When I first saw the friend of Anja post his picture with his child, I thought.,,, how long before his child becomes the issue. I thought it a mistake of him and you have taken the bait again. You have learned how to find and make your own arrangements, learned by your own warnings and still you are without any kind of self control and have showed your childish ways of thought. Regardless of my thoughts of his mistake in judgement yours is beyond reason...... Now start on me again. You are loosing all credibility for your argument. Yes, it is true, the whole world is madly in love with Anja and we are against you. There is nothing we can do about it, we are under her spell. We happily accept it, what else can we do? I sit by the computer waiting for instructions where to send my money, but she does not call.
u791106 wondering maybe you still on vacation or did you now crawl back under your rock and gone from site forever... Yippee doo dah!!!
We're not done here yet so come on out from your hiding place back into the spotlight where you like to run your mouth and answer some questions...
I have nothing to tell to you ,specialy not your stupid questions . And you are so stupid to take her name as nickname .So she is very easy to find on google .You bring her also back in the spotlight , i think you are not so cleaver .:-)
Naturally Anja is very upset that "such bad things are being written" about her, and clearly, and I think most people would agree that it takes a certain type of man with a somewhat bitter and vindictive streak who after rejection by a woman continues to persue her in this way, writing about her as you have, bringing her name to the fore and all in the public domain.
Regarding your visit to her... May we remind you, that you were in control... You were aware of the arrangements and could have changed them if they were not to your liking... You had your opportunity in real life with her, and it didn't work out for you both... END OF.
Of course she has no real right of reply on this site. But she knows what is going on here, and feels shocked, extremely upset and utterly defenseless. She told us (with reference to you in particular):
"And I will explain to you that the man who came to me wanted the best apartment in the centre that's why it cost 80 euros, it was really good. As for the taxi, you can see prices in Internet it costs 200$ or 150 euros . As for the money he wrote that I took at ATM, it was only once in the shop, he was going to pay for food but he was too slowly and could not understand how much to pay in Belorussian money so I suggested him to help because a lot of people waited."
This is Anja's summary of events: "I can't do anything with a man who is so against me. Maybe it would be better for him if I continued to give him hopes but I don't want to do it because I didn't like him"
Clearly you are unable to substantiate your accusations against her, so we take some comfort in this regard in the knowledge that by and large they were unfounded. Once again might I suggest we draw a line under this and have closure. I think it would be the correct and noble thing if you were to make your apology to her on this site for the hurt you have caused her in order to draw this matter to a conclusion. Please accept our thanks in anticipation of this...
First of all , i never asked for the best appartment in the center . If you want i can copy and paste her e-mail where she offered to search for an appartment .If you want you can put the link of the appartment here so we can see how it looks like and what the price is .I have photo's of the appartment so do not send the link of another appartment .And look what you can find for 80 euro (120 dollar ).
For the money , that is a lie .It was on a bank automat where it was dark and we where allone .Nobody could be so fast to take that money .She had the money and alwayss she paid with it .I was also wondering where we buyed food there was also an ATM and i attended it to her .She told it was only for locals .Did you ever heared of an ATM with the mark of visa that is only for locals ? Why did we go to an empty dark place to take money , if there was an ATM only a 100m from the appartment ?
I have also not a problem with a rejection , but if you want i can copy and paste a few mail's of her after the meeting .That is a part of her game , sending a few e-mail's and sms
just to make it more real .
And i have to apologize , what a joke .And i have no need of your and her thanks .
I wanted to stop , but every time you accuse me of lies i will counter them .
I am just the messenger .
Well next time you arrange to meet such beautiful woman DYOR and book your own apartment... call your own taxis... be vigilant at the cash point and make sure you pocket your own money. And most of all be sure not to spend any of it on anyone else other than yourself, and oh yes... please don't expect any help and assistance from the woman you met in a strange and foreign place and went there to buy her love or maybe you thought she would be in love with you at first sight without courtship or flirtation.. Who knows you might get your nuts bitten off next time, then there would be a real problem for you, something more entertaining to write about. You seem to have become the perfect example of the archetype man done over and pugnacious after such a meeting.
You see I don't have these problems with her, I allow her full control, she organises everything to the finest detail, if I question her about any aspect she answers in full, she has nothing to hide from me. But she has 100% respect for me so situations don't arise. We trust in each other fully, yes it's a two way thing, a combination of all our life skills and emotions.
A real man is hard to find for these women, you really need to try and understand them and their situation, perhaps take a step back from things occasionally and analyse the situation, refine your approach and strategy instead of being Mr offended and Mr pissed all over all the time. And I remind you again DYOR...
I have many women friends from Ukraine, Russia, Belarus and all over... the list goes on. If I proposed to any one of the women I have acquainted, most of whom are labelled "scammers" on dedicacated sites, and most for no good reason than their visitor was not the man the were looking for. They are all good company, beautiful people, all with their own story. Most of them proud but poor. Then I would be married next month or sooner. The secret is to recognise when you have found the right one. For me right now Anja is the love of my life, we both understand each other and converse on the same level, we are very happy and life is good for us and we don't make problems for each other, we compliment each other and strive for the same goals.
There exists someone, somewhere in the world for every and each one of us. You need to move on and stop living in the past. Go out there and find the right one for you... Wish you good luck in your search...
Jeezes , what a lucky guy you are .But you forgot to ask for the e-mails i can paste and put the link of the appartment here .She must be fallen in love with you very fast ,knowing 2 month's ago there was another visitor ( that we know ).When is the marriage ?But i asking myself if you are so lucky couple why is she still registered on datingsites ? But i don't want to disturb your luck now and i wish you all the luck , you must be in 7th heaven .
Damned , you are so lucky guy .
I can add one or 2 others to that list that I have met from Fiance site. There is a particular Moldovan lady who is still on this site who was unbeleivably obvious in her mission to part me with my money.
First thing she did on meeting was try to order FAR and away the most expensive wine on the menu. This was just the start. There are many ladies like this out there and Fiance site should be removing these ladies rather than perpetuating the scam!! I would trust these sites rather more if they actually took actions following mens experiences of these scams.
There is also a shameful Kharkov agency that tried to charge me $40 an hour for translation fees with a lady from Fiance site when I was there. Yea, right, I was really going to pay that. I would not recommend anyone to go out there to visit the ladies who are connected to that scamming agency!!
Yorkie I'm a bit confused? You say Fiance site, which site is that. Are you referring to here? If it is report it admin they will remove the problem agency. Your claim is very vague and I'm sure there is more than one agency in Kharkov.
U791106 just because she's still listed on agency sites doesn't mean a thing. I know of more than one woman who has been married for over 2 years and she is still listed on an unscrupulous website. So being listed on sites doesn't mean too much.
Yorkie67, the problem is, most, if not all agencies are only in it for the money.
I understand the agency in question when you say fiance site, some idiots don't.
These type of people will still be on here in 10 years time and still wasting money.... but then you have martin, he's making money from being on here.
Try a site called mamba.ru.
I once used this site.
The letters are completely different from all the other sites.
You will see the difference.
best of luck.
I think this counts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The judges will decide whether or not you have replied based on circumstances that you have posted a reply to something that was before the odds were set. Yet no-one looked into the odds based on you replying to an old post from another thread. Whoever bet on this being the one would have won a billion dollars. Sneaky. Are you sure you are as stupid as you portray?