Absolutely, so if a FSU girls profile says kind affectionate and not materialistic she ticks the boxes also if it says non smoker and drinker loves to travel and has no children also. I would say there are a huge number of profiles that say all this but infact the women have never left their country drink and smoke like a sailor and have several kids by different fathers and are unempoyed whilst claiming to have a univercity education. Yes i would imagine there are not many profiles like the one i mention but a lot of women who tick all the boxes on the negative points that i mention. My point is it is par for the course to dress themselves up with inocent butter wouldn't melt profiles. Getting past this, the only way to find what the girl is like is to meet her. Of course finding out your educated childless non smoking without a drink and drug habbit girl is a liar can only be found out after meeting and of course after spending 1000s on travel and correspondance. Yes really it is all my fault that a vast majority of profiles are false and alot of the women are bullshitters.
Isnt life ironic. Its the drinking, smoking, screwing around girl that you are probably going to have the best time with but it is the staid conservative type that you want to marry. Thing is that even visiting you may only see the facade. You get to decide if there is some chemistry but its difficult to get to really know what lies behind that person. In your own town or city there are often mutual acquaintances you can use to glean their background on.
I certainly did not fail. I have married a much younger, pretty, well educated English speaking girl. Is that bragging? The dream is still alive! It isnt easy though and I was fortunate to be able to spend 3 - 4 months of the year in the Ukraine.
Just think the date game is much more complicated than a well written profile would suggest. I have learned this the hard way. My point is on the profile side of it is it is not easy to tell the real thing from a girl who just wants to play you. As for what the women are actualy like, they are no different from any other women. Myself i think i will change my profile to ex Hollywood actor and former astronaught and also major shareholder in microsoft, after all if you cant beat them you may as well join them. Bullshit baffles brains as the saying goes.
I did not want to get into this from the start. But I do have something to say. It would take quite a while and a lot of space to share why I chose to look into FSU countries for a woman. As someone who works quite a bit and does not go to bars looking for women it seemed using an online dating service was a viable option. I'm talking here in the states. I tried a few. And it is amazing how many 40 year old women only want to date men in their early thirties or younger. And of course there are the gold diggers. Of course I blew it with a knockout rich lady. But I just couldn't see myself being happy with someone who was more concerned about appearances than real life. I've met people from Texas to NYC. Thing is, nobody wants to give up their life and move. I was corresponding with a stunning airline stewardess from Florida. Everything was great. Except if I wanted to be with her I had to move to at least South Carolina. And the stories continue. And for the most part, many of these women had a lot of baggage and carried grudges with men from the past. And of course you were compared to them. And pretty much to a person they were all materialistic.
Why not try to find someone who has sensible values and real life experience with not having everything handed to them on a silver platter? And who is in decent shaped and takes care of themself for only one reason. Sure there are just as many who have gained influences by knowing they are hot. But there are also very good looking ladies with good character and morals that want nothing more than to have a good man. And that is why I started looking 'over there'.
One of my recent experiences with an american lady -- she went totally nuts out of the blue one night. I just saw her a week ago. She told me she had to break off an engagement to a man because his daughter didn't get along with her children. But what she had to say most importantly was that he was a doctor. I'm thinking - lucky man. And I was with this woman just over a year ago. All she wanted was a doctor, lawyer or a high profile proffessional. I grew tired of the BS. Hence the lure of FSU women. Give me a simple woman who wants nothing more than to be loved and to love just for sake of it. so gid-doe what do you think?
Julian, I had a similar experience in the US and decided to look elsewhere as well, big mistake! The women you describe are now called cougars! I know a 40 year old woman who married a 19 year old boy because she wanted to have strong siblings, go figure! The FSU, in my opinion is not a viable option anymore, maybe 10 or 15 years ago you would have had a better chance. Long distance relationships seldom work in any country, so keep looking but in your hometown! Try to be creative about how and where you meet the girls: biking, skating, at the gym, horseback riding, in a language or cooking class, dance lessons etc. Don't tell me that you are so busy that you can't do any of those things? Believe me, you will get your money's worth and learn something in the process, instead of wasting your money on FSU trash, because that's all you'll find now.
Gib Doe is a failure with women at home and abroad, but because the women of the FSU didn't fall at his feet (an he believes they would have 10 to 15 years ago) he calls the women trash and they entire place a "hoax".
His message to the forum is simple. Its "Woe is me, I'm a loser, and I blame others."
"julian you talk just like a dating agency promoting fsu women(dont(') beli(e)ve everything (a) date sites tell you ) your <sic> in for a rude shock once you realise the truth . i dont know if you have or havnt(n't) . but it seems to me you have spent no time in the country . " dansing.
