OK, this is new. I sent an initial letter to a lady about a month ago. Just received a reply saying how serious she is, not a gold digger etc.... Speaks a little about her young son, tired of doing everything alone and we can meet in person to see if this is a reality.
Then she closes with; 'I feel attraction to you and if you are very serious about me we will continue our communication further, we will meet with you in real life and we will become happy!'
OK James, fire up the handy Lear jet out back!! I'm flying to Russia to meet a woman I saw a picture of(hands & knees position in revealing wear & an "I want you' look on face) & ONE 5 line letter!!!
Lady obviously has a very low opinion of 'murrican' men or a very high opinion of effect of her alluring photos. Likely both!
This is absolutely the boldest to date. Usually they make comments like 'not interest in long letter writing' before they ask the 'when can you be here?' question. This lady obviously keeps busy & goes straight to the point. I'm tempted to go to an airline web page & get a flight arrival time to send her. Think she'll have a cab waiting to go to the most expensive restaurant & discuss how soon the arrangements will be made for their 1st class on the flight taking them to the U.S.? She does believe in going straight to the point!
Kharkov it is. You are right. Is this a lady you know, corresponded with? Her photos, poses etc... is enough to get the old blood pumping & blood pressure to rise 20 points or so!
Gets right down to the point though.
No, it is the way that agency operates and quite likely you are not dealing with the lady. A way to know if she is at least real is to spend the 10 dollars and have a video made for you you personally if you are on Fiance.com. Still, I think it is unrealistic to write one letter and then travel half way around the world. I don't need to know which lady it is, you will get the same request from nearly all the ladies from that agency. Write to a few other there and you will know what I mean. Look for a red wall background in the photos.
There it was. a bright red curtained wall or backdrop. The leopard skin for the various poses was a nice touch. What is it with leopard skins & the Ukraine? I've seen them on the floor to pose on. On a wall as a backdrop. As a throw over furniture. There's a lot of polyester leopards naked right now.
No Rodan, there is no real interest. I need a couple more warm touches more than poses intended to send some poor man in a lather & jump on a plane in a testosterone induced hunt. The well proportioned butt sticking in air with nothing but g-string & a look of invitation on face does cause your photo flipping come to a screeching halt though. Good luck somebody.
I am new to this sight and net dating, and don't have your experience, I hope you can answer a question for me, one lady I have been chatting with mentioned
In her not so perfect English that the agency had a policy that the girls must answer all mails that they receive, surely this canít be true, how would they benefit,
but I have noticed that some of the girls just chat about a load of nothing, I hope you can give me some feedback
PS and i think the lady you are talking about is one of them.
If the girl told you this, then I'd say this is a pretty rare confession. Agencies often get money per letter, when operating as part of Anastasia, Natashaclub or the Angelika Network. In these cases, the girls are often on commission. Some of these same agencies do also operate through fiance.com, but they don't get paid nearly as much for actual correspondence (so it isn't as much of a conduit for scammers), and they do remove girls and agencies that are shown to be operating dishonestly (I have personal experience of this, so can vouch for them).
If the agency found out what this girl told you, she'd probably get sacked. As I say, if she's on this site, they'll remove the agency, and scam agencies can be prosecuted for internet fraud. I'd say you'll be getting an email from Olga (moderator on this site - I think scam agencies call her 'Terminatorski') :)
Welcome to the forum - don't let the 'children' put you off, there is actually some good advice here
Thanks for your input, and insight;Terminatorski LOL, I am and Englishman living in a small town in Norway and have met many ladies from the Ukraine on my travels, many have married local Norwegians, and my hairdresser is from Yalta. I must say after living in England and many other countries I have nothing but positive things to say about the Ukrainian ladies I have met, there class and personal hygiene manners,
Humor, and lust to make a good life is just a breath of fresh air, but I know there is good and bad, I think the best thing is just to go and spend some time there and see if good old fashion eye contact and
a smile will work, I am hoping to help out with an Orphanage in Zhytomyr in Feb and can spend a few weeks studying the local attractions. Anybody have any tips on were to go in Zhytomyr ?
I'm also new to this forum and hear a lot of good stuff so far now I don't feel so bad! I recently signed up with "UALADYS" I'm sure most of you have heard about this site already?? Anyway it's gone by a bunch of different names, raladys, confidential connections..etc. I don't have much advice for you guys since I'm also pretty new at the whole "international" dating scene but I will give you a brief story about whats going on with me now.
I've been sending letters to several females (and yes) I notice in a good portion of these profiles many ladies put in the same description of what they want just slightly worded differently. Anyway I sent this lady I've been talking with a box of chocolates and it sounded like a good idea as in one of her letters she mentioned she loved chocolate. I waited probably for about 4 or 5 days before I finally got an answer about the chocolate it was a very brief 5 line comment, nothing that sent up a red flag...yet. But then on the 16th or 17th I got another letter from her and get this, IT WAS EXACTLY LIKE THE ONE SHE SENT TO ME IN HER FIRST LETTER!
Now I haven't been on this site for long but how can I know if what I'm getting through the letters isn't one of the Staff members? I mean I realize at this point I've blown a few bucks but is there a sure fired way of getting past the scam and actually knowing if these girls are writting to us or not??
Real letters that are translations tend to be a barrage of short sentences and questions whereas "fluff" letters originating from agency staff tend to be more wordy and grammatically elaborate. I'll see if can dig out a few examples later. One giveaway of fake letters are questions like "what does love mean to you ?" " what is your typical day like ?", I've never met a genuine lady who ever asked such trite questions.
Elenas Models...mmm what a great idea.
Unlimited emails from only $16.50 (thats 'from' by the way)
I pay less than that for a broadband connection. Why should I pay 'from' 16.50 to correspond with an imaginary female.
I can stick a profile on Yahoo or Skype for free.
Fine Kirkie. I paid $99 for access to 50 emails or addresses. Never gave a dime more and corresponded with many very real women. Obviously your luck has been different; my experience is that the issue usually lies with the man and not the woman.
Of all the sites over the years that I have "fished". I found Elenas Models to be the most difficult to attract the ladies attention on, they were definitely more choosy. I attribute this fact to them being more sincere about whom they corresponded with. I think Elenas Models have the least number of scammers on their site than any other site I have been a member of.
Tnx MC. I can only speak for my experience, which is very little since I found a bunch of very real women right off the bat and eventually became attracted to one, met with her and now she's upstairs sleeping in our bed waiting for me to finish on the Internet.
Real women being more choosy? Well yes dudes. If you are a dud, then only the scammers will converse with you. Many of you don't get the hint and complain all the time about it. Some personal inspection may be in order. Your ego is huge but maybe that is all you got?
If your woman is upstairs waiting for you, I sincerely advise you to stop answering posts here and go to your woman ... these women do not appreciate being second to Internet, TV, or other entertainment ...
... when my wife goes to bed, if I am not already in bed at the time, she drags me upstairs with her :-) But I do not fight it, because I will regret it if she ever gets tired of waiting for me. Simple things like this will get you extra credits :-)
And I will follow my own advice, because my wife is about to go to sleep soon ... she first needs to call her mother for her birthday :-)