to tour a different country.
"I was able to get the 33 y/o email addy and we have been emailing back and forth from there. But I did a search on her address earlier and it came up in two different locations. 1 was from a work at home russian page. And the other was services as a translator"
Don't see anything particularly suspicious - sounds like shes just tying to earn a living. Its quite common for fluent english speaking ladies on these sites to work as translators/interpreters or english teachers either full time or to top up income from their day job.
I can only offer that if a woman is serious she will do her best to share information with you. She will undertake the process of learning the language of the people she intends to live among.
My lady couldn't speak word one of English in February of this year. Now I can call her cell and have an intelligent conversation. She can write letters without the use of the dictionary. And she is very proud yet humble of her abilities with the English language. She still has a long way to go. But in 8 months from nothing to where she is now is truly amazing. In the beginning she used an online translator to write. Now she can free hand a letter from work.
Another lady I met started writing to me with the use of a translator. It was not perfect but A+ for effort. I took a chance and met a few who did not know any English. Many have said if she doesn't speak your language do not waste your time. I'm glad I did not follow that advice.
devil is right that just because a lady has two emails does not necessarily mean anything.
The lady who wishes to remain with the agency: Grant her her wish and move on.