BTW - since they are small and I can't make out the pics, are they photos you took diving? Very cool. I hope to have an opportunity to make such photos myself in the next year. Had to cancel a trip to Hawaii a week ago. But maybe I will get an opp to dive in Aussieland someday.
You are correct. I have not spent any time 'in country'. And since it is Veteren's Day that would relate to references of the Viet-Nam war. But no, I have never visited my lady friend in her crappy cement block apartment. And to give you ammunition, she is working on fixing it up before I visit. But I told her to not waste her energy. I have lived in extreme conditions in freezing cold with no plumbing etc. Having to sh*t in a hole in the ground...
I am not talking like a dating agency. I am only talking about one person. I was not promoting FSU women or validating the entire web-date-russian-women-dot-com experience. I was only stating that I met someone I know is a very cool person. And very real. I was merely stating my reason for attempting to find a woman there. And I believe if you look at my initial reasoning, it is sound and has merit. And also that I believe there to be real women there with a true intention of finding a man. Whether it is in another country or that they get very lucky and discover a good man in their own country, there are real women there looking for a husband.
Julian, Danny is the resident expert on failures. He uses this forum to attack people. Especially Americans. Funny he claims the Aussies hate Americans and I had two friends just come back and said they had wonderful times with the locals. Not anything like danny claimed.
It seems he trawls the forums looking for people to attack. Especially the ones who have been successful. Danny is no expert especially when it comes to anywhere in Ukraine. The only way Ukrainian women are writing him is they know he's an easy mark for a rip off. They'd boil the simpleton down in a minute.
He's the resident expert on Chelny, which he claim in emails to me he was going but never left Thailand or Oz. Oh I forgot Israel also. He crawled the internet trying to find dirt on me, then got lucky with Martin. Though I don't think he got lucky he had help. With the exception what he found wasn't news. At least to the people who know Ukraine and their laws.
Danny wasn't getting married, then after an unfortunate incident he was getting married. Danny just tries to be the studly trailblazer, when all along he's just like the rest. He's nothing special. He's on dating sites again, just like he was before. His whole story is bullshit.
Julian keep doing it your way. You'll be fine as long as you keep it a one on one.
Oh by the way Danny, have you ever been to Ukraine? No? then you have no experience or knowledge of what the hell you are talking about.
"DD" is happy to attack others, indeed his only claim to fame is that he has travelled to Russia, none of the other FSU countries, just Russia and at the mere sniff that another forum member hasn't yet FSU travelled then DD will jump on that individual and flame him.
And should an individual so much as mention that he has bought a lady a gift, even a bunch of flowers or a box of chocolates, then there is DD again flaming that individual for "wife buying". This from a guy, DD, who boasts to be an international jet setter, business class he boasts, sails his boat across oceans etc. etc. etc. but, should he ever find a lady, refuses to even consider supporting her parent(s) or whatever by even a few dollars per month, we have names for such individuals ..... misers!
No, he only spends his money on himself, if any lady should get a gift from him then it's something, being a carpenter, he will have made himself and from scrap timber, i.e. at no cost to himself.
So many of you post regarding Ukraine and there is DD again, as nasfan points out, DD has never set foot in Ukraine but he's under the impression he's the world's leading authority on Ukraine. DD claimed to be living, with a lady, in Chelny, Russia. Funny though because every time, and I mean every time, he was IP tracked he was tracked to Australia. He posted a few months back that the next day, he was going "home" to Chelny, well tracking him he posted that next day from Singapore, probably during a transit, then he was in Thailand for a week or so and then he's tracked to being back in Australia again, and he's made such a big deal out of me telling an untruth, to quote nasfan again ..... "Way Too Funny" :)
And should I refer to myself as "Australia Man" because that's another of his fantasies, another of his lies, that I am "Australia Man"!
Sounds like you haven't traveled much of Russia either Danny, let alone any knowledge of Ukraine at all. Not all Ukraine is poor, When was the last time you were in Kiev, I forgot please remind me, Or Yalta for that matter, Let's try Odessa? None are poor places. Since you don't know jack, you don't know what poor is.
There are significantly many poor places in Russia, but I see you haven't traveled there much.
So your information is a bit incorrect.
Again like your Youtube crap proves little, a handfull of videos doesn't prove you lived there. You spend a lot of time in Thailand, that tells me alot about you. Also Russians don't need a Visa to go to Thailand since 2006. Unless you're not seeing a Russian??